Distance Domination-Support Thread

[lil_slave_rose]

I too might be going through another seperation soon. In a few days I go home for mid semester break and since I borrow my internet from my neighbors, my service is way way iffy. Emails will be possible yes but chats are going to be chancy. I cannot image a month withough Him...might just happen though. *Sighs*

And btw, we talked His new idea out. Its not a must with Him and if I ever want to try it He will be walking me through the whole thing. Problem solved. *Grinz*

glad that you worked it all out, sounds like a good 'medium' *smiles* sorry you will be without Him for a while, i know all too well how that is

 

[littleone77]

glad that you worked it all out, sounds like a good 'medium' *smiles* sorry you will be without Him for a while, i know all too well how that is

Yes but the upside is I will be with my mother and my cat...Here, last time, I was virtually on my own. And there will be emails *thank goodness for that*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Yes but the upside is I will be with my mother and my cat...Here, last time, I was virtually on my own. And there will be emails *thank goodness for that*

*nods* and i meant that i knew for myself how it is to be 'away' from the one ya love.

 

[BeBe81]

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do you have anything of His? could He send you something? Master left me two of His shirts, put His cologne on my teddy bear *grins* and left me a letter..to help me out when He couldn't be around....just a thought

Oh..... what an idea! That would definitely ease me some, I think. I will need to discuss it with him, of course. But, thanks!

 

[the captians wench]

That'll work

We have different cell carriers but it's not much of a problem, because like I said, we don't talk much ... and if we do, it's usually on our free night/weekend minutes.

His latest change was to add the texting feature to his plan ... so we can text each other when we can't talk. My favorite thing is to send *naughty* texts when I know he's in a meeting

My Love talks on the phone all day at work so he doesn't like phones much when he's off. And international calls are a bitch. I use a phone card and then call on weekends and keeps the hit to my phone bill pretty much non existant.

But I need to lay off the text so much. I text him all the time. Naughty things, silly things, just what I'm thinking at the moment... it's really not too bad, but would save on my bill which would put more into my savings, which would get me to him sooner. *giggles*

 

[Sprinkles22]

My Love talks on the phone all day at work so he doesn't like phones much when he's off. And international calls are a bitch. I use a phone card and then call on weekends and keeps the hit to my phone bill pretty much non existant.

But I need to lay off the text so much. I text him all the time. Naughty things, silly things, just what I'm thinking at the moment... it's really not too bad, but would save on my bill which would put more into my savings, which would get me to him sooner. *giggles*

I don't text *all* the time ... but usually once or twice each day I'll send a message His way. Have you tried to carry on a conversation thru txt msgs? That's a trip .... you have to be able to interpret short sentences and single letter words.

 

[amadaun]

Hey, you should definitely use Skype. As long as you're willing to sit in front of your computer to talk, that's eternal free long distance right there.

Very nice for, for example, going to sleep while on the phone together. Not that I do that every night or anything.

My Love talks on the phone all day at work so he doesn't like phones much when he's off. And international calls are a bitch. I use a phone card and then call on weekends and keeps the hit to my phone bill pretty much non existant.

But I need to lay off the text so much. I text him all the time. Naughty things, silly things, just what I'm thinking at the moment... it's really not too bad, but would save on my bill which would put more into my savings, which would get me to him sooner. *giggles*

 

[the captians wench]

I don't text *all* the time ... but usually once or twice each day I'll send a message His way. Have you tried to carry on a conversation thru txt msgs? That's a trip .... you have to be able to interpret short sentences and single letter words.

*giggles*

Most of the time he doesn't text back. His phone doesn't like to do anything internationally.

maybe all the time is a bit of an exageration. but deffinitly once or twice a day, and deffinitly way more than I should with the rates they charge.

 

[the captians wench]

Hey, you should definitely use Skype. As long as you're willing to sit in front of your computer to talk, that's eternal free long distance right there.

Very nice for, for example, going to sleep while on the phone together. Not that I do that every night or anything.

we do yahoo some times. But he really doesn't like that either too often, too much like work.

 

[Sprinkles22]

we do yahoo some times. But he really doesn't like that either too often, too much like work.

Yahoo is my life line.

Some nights He will prefer to just PM back and forth here at Lit, which makes me impatient and a little insane *chuckles* .... both of which are why He does it

I'm supposed to be learning the value of patience *sigh* I just absolutely hate that word, btw.

 

[the captians wench]

Yahoo is my life line.

Some nights He will prefer to just PM back and forth here at Lit, which makes me impatient and a little insane *chuckles* .... both of which are why He does it

I'm supposed to be learning the value of patience *sigh* I just absolutely hate that word, btw.

*giggles*

Mostly we use yahoo, but some times I get his mic or cam and when I'm really lucky I get both .

I know that patience lesson. He's been drilling that one into me since we met *giggles*.


On another note, I just finished an assignment he gave me...with almost an hour to spare.

 

[Sprinkles22]

*giggles*

Mostly we use yahoo, but some times I get his mic or cam and when I'm really lucky I get both .

I know that patience lesson. He's been drilling that one into me since we met *giggles*.


On another note, I just finished an assignment he gave me...with almost an hour to spare.

Congrats! You should be proud of yourself. I am horrible with assignments, but mostly because my life takes precedence ... the kids, holidays, etc ...

Very recently we had a serious discussion about assignments because I was not meeting my deadlines and it was forcing Him to discipline in some way. It was not pleasant for either of us. For the time being, He has lifted the time restraints on my tasks and only asks that I try my best to complete them.

I had a few days of feeling like a horrible sub and was ready to quit the relationship because I felt He deserves a better girl than me. Thankfully, He talked me through those bad thougths and we shared our ideas and formulated a new plan for us.

 

[the captians wench]

Congrats! You should be proud of yourself. I am horrible with assignments, but mostly because my life takes precedence ... the kids, holidays, etc ...

Very recently we had a serious discussion about assignments because I was not meeting my deadlines and it was forcing Him to discipline in some way. It was not pleasant for either of us. For the time being, He has lifted the time restraints on my tasks and only asks that I try my best to complete them.

I had a few days of feeling like a horrible sub and was ready to quit the relationship because I felt He deserves a better girl than me. Thankfully, He talked me through those bad thougths and we shared our ideas and formulated a new plan for us.

I had a little under two hours to complete this one. He doesn't give me many really, and since I'm just a single gal with no kids or room mates even, it's not so hard to complete them for me.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Congrats! You should be proud of yourself. I am horrible with assignments, but mostly because my life takes precedence ... the kids, holidays, etc ...

Very recently we had a serious discussion about assignments because I was not meeting my deadlines and it was forcing Him to discipline in some way. It was not pleasant for either of us. For the time being, He has lifted the time restraints on my tasks and only asks that I try my best to complete them.

I had a few days of feeling like a horrible sub and was ready to quit the relationship because I felt He deserves a better girl than me. Thankfully, He talked me through those bad thougths and we shared our ideas and formulated a new plan for us.

*sighs* i'm bad about assignments as well. i have one right now that He wants done by the time He gets off work on Wednesday. and it's one that is not easy for me (which is why i have so long to get it done) and one He wants alot of thought put into. i've worked on it a little bit..but it's hard and i DO plan on having to Him on time. *sigh*

 

[myinnerslut]

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[the captians wench]

i havnt gotten any assignments lately, but when i do ive always finished them before deadline. they were usually pictures or videos of a specific type or with a specific prop.

i do have several long standing regulations to keep me busy though.

*giggles*

my little assignment turned into another, and another, and another, and ended up a little game for a good 2 hours. just wish I had told mom to come by later to do the christmas dinner shopping. *pout*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*sighs* i'm bad about assignments as well. i have one right now that He wants done by the time He gets off work on Wednesday. and it's one that is not easy for me (which is why i have so long to get it done) and one He wants alot of thought put into. i've worked on it a little bit..but it's hard and i DO plan on having to Him on time. *sigh*

and I do expect it done...

glad to hear that you have started it.

 

[ChromeCollar]

I hope you all have a Merry Christmas, or whatever holiday you happen to celebrate. Be blessed.

 

[myinnerslut]

and to you, chromecollar



tonight is the fourth night of hannukah

 

[the captians wench]

I'm finally starting to feel the holiday spirit.

 

[the captians wench]

It's here! it's here! it's here!

My christmas gift from him came in the mail today!

 

[Luciden]

^_^
Two great things happened last night/early this morning:

I came on command (without any hesitation, like I usually do.) for the first time ever
& I came without touching myself ^_^ (NEVER expected this to happen)


They both happened at the same time, and Sir is so proud! I'm so excited, I had to tell you guys.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

It's here! it's here! it's here!

My christmas gift from him came in the mail today!

great for you!!! mine won't get here until after Christmas more than likely because He hasn't been able to send it and won't until Friday, but i can't say anything because He may very well have to pick His up when He comes to see me on January 23rd *giggles* i don't have the money to send it to Him *sighs* oh well, He'll be happy with it no matter when He gets it though i did want Him to have it to open on Christmas...maybe i'll win lottery between now and wednesday and it'll still get to HIm on time *grins*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

^_^
Two great things happened last night/early this morning:

I came on command (without any hesitation, like I usually do.) for the first time ever
& I came without touching myself ^_^ (NEVER expected this to happen)


They both happened at the same time, and Sir is so proud! I'm so excited, I had to tell you guys.

congrats. that's not an easy thing to acheive..how long have you been with Him?? just curious, because i know alot of submissives who've been with their Dom for years and cannot cum on command. it's a great feeling though and sometimes it's inconvienient because HE can tell me to cum and wherever i am..i do...can't help it, it's a reaction *grins* so He has fun with it sometimes.

 

[BeBe81]

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^_^
Two great things happened last night/early this morning:

I came on command (without any hesitation, like I usually do.) for the first time ever
& I came without touching myself ^_^ (NEVER expected this to happen)


They both happened at the same time, and Sir is so proud! I'm so excited, I had to tell you guys.

Oh, congrats!

*sighs* I am still working on it, but I feel myself getting stronger.