Distance Domination-Support Thread

[Luciden]

I made something fun to play with ^_^

My version of a top half of a Karada:
take 6 rubber bands, the center two being the appropriate size for yourself (breasts go through these).
Then take a shoelace, yes, a shoelace. loop it around your back (through the furthest two rubber bands)

it'll end like that:

-ooOOoo-

Trust me, try it, it's fun. You can even add nipple clamps to add to your pleasure.

 

[myinnerslut]

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[Luciden]

Master and I went our seperate ways today. I'm trying really hard to see this in a positive light, as my Mentor suggested but it isnt easy. Bleh.

aww
That's rough, Sir and I have come close to that before. I know it seems horrible right now, but it'll be okay eventually.

 

[BeBe81]

Master and I went our seperate ways today. I'm trying really hard to see this in a positive light, as my Mentor suggested but it isnt easy. Bleh.

*hugs* I am so very truly sorry.

 

[MikesDream]

CC,

I am very sorry for you, but don't feel like this is the end of the world. It might be tough now, but there is a reason for this, and I am sure that you will find that reason, just give yourself time.

MD

 

[FurryFury]

Master and I went our seperate ways today. I'm trying really hard to see this in a positive light, as my Mentor suggested but it isnt easy. Bleh.

I'm so sorry to hear this because I know how painful that can be. It will get better.

*hugs*

Fury

 

[myinnerslut]

i dont even want to give him the respect and call him "Sir"

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[FurryFury]

I'd be mad too.

*hug*

Fury

 

[myinnerslut]

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[lil_slave_rose]

Master and I went our seperate ways today. I'm trying really hard to see this in a positive light, as my Mentor suggested but it isnt easy. Bleh.

::hugs:: i'm sorry cc my PM's are always open if ya need an ear

 

[littleone77]

[rant]

i am so mad at my boyfriend i dont even want to give him the respect i am usually more then happy to offer and call him "Sir". i haven't seen him or spoken to him for more then five minutes total in the past two days (give or take an hour).

which wouldnt be so bad if we were still LDR, but we are both home, when we are supposed to be spending time together and making up for the weeks and weeks and months apart.

which wouldnt be so bad if he hadnt made plans with friends of his that i have gotten to know and become friends with myself, without telling me

or inviting me

which wouldnt be so bad if the plans were things that i disliked or showed no intrest in, but both times he knew that i wanted to go to, and opted to go without me instead.

which wouldnt have been so bad if he called to let me know that he decided to go without me, like he said he would, instead of just not calling and leaving me home, with no plans, waiting for a call that didnt come either night, not wanting to make plans with some other friends in case he called me.


so So SO mad... and if he made time to talk to me, id be able to tell him so instead of just ranting on a board.

[/rant]

Is that ^ some sort of test of his? I totally agree that he does not deserve the title or respect of Sir in that light. Not sure what you are going to do but somehow his actions do not seem appropiate in the least. Hope you two figure things out. *Huggles*

 

[littleone77]

Master and I went our seperate ways today. I'm trying really hard to see this in a positive light, as my Mentor suggested but it isnt easy. Bleh.

I wish you the best. Sometimes the hardest things are what is best for us.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

[rant]

i am so mad at my boyfriend i dont even want to give him the respect i am usually more then happy to offer and call him "Sir". i haven't seen him or spoken to him for more then five minutes total in the past two days (give or take an hour).

which wouldnt be so bad if we were still LDR, but we are both home, when we are supposed to be spending time together and making up for the weeks and weeks and months apart.

which wouldnt be so bad if he hadnt made plans with friends of his that i have gotten to know and become friends with myself, without telling me

or inviting me

which wouldnt be so bad if the plans were things that i disliked or showed no intrest in, but both times he knew that i wanted to go to, and opted to go without me instead.

which wouldnt have been so bad if he called to let me know that he decided to go without me, like he said he would, instead of just not calling and leaving me home, with no plans, waiting for a call that didnt come either night, not wanting to make plans with some other friends in case he called me.


so So SO mad... and if he made time to talk to me, id be able to tell him so instead of just ranting on a board.

[/rant]

i would be upset also, maybe not so much because He 'went out without me' but because He showed such a lack of respect or caring for my feelings in not telling me He was going out, or not calling me. i can see if He's been gone for a while that He'd want to go out with friends without His 'girlfriend' hanging around with Him. but there is no excuse for the disrespect in not letting you know. i'm sorry you're going through this..and i hope it gets better for you soon ::hug::

 

[littleone77]

4 days and 3 nights without Him...2 more nights and 2 more days to go....And I think this time I can actually make it *smiles*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

4 days and 3 nights without Him...2 more nights and 2 more days to go....And I think this time I can actually make it *smiles*

*smiles* glad to hear you can make it this time.....though you made it last time also....'you can do it!' .....tomorrow will be ONE MONTH until i get to see Master, until i get to sink into His arms, and hear Him whisper in my ear. *grins* until i get to sleep beside Him once again, in HIs loving embrace, all night long . i cannot wait, i am so excited, in case you couldn't tell

 

[littleone77]

. i cannot wait, i am so excited, in case you couldn't tell

Oh I can tell *Big Grinz* And I bet you are doing the best happy dance ever You are so cute *Smilz* Enjoy youself! heh

 

[myinnerslut]

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[littleone77]

oh no, not a test at all... just immature behavior. (it may help to note we are NOT 24/7). i want to see him, i want to spend time with him, i want to be in his arms... all the things i dreamed about while at school and counting the days till we were home. i expected to spend time with him. but i was very much mistaken it seems. and i am very upset.

Just because your relationship is not 24/7 does NOT mean he is given the right to ignore your feelings. Feel free to smack me here but is he as serious as you or is this behaviour normal for him? Idk, but it just doesn't seem very Dom-like to me.

A while ago I had a Dom like that. He didn't last long at all. Call me crazy but I like to come first when possible. *smiles*

 

[myinnerslut]

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[lil_slave_rose]

we have been going out for over a year and a half, and yes the relationship is serious for both of us.. he just... doesnt show it sometimes. he actually send me an e-mail saying he knows he doesnt say "i love you" enough, so he said it then, but i digress. he just isnt mature sometimes.

this is where the age card comes into play. (Attention all, i am not using age as an excuse for things not going right, just as a factor) he is 21. and immature sometimes. and can act like a little kid sometimes. just plain immature at times. and i know im defending him at the same time that im mad at him, but i cant help it. it is deinitly most undomly behavior, and it is seriously stressing the relationship. i dont know how long it can hold up to this. but i still defend him.. cuase i love him and hate being mad at him. even though i am mad at him. and rambling. sorry about that.

you have nothing to be sorry for, and you have a right to be upset. though i understand he is young, as you said, it still doesn't excuse the disrespect He has shown you for your feelings. ::hugs::

 

[littleone77]

His age should not be an excuse at all. That is one of the reasons why I prefer older. (There is just under a 20 year difference between us and I love every year). He still needs to be respectful of your feelings and needs. Perhaps he is not sure of what you expect of him yet. Young men are weird so I can't help with that much. You know him though and yourself so its up to you to figure it out.

 

[myinnerslut]

Young men are weird so I can't help with that much. You know him though and yourself so its up to you to figure it out.

hes not young for me.... i turn 19 in january

 

[littleone77]

hes not young for me.... i turn 19 in january

I just turned and they are still weird for me. *smiles* I just can't figure them out.

 

[myinnerslut]

I just turned and they are still weird for me. *smiles* I just can't figure them out.

well then.. happy belated birthday

im not doing such a good job figuring him out either (i am still much to angry about the un boyfriendy, let alone un domly, things hes done over the past two days to call him Sir like i usually do)

(p.s. if you like i can edit your age out of this post)

 

[littleone77]

well then.. happy belated birthday

im not doing such a good job figuring him out either (i am still much to angry about the un boyfriendy, let alone un domly, things hes done over the past two days to call him Sir like i usually do)

I know its just me but I could never bring myself to call a 21 yr old man Sir. I just couldn't. But...maybe his behavior is a sign or something for you. Things do happen for a reason.

Rarely does Daddy throw a curve ball at me. We know each other quite well and its scary how easily He fit into my life. Looking back at my growing years there are things I did that make it seem almost like He was meant to be mine. That gives me the goose bumps.

Seriously though, you are both young (so am I for that matter) but you need to listen to each other and do what is best for both of you. I just don't want you to get hurt is all.

P.S...please Thanks