do you ever think...

[Fly_On_Wall]

of someone else when your haveing sex?

who?
why?

do you tell your partner?

 

[Dietrich K.]

of someone else when your haveing sex?

who?
why?

do you tell your partner?

You mean besides myself?

 

[SpiceCake]

I can honestly say that I have never thought about anyone else while having sex with another person - just that person. I have thought about other people while I masturbated when I was married, but not during sex. Of course, I masturbated much more than I had sex with him! Go figure!

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

Sometimes I think of Barbara Bush, when I'm trying to postpone the moment. Nothing political, just jappened to be the first lady at the time and it always makes me chuckle.

 

[islandman]

I can honestly say that I have never thought about anyone else while having sex with another person - just that person. I have thought about other people while I masturbated when I was married, but not during sex. Of course, I masturbated much more than I had sex with him! Go figure!

Let me know if you ever need a masturbation partner. I'm on call 24/7.

 

[Wiggles]

I tried it once, but it didn't do anything for me.

Who? It was Antonio Banderas.

Why? Just to see if it tickled my pervy bone.

Did I tell my partner? Do I look that ignorant?

 

[enjoyingitall]

I do..I think fantasies of others add a little something extra sometimes. It's not that my partner isn't pleasing me, it's just that I sometimes get carried away with thoughts of particular things or people that I enjoy having fantasies about.
And no, I don't share that with my partner...nor do I want him to share his thoughts along these lines with me if he has any.

 

[Guest]

 

[Wiggles]

Can't even see your snatch...get proper pic

I didn't want you to see my snatch.

 

[islandman]

I didn't want you to see my snatch.

He's never seen one.

 

[Guest]

 

[AzBt101]

Aluring

I think that pic is pretty damn aluring myself.. but then again I actually like being teased sometimes

AzBt

 

[SpiceCake]

Can't even see your snatch...get proper pic

And just where the hell is the picture of your tenny little cock?

 

[asenath]

Sometimes.

I've also thought about the errands I need to run the next day, the movies I've seen or want to see, what time I'm going to get up the next morning, etc.

 

[intrigued]

Sometimes.

I've also thought about the errands I need to run the next day, the movies I've seen or want to see, what time I'm going to get up the next morning, etc.

Me, too. I never once fantasized about anything at all when I was still married...all I ever thought about was what I needed to be doing, and all that I already had done and what he needed to do, what the kids needed done for them...my mind never shut down, and seldom did I sleep.

But now, I'm an endless fantasy, my head is filled with something else entirely. When I'm making love, it consumes me entirely, and I have no need for fantasy.

 

[asenath]

Me, too. I never once fantasized about anything at all when I was still married...all I ever thought about was what I needed to be doing, and all that I already had done and what he needed to do, what the kids needed done for them...my mind never shut down, and seldom did I sleep.

But now, I'm an endless fantasy, my head is filled with something else entirely. When I'm making love, it consumes me entirely, and I have no need for fantasy.

I do fantasize when I’m alone. It’s just that I can’t seem to concentrate on sex when I’m having it. Masturbation does more for me… maybe it wouldn’t if I had the right partner.

Oh well.

 

[intrigued]

I do fantasize when I’m alone. It’s just that I can’t seem to concentrate on sex when I’m having it. Masturbation does more for me… maybe it wouldn’t if I had the right partner.

Oh well.

Thats most likely a big part of it. It could also be that in masturbation, you are less inhibited.
When fantasizing during masturbation, we tend to let ourselves go, knowing that no one will ever know those thoughts, or what we are doing, its entirely selfish. It makes it so much easier, on top of the fact that our thoughts are so hot....