Do Men mind getting sucked by another man?

This is a really interesting thread to me today, because I just had a brief conversation about it with someone. As a woman, I enjoy the thought of one man sucking off another while I can watch and enjoy the event. *smile* But I can't put my finger on why.

I'd be curious as to how many other women feel the same, and if they've discovered (or have theories) as to why it would be erotic for them.
 
If you get hard in a mans hand or mouth you are attracted to them and by definition that would be homosexual.

You can't be fecking serious. Do you honestly believe that? That would be like saying that the victim of childhood molestation gets erect because he is enjoying his abuser touching him. The penis is going to respond to tactile stimulation, not to the person providing the stimulation. When you used to get a boner in 8th grade science, was it because you secretly lusted after biology?
 
:)
I only look at the am pic section on here!
Good one!!!
But I still say if you are getting your cock sucked by a guy you best be near the closet you came out from... just in case that is!

I wasn't calling you a homophobe, btw. I'm glad you didn't take it that way. :)
 
It's just SEX :)

I never done this but I guess given a chance all men have bi tendency. Personally I would say Who cares... After lights are off mouth is mouth...

Lol
 
You can't be fecking serious. Do you honestly believe that? That would be like saying that the victim of childhood molestation gets erect because he is enjoying his abuser touching him. The penis is going to respond to tactile stimulation, not to the person providing the stimulation. When you used to get a boner in 8th grade science, was it because you secretly lusted after biology?

No it wouldn't be like saying that at all.
To agree for a man to suck you off and actually be aroused it is more than tactile sensations...
Oh and no it was because I went there after art class and she was hot!
 
Labels. :mad: I thought people were growing out of 'em, but evidently not.

Having the occasional salad doesn't make one a vegetarian.
 
I know. It's almost endearing, the way so many get naked for sex but still clothe themselves (and others) in the labels of their own inhibitions.

I don't have a problem with inhibitions - Certainly, I embrace a few myself. You will never see me naked in Times Square, for example. What interests me is how things take on a different reality once they're named. For example, if I were then to label myself a non-exhibitionist, it becomes something else, something more concrete. This process helps us to think by reducing complexities, and it helps us to form opinions, good or bad. But too often, people don't really consider the meanings and implications behind labels, particularly in these sound-bite times.
 
I was wondering how long it would take for the "Don't label me, man!" crowd to show up. People judge. People label. People compartmentalize. We all do it because it's one way of trying to make sense of what's going on around us. I'm not begrudging anyone the opportunity to sample some cock, 'cause I'm a fan of it myself, but if you're a dude and you're fucking, being fucked by, or sucking off other men at the local Pick 'n' Poke and then going back home to your wife and kids--well, that's not exactly "straight" behavior, is it? In all the years that I've been at Lit, I've never been able to grasp some of the "logic" around here.

I've noticed that the people who protest so vehemently about being labeled are often the ones who feel the most uncomfortable with or guilty about their behavior; I think, too, that they're reacting to the homophobia that's still rampant in our society.

To be honest, I think most of the stuff that gets posted on Lit (particularly on the GLBT and Fetish boards) is hot air and wishful thinking, so I take everything I read here with a pillar of salt, but if even a little bit of it is true, then some of y'all are putting your unsuspecting partners in danger because of your behavior. Perhaps the wish for a label-free society stems from magical thinking: If I tell myself I'm straight, then my partner won't catch anything nasty from the men I'm meeting up with.

I don't care what consenting adults do in private. I don't even care about the whole label issue all that much. I just wish people would be honest with themselves for the sake of those who care most about them.
 
I was wondering how long it would take for the "Don't label me, man!" crowd to show up. People judge. People label. People compartmentalize. We all do it because it's one way of trying to make sense of what's going on around us. I'm not begrudging anyone the opportunity to sample some cock, 'cause I'm a fan of it myself, but if you're a dude and you're fucking, being fucked by, or sucking off other men at the local Pick 'n' Poke and then going back home to your wife and kids--well, that's not exactly "straight" behavior, is it? In all the years that I've been at Lit, I've never been able to grasp some of the "logic" around here.

I've noticed that the people who protest so vehemently about being labeled are often the ones who feel the most uncomfortable with or guilty about their behavior; I think, too, that they're reacting to the homophobia that's still rampant in our society.

To be honest, I think most of the stuff that gets posted on Lit (particularly on the GLBT and Fetish boards) is hot air and wishful thinking, so I take everything I read here with a pillar of salt, but if even a little bit of it is true, then some of y'all are putting your unsuspecting partners in danger because of your behavior. Perhaps the wish for a label-free society stems from magical thinking: If I tell myself I'm straight, then my partner won't catch anything nasty from the men I'm meeting up with.

I don't care what consenting adults do in private. I don't even care about the whole label issue all that much. I just wish people would be honest with themselves for the sake of those who care most about them.

No kind of crowd has shown up here. And certainly no 'don't-label-me' mob. Your somewhat convoluted views might receive a more sympathetic treatment if you eased back on the omniscience: just because you act in a particular way doesn't mean everyone else does -- it's possible that more people go with the flow nowadays than you might think.
 
I once watched a gay friend suck an exBF of mine.

I didn't think that made my ex Gay or Bi or whatever. It just meant he liked BJs -- which I kinda new.
 
It was a bit freaky the first time but after that it was great.
I've had several and I've never had a bad blowjob from a guy.
 
It's only gay if you cuddle afterwards.

Hahaha...that just made me laugh for some reason...

As to the question, I never have been and I've never been turned on by the thought. I can't imagine myself ever allowing it to happen but I won't say never cause this is a strange strange world we live in and shit happens. I can understand though how a "straight" male could be turned on by the stimulation, it's just not something I'm interested in trying.
 
yes i think i would

as part of a MMF or two couples, I think if i got aksed , it would be a yes please!
 
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