Do Men mind getting sucked by another man?

[Somehowyou]

You can't be fecking serious. Do you honestly believe that? That would be like saying that the victim of childhood molestation gets erect because he is enjoying his abuser touching him. The penis is going to respond to tactile stimulation, not to the person providing the stimulation. When you used to get a boner in 8th grade science, was it because you secretly lusted after biology?

Great comment, I love it.

I hate it when men on a anonymous forum find they have to sit around and talk about how straight they are. It's one thing in real life on the sports field, job site, or in the military etc. when anything that looks "gay" is publicly discounted out of hand. In reality, I remmeber back in high school there were jerk circles and sleep overs with mutual masturbation. There was no cock sucking and nothing was ever said about it after. We were straight but couldn't yet convince any of the girls that they should consider having sex with us so we did what we could to get by.

I remember that in college I was out drinking with a bunch of college friends and one guy told a story about New Orleans. He purchased a blow job from a prositute. Half way through the BJ he asked her if she was a shemale. She answered yes. He said he told her to keep sucking. He raised the question "Does it really matter who is sucking your dick?"

Today I would say I would prefer that the person sucking my cock is a very attractive female. I have had some fun with TS/TVs. I am not into men...not enough to want to get naked with one and let him suck my dick...unless he is a convincing TS/TV...and then I will get so excited and the sucking will be mutual.

It took me about 40 years to come around to this and to open up to what I really like. Prior to this there was a lot of chest pumping and posturing etc and wasting time. I too would have crowed that I would be disgusted and never do that etc. etc. Not today. Life is too short.

 

[Somehowyou]

My opinion is that it is a combination of hardwiring we are born with and conditioning. I believe that many people repress their fantasies for the same sex because of lifelong conditioning.

The repressed fantasy thing is true. I had a male teacher in High School. He wore a crew cut and talked about the good old days and how everyone was a hippy etc. He wrote articles to the editorial board about how everything in this world was going down hill and we should get back to family values and religon.

A few years back he was caught in a hotel room in a seady part of town with a black man's penis in his mouth. The black man was a male prostitute. He had to step down in disgrace. He had a compulsion he could not control.

Bailadora - you do not know what your husband is capable of doing. Men do not have the freedom to admit it that they have the attraction or a curiosity about cock. Society only allows women this right.

 

[ima6uldv8]

So my question is, do women fantasize about this?

Read the thread. Hell, even read this page. Oops. Read page 3

 

[Sdbiguy]

I love sucking and getting sucked by other guys but my opinion is bias

 

[SPERMANENT]

let it be a guy behind a gloryhole and.....

......i can guarantee ANY straight guy getting sucked can't tell a guy's mouth from that of a girl AND will therefore come!!!!!

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

How did you think I meant it?

I'm used to seeing the phrase "double standard" as an accusation of hypocrisy or a strong criticism of at least half the standard - a contradiction of some part of "He absolutely has every right to define his limits and have me respect them. And I do.". So I reacted to that instead of really thinking about the context you used the phrase in. Sorry about that.

God, but you're so right. But then, I hate labels. Loathe any individual view-point that's represented as being somehow a general truth when it's merely representative of whoever happens to hold that view.

Such an individual may think like that. Fair enough. But that doesn't mean everyone else has to. Doesn't mean that I have to think ah, well, there's a guy on this thread, this board, where the hell ever, to whom the idea of sucking cock or having his cock sucked must must must appeal to him because he's inherently gay. Or inherently bi.

Or whatever other fuckin' "inherently" label is going to be slapped on human sexuality so as to make it simple for simpletons.

All I see is a guy who isn't setting llimitations on either gender or opportunity in his pursuit of a life in which sex is celebrated for the joy that it is -- same way that I see any woman who is also ready to discard the inhibitions of cultural conditioning so as to see if she might enjoy sex regardless of gender.

Bottom line (and yup, you can fuck my ass if I've got this wrong after that kind of remark), bottom line: no human being is defined by labels and certainly not by third-rate cracker barrel psychology that speaks of 'latent' this or 'latent' that, an 'inherent' this or an 'inherent' that.

We live. We love. We fuck. We suck. We are. Men and women alike.

T'ain't no big thing. And what we're chatting about here, it certainly doesn't deserve to be weighed down by other people's baggage. It's SEX. And it seems to me, the sooner there's less of the agonising and more of the ecstasy, the better we'll all of us be.

The part I bolded? It seems to me that there's several posts on here telling me that either I'm "inherently" bi (and repressing it) or I should be bi (because I'm only not bi due to societal pressure). Kind of irritating, although not as much as the insinuations that I'm lying when I dispute those propositions.

 

[bailadora]

Bailadora - you do not know what your husband is capable of doing. Men do not have the freedom to admit it that they have the attraction or a curiosity about cock. Society only allows women this right.

Given our homophobic society - I agree with this assertion, in general. In my specific case, I'll say it's possible but not probable.

Why? Because my husband is aware my kinks and my fantasies, even if he might not share them. Further, we've done everything possible to provide an encouraging and non-judgmental environment when it pertains to the discussion of fantasies and desires. And to the extent that I've felt comfortable doing so, I've done whatever I can make his fantasies reality. So he if he did have any sexual curiosity pertaining to men, then he ought to be fully aware that I'd be the last person to judge him.

 

[jezbel]

So my question is, do women fantasize about this?

Yes definitely. I wouldn't want to watch my partner do it because I hate the idea of a threesome with him - I'd be to jealous. Also he's one of those guys that claims: 'I'd never do that'...

But watching male on male porn is a huge turn on. I watched a really sexy one once with two athletic black men, they weren't having oral sex, but one of them was fucking the other really hard - the one underneath was moaning as if it was hurting, but they were both so masculine, and I think that's what made it particularly good - the power dynamics. Unfortunately it was on the internet and I've never found it again.

 

[culloden]

I'll admit to perving on mm action. I suspect it's cause it's double of everything that turns me on: double the hot men, double the dick, double the tight asses. You get the drift.

Funnily enough, while even the thought of mm action squicks the hell out of my husband, he has no problem with f/f action. Hmmm, double standard, much? LOL

Nope, no double standard. Just a normal hetero guy.

 

[culloden]

But a woman can talk a man into anything

Mmmm, no.

 

[nirmal1979]

I am glad that there are plenty of men around who enjoy getting blow job by another man... I guess it is just sex.

 

[CeasarBoobage]

But a woman can talk a man into anything

Close... A woman can talk a man into almost anything. Not everything. Some things are off-limits for many people.

There isn't much chance that anyone can get me to have that kind of skin-on-skin contact with another guy. Not sex, not a BJ, not even a naked hug. It is NOT gonna happen.


I hate how this thread is turning into a "if a guy doesn't admit to liking cock-play with another guy, he's a homophobe" kind of chat. Some people only want to enjoy the genitals of the opposite sex (or themselves). Some people only want the genitals of the same gender. Some people like getting and giving everything to everyone.
That's how it is, and it's not likely to change because of how you talk on a forum post. Just drop the trash-talkin already.