Distance Domination-Support Thread

[MasterPhoenix]

This thread is a great support for all of us who are in a LDR. Welcome to the thread pandora.

I hope you can find a way to get your Control needs met.

 

[pandoravampire]

there has been much talk of going from online, to real life. How the emphasis is on that 'real life' is so much more better!

Well, im going the other way. From living real life submission, to include time for me to be on line dominant.

That is surely, a very similar situation to those that meet up for a weekend. Then part. You go from real life, to on line.

I wonder if anyone would care to provide some guidance, on what i need to consider for on line. What makes a good 'on liner' would be grate lol.

Someone mentioned having the cam on, whilst they slept, how that made them feel watched over, protected. I can so see that. I could so watch that. That for me, would give me a heady feeling of relaxed control. Lush!

The original link to the parent thread no longer works. Can anyone unlock it so that i may read it please?


Bumping up the thread, for entirely un-altruistic perposes.
pandoravampire

 

[myinnerslut]

welcome pandora vampire!!!

 

[SECRETDOM]

Welcome PV,

You will find this group to be very friendly and very helpful.
SD

 

[myinnerslut]

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[myinnerslut]

Welcome PV,

You will find this group to be very friendly and very helpful.
SD

hey SD.... how have things been for you lately? i remeber our visits to our SOs where right around the same time, got anything planned?

 

[SECRETDOM]

hey SD.... how have things been for you lately? i remeber our visits to our SOs where right around the same time, got anything planned?

Hi "mis"!

Yes we have a great weekend planned! I have allowed pet to plan our "outdoor" fun and she is going to surprise me for the most part!

The indoor activities I am planning and can't really post hear because she will read it

I can PM you and give you some of my ideas if that would be ok
SD

 

[myinnerslut]

Hi "mis"!

Yes we have a great weekend planned! I have allowed pet to plan our "outdoor" fun and she is going to surprise me for the most part!

The indoor activities I am planning and can't really post hear because she will read it

I can PM you and give you some of my ideas if that would be ok
SD

that would be awsome.... every once in a while Sir tells me to come up with what to do next so ive been gathering ideas...

 

[SECRETDOM]

that would be awsome.... every once in a while Sir tells me to come up with what to do next so ive been gathering ideas...

Oh I want to hear your ideas!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

there has been much talk of going from online, to real life. How the emphasis is on that 'real life' is so much more better!

Well, im going the other way. From living real life submission, to include time for me to be on line dominant.

That is surely, a very similar situation to those that meet up for a weekend. Then part. You go from real life, to on line.

I wonder if anyone would care to provide some guidance, on what i need to consider for on line. What makes a good 'on liner' would be grate lol.

Someone mentioned having the cam on, whilst they slept, how that made them feel watched over, protected. I can so see that. I could so watch that. That for me, would give me a heady feeling of relaxed control. Lush!

The original link to the parent thread no longer works. Can anyone unlock it so that i may read it please?


Bumping up the thread, for entirely un-altruistic perposes.
pandoravampire

welcome PV! the main thing to remember about online, is it takes ALOT more to gain the trust of your PYL/pyl. because the pyl can say she/he is doing what you've asked but not really be doing it. i say take it slow, get to know the person, and then move into the online BDSM thing with them. make sure you make Honesty your top priority. there is nothing i can say that will make you a 'good onliner' it's all in who you are and how you live it. for me, Master adn i have been together for 3 years, and only seen each other face to face twice in that 3 years. but we are not too far off now from making it 'real life' 24/7. though also for us, it's never NOT been 'real life' 24/7. not sure i've said much of anything useful..so i'll end my post here..lol...and wish you luck and hope to see you frequenting this thread. it's a great place for support.

 

[littleone77]

I wonder if anyone would care to provide some guidance, on what i need to consider for on line. What makes a good 'on liner' would be grate lol.pandoravampire

You need that connection. Many claim the spark isn't possible online but it is when the other is the One. You just know it. Like Rose said start slow, feel each other out and know what you both want. So many just jump into it full throttle only to find out its not working for them. That is when feelings get hurt.

I waited a long time before I found Him. We went slow and made sure sex wasn't what our whole relationship is about. Any one can cyber but it takes some one special to have a meaningful relationship with, to trust them with your heart, soul and body. I haven't looked back since.

Hope my thoughts help a little bit.

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

only 22 days untill my four day visit with Sir

i have 3 months and 3 weeks...i sure hope the time flies by

 

[SECRETDOM]

i have 3 months and 3 weeks...i sure hope the time flies by

Nice to see you here!

 

[the captians wench]

Sometimes he just has a way of making the gap between us seem not so wide.

 

[myinnerslut]

.........

 

[littleone77]

*small smiles*

My collar arrived yesterday and late last night/early this morning we made it official so to speak. Waiting most of the day was torture but it was worth the wait. Sweetest words ever...

 

[SECRETDOM]

*small smiles*

My collar arrived yesterday and late last night/early this morning we made it official so to speak. Waiting most of the day was torture but it was worth the wait. Sweetest words ever...

CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Can you tell us about it? Was there a ceremony?

 

[littleone77]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Can you tell us about it? Was there a ceremony?

A little bit yes....the collar itself is simple yet elegant, fits my personality some might say...the actual act was similiar *small smiles*

"I own you ---- and I love you" words I shall never forget.

 

[myinnerslut]

A little bit yes....the collar itself is simple yet elegant, fits my personality some might say...the actual act was similiar *small smiles*

"I own you ---- and I love you" words I shall never forget.

CONGRATULATIONS


do we get pictures?

 

[littleone77]

CONGRATULATIONS


do we get pictures?

Ty

I am a bit paranoid about pictures...its a black collar with a silver-esq pendant...its weird but I feel drawn to it. And the timing of it is ironic

 

[myinnerslut]

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[pandoravampire]

Ty for the welcome to this fantastic thread.

I am indeed taking this slowly. Its been a long time since i was in top space. And i believe i may have found a man who shares a mutual interest in a particular facet of D/s that im greatly attracted to. But early days indeed.

But im rather impatient as a rule, so patience, is a something i continue to work on lol.

Congratulations little1 on your collaring. My best wishes to you and your Dominant.

Pandoravampire

 

[myinnerslut]

i like your AV pandora!!!

 

[littleone77]

ironic? how so?

and thats ok... Sir wont let me show a picture of mine either

I was collared, my time at least, on Valentine's Day thus the ironic part.

*Laughs* I never asked if I could show pics as I have a hard enough time sharing pictures with Him, *blushs*


And thanks Pandora...it took a while to find one we both agreed upon.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Congratulations littleone