Distance Domination-Support Thread

[ecstaticsub]

I'm sorry you don't get to make this trip. *hugs* But how your Daddy handled your crying sounds like the same way Jounar does *giggles*.

I remember the last night I was there, I had been trying the few days before that to not be upset, even that day, but as we curled together in bed that night my pending flight back just overwhelmed me. I started softly sobbing, trying desperately to not let him know. I'm still not sure if he heard me, felt my tears, or what, but he held me just a little tighter, looked down at me and said. "Hey are you crying? You shouldn't be crying, you should be fucking me".

He still makes me laugh every time something upsets me.

Domly ones can be so practical sometimes.. lol especially when it comes to sex.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

Domly ones can be so practical sometimes.. lol especially when it comes to sex.

Ain't that the truth?


They dont like to get caught out themselves though......Daddy and I were lying together curled up, he thought I was asleep. "God I do love you girl" he whispered. When He found out I had heard, he accused me of cheating silly Daddy.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Ain't that the truth?


They dont like to get caught out themselves though......Daddy and I were lying together curled up, he thought I was asleep. "God I do love you girl" he whispered. When He found out I had heard, he accused me of cheating silly Daddy.

Oh yeah, that I know well too. I affectionally refer to Daddy as Evil Ogre which he tends to be most of the time. But when he quietly unexpectedly says he loves me or expresses how much he needs me...those times are priceless and remain locked in my memory.

 

[the captians wench]

Jounar is something of a romantic, he tells me how much he misses me and loves me pretty regularly....sometimes even more than I tell him even.

He did like to sneak kisses on me when I wasn't expecting it while I was there. Like our very first kiss, at the airport. He'd told me since he met me that he would do it, but I still missed it.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

Daddy tells me he loves me 10 times a day.....but every so often there is that one time I am not expecting, the one time he says it to the spirits, when its not for my ears, its for them and when I do hear it, it floors me.

 

[the captians wench]

Daddy tells me he loves me 10 times a day.....but every so often there is that one time I am not expecting, the one time he says it to the spirits, when its not for my ears, its for them and when I do hear it, it floors me.

I don't think I've ever experienced this.

If he has done it, then I didn't hear it and I guess he's just good at knowing when I'm not paying attention. *giggles*


I took my pictures in today to show this crew some of what I experienced on my first trip there. This crew is all in agreement with the last store, I gots me a cutie. *giggles*

 

[Hisbeauty]

i am very happy this evening.

Sir surprised me with a dinner visit on His way through town. i had no clue He would even be close, and He called me tonight and said, "where are you right now?"

What a wonderful evening. A lot of laughing, looking at Him, and some great hugs and kisses. i am one happy girl right now!

 

[Silvaria928]

I'm new.

Hello to everyone. I am new here...and I'm not quite sure how to do any of this, to be honest. I'm very new to this entire realm, as it were...should I introduce myself and tell my story, or let everyone ask questions? I'm sorry, I don't know the protocol, so I suppose I will simply say that I am Silvaria, and I am here because this particular subject interests me right now, for personal reasons. And with that, I will continue reading to gauge the general mood of the forum. Thank you for your time.

 

[myinnerslut]

Hello to everyone. I am new here...and I'm not quite sure how to do any of this, to be honest. I'm very new to this entire realm, as it were...should I introduce myself and tell my story, or let everyone ask questions? I'm sorry, I don't know the protocol, so I suppose I will simply say that I am Silvaria, and I am here because this particular subject interests me right now, for personal reasons. And with that, I will continue reading to gauge the general mood of the forum. Thank you for your time.

there really is no protocol. dont be rude. thats about it.

feel free to ramble on, we all certainly do at times.

and welcome to lit

 

[myinnerslut]

Jounar is something of a romantic, he tells me how much he misses me and loves me pretty regularly....sometimes even more than I tell him even.

He did like to sneak kisses on me when I wasn't expecting it while I was there. Like our very first kiss, at the airport. He'd told me since he met me that he would do it, but I still missed it.

i missed my first kiss with Master too.

i was asleep. he woke me up and i reached up and pulled him into me to kiss him.

but i dont remember a damn thing!

 

[Homburg]

i missed my first kiss with Master too.

i was asleep. he woke me up and i reached up and pulled him into me to kiss him.

but i dont remember a damn thing!

I remember it.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Hello to everyone. I am new here...and I'm not quite sure how to do any of this, to be honest. I'm very new to this entire realm, as it were...should I introduce myself and tell my story, or let everyone ask questions? I'm sorry, I don't know the protocol, so I suppose I will simply say that I am Silvaria, and I am here because this particular subject interests me right now, for personal reasons. And with that, I will continue reading to gauge the general mood of the forum. Thank you for your time.

Welcome! I see this thread as a little haven for those of us in LDRs or internet relationships. On this thread no one is calling our relationships not "real" or "true". It's a nice safe haven to express the frustrations and joys of a long-distance relationship. Sometime I come here asking advice, sometimes just to vent, sometimes to share my excitement after a visit.

Come in share as much as you feel comfortable, ask questions as you wish, or just hang out

 

[the captians wench]

Hello to everyone. I am new here...and I'm not quite sure how to do any of this, to be honest. I'm very new to this entire realm, as it were...should I introduce myself and tell my story, or let everyone ask questions? I'm sorry, I don't know the protocol, so I suppose I will simply say that I am Silvaria, and I am here because this particular subject interests me right now, for personal reasons. And with that, I will continue reading to gauge the general mood of the forum. Thank you for your time.

I'm just going to ditto MIS and ES. Welcome.

 

[HisSexyPet]

After over a year of being apart, reservations have been made, vacation time planned. He is coming to visit!! First order of business...well second...is getting me my first collar and Him putting it on.
We have had a LDR for 3 years. One year of separation since we found vanilla didn't work for us. Upon finding this forum and sharing with Him we have become the Us that works. This will be our first real life meeting after our night of discovery where we both revealed our true selves to each other. I am as nervous as a virgin planning prom night.

 

[ecstaticsub]

After over a year of being apart, reservations have been made, vacation time planned. He is coming to visit!! First order of business...well second...is getting me my first collar and Him putting it on.
We have had a LDR for 3 years. One year of separation since we found vanilla didn't work for us. Upon finding this forum and sharing with Him we have become the Us that works. This will be our first real life meeting after our night of discovery where we both revealed our true selves to each other. I am as nervous as a virgin planning prom night.

As soon as I read your post I flashed back to the moment right before I met Daddy in person for the first time. He had emailed me the hotel confirmation information. It was finally real, we were going to meet. I felt exactly as you described. It's a rather delicious feeling, that nervous excitement.

I wish you all my best for a magical visit.

 

[the captians wench]

As you know I've been holding back and fighting getting excited about my planed trip in October, but I did something this weekend to make me feel like I'm atleast moving closer to it....I bought euro.

I only got about half of what my budget is, I can always use my card there. It's something small, but it is a move forward and it does make me feel better.

I've also been looking into hotels. While city center hotels are pricier, they wouldn't require taxies or as much in transpertation. But I've found something even more cost effecient, as I mentioned a few posts ago, I've found apartments for short term letting. Looking into these apartments has also helped me cope and feel enough excitement with out letting it go overboard.

Now I'm planing on looking into things that I'd like to do while I'm there and get an entertainment budget going.

I'm still worried about getting too excited just yet.

I did find out that it might be possible to move my vacation time, which is very unusual. I'll just have to make sure SKL can adjust my buddy pass so I don't loose money by moving my vacation.

I'm still holding out hope that it will happen in October, but I'm just too afraid to get excited about it. I really want to, it's time to. I want to start getting things together to pack. I think it might be time to talk to him about it again. I'm just scared.

 

[ecstaticsub]

As you know I've been holding back and fighting getting excited about my planed trip in October, but I did something this weekend to make me feel like I'm atleast moving closer to it....I bought euro.

I only got about half of what my budget is, I can always use my card there. It's something small, but it is a move forward and it does make me feel better.

I've also been looking into hotels. While city center hotels are pricier, they wouldn't require taxies or as much in transpertation. But I've found something even more cost effecient, as I mentioned a few posts ago, I've found apartments for short term letting. Looking into these apartments has also helped me cope and feel enough excitement with out letting it go overboard.

Now I'm planing on looking into things that I'd like to do while I'm there and get an entertainment budget going.

I'm still worried about getting too excited just yet.

I did find out that it might be possible to move my vacation time, which is very unusual. I'll just have to make sure SKL can adjust my buddy pass so I don't loose money by moving my vacation.

I'm still holding out hope that it will happen in October, but I'm just too afraid to get excited about it. I really want to, it's time to. I want to start getting things together to pack. I think it might be time to talk to him about it again. I'm just scared.

I'm sure you have explained this in the past but I must have missed it...does Jounar not live alone? Are you not able to just stay at his place? This is just a thought but if you are really short on cash maybe it would be worth it to cut out all entertainment and just stay at the least expensive place you can find and just entertain each other? Take walks, hang out in pubs, stay in bed all day...

 

[the captians wench]

I'm sure you have explained this in the past but I must have missed it...does Jounar not live alone? Are you not able to just stay at his place? This is just a thought but if you are really short on cash maybe it would be worth it to cut out all entertainment and just stay at the least expensive place you can find and just entertain each other? Take walks, hang out in pubs, stay in bed all day...

His mom doesn't have the best of heath. He lives with his fokes to help them out. Staying there just wouldn't work out if you know what I mean.

Most of what I want to do is free, museums and what not. I know he wants to do it up when while I'm there, so I'm looking for cheap alternitives. I'm not looking for a lot to do, he's likely to have to work anyway, I'm just looking for things to do to entertain myself while he's at work.

 

[Silvaria928]

Thank you for the welcomes. I've been reading through more of this thread, and everyone seems fairly comfortable here, which is very nice.

I won't go into enormous detail about why I am here, except to say that I'm in the process of entering into my first D/s relationship, and I'm both terrified and ecstatic at the same time. I live on the West coast of the US, he lives on the East coast of Canada. We have never met, but have known each other for 6 months in an MMO RPG that I have been playing for 2 years (yes, I'm a computer geek, LOL).

The very first night we met in the game, things were extremely intense and powerful...we both knew we'd found a turning point in our lives. We both had dark fetishes that we'd learned to keep hidden from everyone, but somehow, we sensed it in each other. It has been a very rough road...we broke up 3 months ago due to a terrible misunderstanding, which has been worked through, and have finally gotten back together.

Anyhow...the subject of him being my Master and my being his Slave came up late last week...and I am rather amazed that not only have I started falling into the role quite easily, I am happier and feeling more content than I have in years. Unfortunately, I am also a rather strong-willed person myself, and I've already screwed up once rather badly, and had to be punished. But I do need to learn, as I want more than anything to make him smile...he truly has the most beautiful smile I have ever seen.

And so, being the inquisitive person that I am, I decided to begin searching around online to see what I could find to help me be a better Pet for him...and I found this website's forums. I've been reading Literotica stories for months now, but had never paid attention to the forums. Imagine my surprise upon finding a Distance D/s thread, LOL...hadn't though such a thing could exist.

I am already looking into getting a passport, and hope to be meeting him later this year. I guess I just wanted to share...I am giddily happy, I've never felt anything even remotely like this, and I'm 41 years old...not exactly a spring chicken, LOL. I am so very proud to be his Pet, and I will be looking to you guys for hints on what I can do to be my best...thanks to everyone for reading my story. I hope to get to know some of you better in the coming months.

 

[Silvaria928]

And, I apologize for the spam, but I added an avatar and a signature quote, and I want to make sure they are working.

 

[the captians wench]

And, I apologize for the spam, but I added an avatar and a signature quote, and I want to make sure they are working.

You don't get an av until you have 100 posts.

 

[Silvaria928]

You don't get an av until you have 100 posts.

LOL...thank you. I was going nuts trying to figure out why the hell I couldn't seem to find an avatar option.

 

[Homburg]

And, I apologize for the spam, but I added an avatar and a signature quote, and I want to make sure they are working.

You have to have a certain number of posts prior to the avatar working.

And if you poke around, you'll find a "Gamer Community" thread where geeking is certainly expected.

 

[ecstaticsub]

His mom doesn't have the best of heath. He lives with his fokes to help them out. Staying there just wouldn't work out if you know what I mean.

Most of what I want to do is free, museums and what not. I know he wants to do it up when while I'm there, so I'm looking for cheap alternitives. I'm not looking for a lot to do, he's likely to have to work anyway, I'm just looking for things to do to entertain myself while he's at work.

I knew there had to be a good reason Even when we become adults, or maybe especially now as adults there are always complications. I understand now why you would want to be near the city center. Hopefully he'll be able to take some time off from work.

 

[the captians wench]

I knew there had to be a good reason Even when we become adults, or maybe especially now as adults there are always complications. I understand now why you would want to be near the city center. Hopefully he'll be able to take some time off from work.

Taking time off really isn't the issue, he has plenty of time off lately, and that's the issue.

I really don't mind if he has to work while I'm there. I can entertain myself. I just don't want him to post pone another trip because he needs to work. I don't care if we can't spend all day together, just as long as he can kiss me goodnight when we get ready for bed and goodmorning before he leaves for work.