Do Men mind getting sucked by another man?

[nirmal1979]

Before I came on Lit, I was as straight as a ruler. I've always had gay friends and always been very supportive of them, but I've never had any fantasies regarding it. But, (whilst I can't remember how it started) I got talking to a guy on here and he started a three hour gay sex talk by simply saying (after he asked if I was gay and I replied above) "If I was there with you, casually, I'd start stroking your cock". At first I wasn't quite sure how to reply but I think he was banking on the fact that I'd be open. After a long talk about the above, with him putting more then a few suggestions my way that made me solid as a rock at the mere thought of him sucking my cock, I approached one of my gay friends and told him about what had happened on Lit. Within the hour, he was sucking my cock and man, did any pre-history feelings of me being completely straight went right out the window at around the same time he put his mouth around the head of my cock. By the time I cummed down his throat, I was practically begging to return the favour.

So, now I'm Bi. I've never felt attracted to men and I don't look at men on the street the same way I look at women, but if I was ever approached with an offer for a blow job by my friend (Which he's done a few times now, but we've never had sex, though I've gladly performed oral on him (given my sheer sexual lust for oral on the whole (be it male or female)) and feeling that amount of cum in my throat was better then when my Ex use to squirt) I'd happily take it. Or if a guy approched me with a MFM or MMFF I'd happily have a bi gang-bang like that. I'm still partial to girls, but I'm certainly never closed to the opportunity of having my friend suck me off, having me suck him off or talking about it at great length on Lit.

Awesome experience... I agree men usually never deny blow job.

 

[Bbb13]

Before I came on Lit, I was as straight as a ruler. I've always had gay friends and always been very supportive of them, but I've never had any fantasies regarding it. But, (whilst I can't remember how it started) I got talking to a guy on here and he started a three hour gay sex talk by simply saying (after he asked if I was gay and I replied above) "If I was there with you, casually, I'd start stroking your cock". At first I wasn't quite sure how to reply but I think he was banking on the fact that I'd be open. After a long talk about the above, with him putting more then a few suggestions my way that made me solid as a rock at the mere thought of him sucking my cock, I approached one of my gay friends and told him about what had happened on Lit. Within the hour, he was sucking my cock and man, did any pre-history feelings of me being completely straight went right out the window at around the same time he put his mouth around the head of my cock. By the time I cummed down his throat, I was practically begging to return the favour.

So, now I'm Bi. I've never felt attracted to men and I don't look at men on the street the same way I look at women, but if I was ever approached with an offer for a blow job by my friend (Which he's done a few times now, but we've never had sex, though I've gladly performed oral on him (given my sheer sexual lust for oral on the whole (be it male or female)) and feeling that amount of cum in my throat was better then when my Ex use to squirt) I'd happily take it. Or if a guy approched me with a MFM or MMFF I'd happily have a bi gang-bang like that. I'm still partial to girls, but I'm certainly never closed to the opportunity of having my friend suck me off, having me suck him off or talking about it at great length on Lit.

Sign me up

 

[BiTodd]

I have a few guy friends that I wish I could convince.

 

[bailadora]

This is a really interesting thread to me today, because I just had a brief conversation about it with someone. As a woman, I enjoy the thought of one man sucking off another while I can watch and enjoy the event. *smile* But I can't put my finger on why.

I'd be curious as to how many other women feel the same, and if they've discovered (or have theories) as to why it would be erotic for them.

I'll admit to perving on mm action. I suspect it's cause it's double of everything that turns me on: double the hot men, double the dick, double the tight asses. You get the drift.

Funnily enough, while even the thought of mm action squicks the hell out of my husband, he has no problem with f/f action. Hmmm, double standard, much? LOL

 

[Bbb13]

I'll admit to perving on mm action. I suspect it's cause it's double of everything that turns me on: double the hot men, double the dick, double the tight asses. You get the drift.

Funnily enough, while even the thought of mm action squicks the hell out of my husband, he has no problem with f/f action. Hmmm, double standard, much? LOL

Talk him into it

 

[bailadora]

Talk him into it

Nope. That's definitely a hard limit for him. Not gonna happen, not in a million years.

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

I'll admit to perving on mm action. I suspect it's cause it's double of everything that turns me on: double the hot men, double the dick, double the tight asses. You get the drift.

Funnily enough, while even the thought of mm action squicks the hell out of my husband, he has no problem with f/f action. Hmmm, double standard, much? LOL

"Double" is indeed the word. If your husband's like me, one male (that isn't him) disgusts him and makes him angry so m/m action is double everything that he hates: double the dick, double the sperm, double the enemies.

As for a double standard... meh. Unless he's hurting you with that double standard - a "You want me to do m/m action for your entertainment and I want you to do f/f action for my entertainment, and I don't want to do m/m action and you don't want to do f/f action, so let's me make you do f/f action while I watch and me not do m/m action ever" situation, for instance - what's it matter?

 

[BiTodd]

"Double" is indeed the word. If your husband's like me, one male (that isn't him) disgusts him and makes him angry so m/m action is double everything that he hates: double the men, double the dick, double the y-chromosome.

As for a double standard... meh. Unless he's hurting you with that double standard - a "You want me to do m/m action for your entertainment and I want you to do f/f action for my entertainment, and I don't want to do m/m action and you don't want to do f/f action, so let's you do f/f action while I watch and me not do m/m action", what's it matter?

huh???

 

[BiTodd]

Nope. That's definitely a hard limit for him. Not gonna happen, not in a million years.

Ok then I will have to send you pics.

 

[Bbb13]

Nope. That's definitely a hard limit for him. Not gonna happen, not in a million years.

But a woman can talk a man into anything

 

[Bbb13]

Ok then I will have to send you pics.

Send me pics

 

[bailadora]

"Double" is indeed the word. If your husband's like me, one male (that isn't him) disgusts him and makes him angry so m/m action is double everything that he hates: double the dick, double the sperm, double the enemies.

As for a double standard... meh. Unless he's hurting you with that double standard - a "You want me to do m/m action for your entertainment and I want you to do f/f action for my entertainment, and I don't want to do m/m action and you don't want to do f/f action, so let's me make you do f/f action while I watch and me not do m/m action ever" situation, for instance - what's it matter?

Let me put it this way: while f/f action does nothing for me sexually, neither does it gross me out. If my husband is in the mood for f/f porn and wants me to watch with him, I've got no problem with it. OTOH, if I want to watch mm porn - that's a solo activity because my husband can't stomach even the THOUGHT of mm action. He absolutely has every right to define his limits and have me respect them. And I do. It doesn't mean I find it any less irritating, at times.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Ok then I will have to send you pics.

Very hot. The idea of one man sucking off another is a huge turn on to me. Would love to be there watching and listening.

 

[BiTodd]

Very hot. The idea of one man sucking off another is a huge turn on to me. Would love to be there watching and listening.

I don't need a woman in the mix. I love it.stand alone but given the oppirtunity a woman's presense would add a dynamic that would turn up the heat and turn me into a very good cock sucker.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Admirably put. Here's to the carnally omnivorous, then: they work their way through the menu without worrying what the waiter might think.

That gave me a good laugh

I love how adamant some of the men are here. To quote Shakespeare, "Methinks thou dost protest too much."

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

Let me put it this way: while f/f action does nothing for me sexually, neither does it gross me out. If my husband is in the mood for f/f porn and wants me to watch with him, I've got no problem with it. OTOH, if I want to watch mm porn - that's a solo activity because my husband can't stomach even the THOUGHT of mm action. He has absolutely every right to define his limits and have me respect them. And I do. It doesn't mean I find it any less irritating, at times.

Ok. Put that way, why it matters makes sense - and in no way fits with all the negative connotations I attached to the phrase "double standard" that I'm thinking you didn't intend for me to.

 

[ima6uldv8]

I don't need a woman in the mix. I love it.stand alone but given the oppirtunity a woman's presense would add a dynamic that would turn up the heat and turn me into a very good cock sucker.

Oh, I. Was just speaking in general and thinking would be hot to see the pics But sounds like you might like performing.

 

[bailadora]

Ok. Put that way, why it matters makes sense - and in no way fits with all the negative connotations I attached to the phrase "double standard" that I'm thinking you didn't intend for me to.

How did you think I meant it?

 

[ilovesex29]

I would say majority of men will not say no if someone totally stranger or someone who is very close to you offers blow job.

Sometimes people worry about the label but according to my opinion "It's just sex"... just take it that way. People tend to be worrying that "What if" person goes around and tell...

Total confidentiality and trust of the person matters when it comes to getting or giving a blow job to men.


It works both way, I mean if someone close to you, who is attracted to you and wouldn't mind going down on you but he might be confused or scared to ask with similar thoughts.

Overall, I would say 90% to 95% men wouldn't pass the chance.

 

[Starbourne]

That gave me a good laugh

I love how adamant some of the men are here. To quote Shakespeare, "Methinks thou dost protest too much."

God, but you're so right. But then, I hate labels. Loathe any individual view-point that's represented as being somehow a general truth when it's merely representative of whoever happens to hold that view.

Such an individual may think like that. Fair enough. But that doesn't mean everyone else has to. Doesn't mean that I have to think ah, well, there's a guy on this thread, this board, where the hell ever, to whom the idea of sucking cock or having his cock sucked must must must appeal to him because he's inherently gay. Or inherently bi.

Or whatever other fuckin' "inherently" label is going to be slapped on human sexuality so as to make it simple for simpletons.

All I see is a guy who isn't setting llimitations on either gender or opportunity in his pursuit of a life in which sex is celebrated for the joy that it is -- same way that I see any woman who is also ready to discard the inhibitions of cultural conditioning so as to see if she might enjoy sex regardless of gender.

Bottom line (and yup, you can fuck my ass if I've got this wrong after that kind of remark), bottom line: no human being is defined by labels and certainly not by third-rate cracker barrel psychology that speaks of 'latent' this or 'latent' that, an 'inherent' this or an 'inherent' that.

We live. We love. We fuck. We suck. We are. Men and women alike.

T'ain't no big thing. And what we're chatting about here, it certainly doesn't deserve to be weighed down by other people's baggage. It's SEX. And it seems to me, the sooner there's less of the agonising and more of the ecstasy, the better we'll all of us be.

 

[bailadora]

Or whatever other fuckin' "inherently" label is going to be slapped on human sexuality so as to make it simple for simpletons.

All I see is a guy who isn't setting llimitations on either gender or opportunity in his pursuit of a life in which sex is celebrated for the joy that it is -- same way that I see any woman who is also ready to discard the inhibitions of cultural conditioning so as to see if she might enjoy sex regardless of gender.

Bottom line (and yup, you can fuck my ass if I've got this wrong after that kind of remark), bottom line: no human being is defined by labels and certainly not by third-rate cracker barrel psychology that speaks of 'latent' this or 'latent' that, an 'inherent' this or an 'inherent' that.

Perhaps I'm one of the simpletons, but I don't understand how you'd think social conditioning is what determines sexual orientation. While I can certainly see how it might keep someone from acting upon their sexual desires, it's my understanding that sexual orientation isn't a choice. That it's something as unchangeable as say, our natural eye color.

Using myself as an example, I can honestly say that I've never felt sexual desire for another woman. That's not to say I can't appreciate women on an aesthetic level, but they just aren't what gets me wet. For me, the menfolk are where it's at.

 

[BiTodd]

My opinion is that it is a combination of hardwiring we are born with and conditioning. I believe that many people repress their fantasies for the same sex because of lifelong conditioning.

 

[EroticApology]

How old are you? I think when a person uses the term "given the chance" it means they have already decided that its something they would do. What they are waiting for is the opportunity to present itself. Also, if a person is engaging in certain sexual acts by choice it usually means its something they are attracted to (unless their using sex for money). In other words, this male knew beforehand that he was attracted to men and was waiting for the opportunity to present itself.

 

[Bbb13]

I think I would need a woman present

 

[Bbb13]

So my question is, do women fantasize about this?