Distance Domination-Support Thread

[the captians wench]

Congrats littleone

 

[CollaredTigressK8]

Hi everybody!

i am in a long distance relationship with an extremely loving Master with whom i will be starting a life in June. i often find myself getting impatient, though not with Him...(did that once, and never again, thanks!) but only because I can hardly wait to be with Him. i have been collared with an engagement ring, LOL, and am very anxious to be able to spend my days... and nights... with Him after so much time apart. Whomever began this thread, thank you... it's nice to find a place where i feel as though i belong.

 

[Sprinkles22]

*Pity Party Alert*

Distance sucks! I get so impatient that I cannot pack up and go to visit Him anytime I want. I looked last night at plane tickets, and if I could visit 2 weeks from now the ticket fare is reasonable, but if I have to wait until summer then it's going to cost almost twice as much. *sigh*

Ok, so money isn't really the problem. I can afford to go anytime I want; our schedules are the problem. I'm needed here, and He's needed there. We're making all these big plans for "next time", and damnit ... I want next time NOW, not 3 months from now!!!!

Why does 1100 miles have to be so far away???? Grrrrrrr

*End of Pity Party*

 

[Stegral]

*Pity Party Alert*
We're making all these big plans for "next time", and damnit ... I want next time NOW, not 3 months from now!!!!

Why does 1100 miles have to be so far away???? Grrrrrrr

*End of Pity Party*

I understand your frustration (((((Sprinkles)))))
I do not have a distance problem, mine is Military.
The one I "bottom" with (he chooses not to collar) is gone with little notice
He is sometimes gone for 3+months NO Communication, as I am not "family".
Plus I have the knowledge now after a chat session on tuesday he could get re-posted anytime... then he would be gone...

((((((((((((Everyone)))))))))))) my hat is off to your patience.
(something I sorely lack)

 

[the captians wench]

*Pity Party Alert*

Distance sucks! I get so impatient that I cannot pack up and go to visit Him anytime I want. I looked last night at plane tickets, and if I could visit 2 weeks from now the ticket fare is reasonable, but if I have to wait until summer then it's going to cost almost twice as much. *sigh*

Ok, so money isn't really the problem. I can afford to go anytime I want; our schedules are the problem. I'm needed here, and He's needed there. We're making all these big plans for "next time", and damnit ... I want next time NOW, not 3 months from now!!!!

Why does 1100 miles have to be so far away???? Grrrrrrr

*End of Pity Party*

*hugs*

I track rates all year long. Have since about 2 months after Jounar accepted me. I watch them go up and down, and think "if I could only get this much then I could go before the rates double". Tho other than a couple months in the summer the rates don't change all that much because I'm looking for a hotel as well, and when the flight is low the hotel is high and vice versa. When ever I get anxious I start planing, even made a packing list one time, but I'm no where near my trip. I still have to get a passport and it doesn't look like I'm getting it for my birthday like I had hoped.

Only a few more months and I'll snag that permotion and be able to afford to travel. At least that's making my plans for november look really good.

Until then I'll join your party.

 

[myinnerslut]

i am in a long distance relationship with an extremely loving Master with whom i will be starting a life in June. i often find myself getting impatient, though not with Him...(did that once, and never again, thanks!) but only because I can hardly wait to be with Him. i have been collared with an engagement ring, LOL, and am very anxious to be able to spend my days... and nights... with Him after so much time apart. Whomever began this thread, thank you... it's nice to find a place where i feel as though i belong.

hey, welcome to our little corner of lit!

this thread has been a big help for me as well. i hope youll stick around and contribute to it. how far away are you from your Master?

 

[myinnerslut]

*Pity Party Alert*

Distance sucks! I get so impatient that I cannot pack up and go to visit Him anytime I want. I looked last night at plane tickets, and if I could visit 2 weeks from now the ticket fare is reasonable, but if I have to wait until summer then it's going to cost almost twice as much. *sigh*

Ok, so money isn't really the problem. I can afford to go anytime I want; our schedules are the problem. I'm needed here, and He's needed there. We're making all these big plans for "next time", and damnit ... I want next time NOW, not 3 months from now!!!!

Why does 1100 miles have to be so far away???? Grrrrrrr

*End of Pity Party*

{{HUG}}

this whole being away from the one you love thing sucks

im sorry that you have to wait so long, we are always here for you

 

[CollaredTigressK8]

Re: myinnerslut

We are about 60 miles away... but when you are a college kid with no car, and your Master lives at home for medical reasons, it can (indeed does) get difficult. His family loves me, though they have no idea how much their son has corrupted me, lol. i keep up the "innocent Catholic girl" front for them... and sometimes for Him too, lol. He is 9 years older than i, and while age doesn't matter to us, the fact that he's wheelchair-bound has got my dad all screwey...i doubt he's going to show up to my wedding, which is fine by me... if he knew my Chris was on a ventilator as well... *sighs unhappily.*

Such is life... and i'm breaking out of this valley soon enough. i just hope i get more than five minutes to be happy with my Beloved. :*(

kate

 

[Bandit58]

We are about 60 miles away... but when you are a college kid with no car, and your Master lives at home for medical reasons, it can (indeed does) get difficult. His family loves me, though they have no idea how much their son has corrupted me, lol. i keep up the "innocent Catholic girl" front for them... and sometimes for Him too, lol. He is 9 years older than i, and while age doesn't matter to us, the fact that he's wheelchair-bound has got my dad all screwey...i doubt he's going to show up to my wedding, which is fine by me... if he knew my Chris was on a ventilator as well... *sighs unhappily.*

Such is life... and i'm breaking out of this valley soon enough. i just hope i get more than five minutes to be happy with my Beloved. :*(

kate

Hi kate.....my Master Gil_T2 has health problems too. He isn't in a wheelchair but He has kidney failure and arthritis which means He is in pain 24/7.

When my mother found all this out she was less than happy - her exact words were "Why do you want to get involved with a cripple" It didn't help that He lived in Sydney Australia while I lived in New Zealand. However we have been together just over 3 years now and have been married for 2 months

We know that His life expectancy will be shorter than usual, but we do our best to make sure He stays as well as is possible. There are bad days sure, but we love each other very much which helps us to make it through.

I do know I would rather have a shorter time with Him, than not have taken the chance and missed out on the love of my life

Good luck to you both

 

[myinnerslut]

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[the captians wench]

i am currently in the middle of packing for my visit with Sir, and i realised i am soooo nervouse. i dont know why, i love him, i cant wait to see him, and i know i will have a great time, but even so i am nervouse. mabye its the travelling itself. i hate travelling. so after all that buildup, heres the question:

do you get nervouse also before a visit?

Well, I haven't had the op to visit my Love yet, but I get nervous every time I ring him still. And he rarely even answers his mobile. I love tohear his voice also so I don't know why I get nervouse but I do each and every time.

I think it's more that lovey butterfly feeling than and actual nervous fear. The heart flutters, the knees shake, your tummy twists and squirms. It's not that you really have any fear, it's a different kind of nerves.

 

[Sprinkles22]

i am currently in the middle of packing for my visit with Sir, and i realised i am soooo nervouse. i dont know why, i love him, i cant wait to see him, and i know i will have a great time, but even so i am nervouse. mabye its the travelling itself. i hate travelling. so after all that buildup, heres the question:

do you get nervouse also before a visit?

EVERY TIME

Whether it's him waiting for me at the airport, or me waiting for him ... I'm always a big bundle of smiles and giggles the moment I see him. Kind of like Wench said, it's the lovey butterflies doing gymnastics in my stomach

Oh, but I can tell you a sadistic tale of one time we met. My flight arrived while he was still at work, so I went on to his house and made myself at home. He left specific instructions on the bed for me as to what I was supposed to be wearing and what position I was to be in when he arrived home at 5pm. I only had to wait an hour and a half for him, but it was agony .... time slowed to a crawl

Finally, I heard the garage door opening and knew he was home. I broke out in a cold sweat all over, I was so nervous. Now, do you want to know what that Sadist did to me???? He made me WAIT, behind closed doors, blindfolded and kneeling in the middle of the room while he came in and checked the mail, fed the dogs, etc .... I could hear him walking past my room in the hallway, I could hear him talking to the dogs. He made me wait a good 5 minutes before he acknowledged my presence in the house.

By the time he opened the bedroom door, I was mentally going nuts. Yep, it was a great mindfuck

 

[myinnerslut]

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[SECRETDOM]

Doms get nervous too (at least this one does)

When I first met pet I was in a hotel for a conference for a day before she got there. So for 24 hours I was nearly pacing the floor.

But when she walked into the lobby, all was well.

SD

 

[Sprinkles22]

Doms get nervous too (at least this one does)

When I first met pet I was in a hotel for a conference for a day before she got there. So for 24 hours I was nearly pacing the floor.

But when she walked into the lobby, all was well.

SD

It's not something he and I have discussed, but I have often wondered what was going thru my Dom's mind before our first real life meeting. I wonder if he was nervous, too?

 

[SECRETDOM]

It's not something he and I have discussed, but I have often wondered what was going thru my Dom's mind before our first real life meeting. I wonder if he was nervous, too?

Sprinkles, I would guess that your Dom was at least apprehensive. Meeting someone for the first time, wondering what will unfold.

It is a delicious torture in and of itself. You should ask him.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Back in September I was nervous as hell in the days leading to my first trip back to Indiana. Rose will attest to the sheer volume of nervous energy I was burning off as we were talking as I was getting ready to leave for the airport.

As we have discussed, everything went AWESOME....

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Back in September I was nervous as hell in the days leading to my first trip back to Indiana. Rose will attest to the sheer volume of nervous energy I was burning off as we were talking as I was getting ready to leave for the airport.

As we have discussed, everything went AWESOME....

*giggles remembering* He drove me NUTS!! *laughs* He was pacing outside of His house, talking to Himself. He was a nervous wreck. making sure He had everything, being positive He had forgotten something, though had no clue what it was ...*giggles* so yes, i believe Dom's do get nervous too

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I get there and you were HIDING from me...

*shrugs*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I get there and you were HIDING from me...

*shrugs*

*smiles* i was not 'hiding' really, i just for some reason felt that i HAD to see YOU first. maybe that was part of my own nerves?? i'm really not sure, but when it came time, and i knew You were coming off that plane, i HAD to go somewhere that i would see You first, i can't explain why, though i really do think it had to do with my nerves. *shrugs* atleast i was on time that time *grins*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*smiles* i was not 'hiding' really, i just for some reason felt that i HAD to see YOU first. maybe that was part of my own nerves?? i'm really not sure, but when it came time, and i knew You were coming off that plane, i HAD to go somewhere that i would see You first, i can't explain why, though i really do think it had to do with my nerves. *shrugs* atleast i was on time that time *grins*

Nerves were high that day.... and yes, at least you were on time...

 

[myinnerslut]

*giggles remembering* He drove me NUTS!! *laughs* He was pacing outside of His house, talking to Himself. He was a nervous wreck. making sure He had everything, being positive He had forgotten something, though had no clue what it was ...*giggles* so yes, i believe Dom's do get nervous too

sounds like me, i have unpacked and repacked all my toys three times to make sure i had everything Sir wanted me to bring. i am bouncy and nervouse and excited and scared to flying.... too much energy all bundeled up into my tiny little body.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

sounds like me, i have unpacked and repacked all my toys three times to make sure i had everything Sir wanted me to bring. i am bouncy and nervouse and excited and scared to flying.... too much energy all bundeled up into my tiny little body.

I have found that I love to fly, so that is not an issue with me at all. It was just that it was teh first time after three years of waiting... and I had running though my mind everything that could go wrong....

Yeah, I drove her nuts that night... *sigh* I need to make that trip again soon... or better her make the trip here so we can make it perminant....

This distence thing really sucks... I keep thinking of all the delisiously painful things that I want to inflict on her... Oh yeah... and the fun of bondage and control...

Oh well... soon... just not soon enough...

 

[myinnerslut]

i really should get to sleep since i have to be up to get ready for my flight in five hours, but i am to excited and nervouse to sit still.

MP- i used to be fine with flying.... then i was on a plane that was cuaght in an awful storm, with a chance of us crashing. sicne then, planes have scared me.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

i really should get to sleep since i have to be up to get ready for my flight in five hours, but i am to excited and nervouse to sit still.

MP- i used to be fine with flying.... then i was on a plane that was cuaght in an awful storm, with a chance of us crashing. sicne then, planes have scared me.

I can see how that would add much stress to flying.