Distance Domination-Support Thread

[JMohegan]

I'm sorry we've been butting heads lately.

The things you write as a summary of, and response to, my words are making no sense to me whatsoever.

I regret our obvious failure to communicate effectively as well.

 

[JMohegan]

Just a comment. The clues that might indicate a partner is lying are good for other threads as well as this one I think. Everyone should pay attention to the people they are talking to whether or not they are in D/s threads or 'nilla ones.

Just my sleepy thought on the whole thing.

Hi, Montana Roze. Welcome to this part of the board.

Sleepy or not, you make a very good point.

I agree that everyone should be cautious about the people whom they meet online, no matter what flavor of sexuality they embrace.

 

[the captians wench]

CW I understand a control freak submissive only too well. I am of a similar ilk.
I think I may have driven him crazy at times by asking 'what time are we...' or 'when will we...' I like to know what is planned. It can be hard work to not just get on and plan it without consulting him. So far (I think) I have not done that, but sometimes I end up with teeth marks in my lip from trying to not to organise things or nag him about what he wants to do.

I also understand the wish to know about activities for planning your packing. When you have limited space it is impossible to decide what to take for changes in weather and situations. Plus it nice to find out about places before you go there so you don't seem completely clueless when visiting. Another organisational trait

I guess we are both lucky with regard to the countries we head to in terms of what type of clothing to pack: Denmark is ALWAYS fucking cold. In Ireland it is always raining, just finished raining or just about to rain.

Maybe all you will need is some nipple clamps and an umbrella

*giggles*

I think that would be aproved atire....minus the umbrella. *giggles*

It's good to know that I'm not the only one out there, and good to know some one else trys not to nag their Dom too much about such things. I can't tell you how many times I've been told "relax baby, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it". Does he not realize I can't relax about it, and that trying to relax actually makes me more stressed? Of course not. *giggles* So I'll just keep pacing and doing my best to not bug him too much. *smiles sweetly*

Oh, and I have been warned about the weather. Pretty steady and always rainy, or about to be. He's said it will be bright sunshine one minute and pouring the next. I'm bound to be one wet little subby in so many ways as I absoultly have a mad passion for both rain and accents and I'm going to be surrounded by both for a week. *giggles* Maybe we won't get to the sight seeing.

 

[ChromeCollar]

*giggles*

I think that would be aproved atire....minus the umbrella. *giggles*

It's good to know that I'm not the only one out there, and good to know some one else trys not to nag their Dom too much about such things. I can't tell you how many times I've been told "relax baby, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it". Does he not realize I can't relax about it, and that trying to relax actually makes me more stressed? Of course not. *giggles* So I'll just keep pacing and doing my best to not bug him too much. *smiles sweetly*

Oh, and I have been warned about the weather. Pretty steady and always rainy, or about to be. He's said it will be bright sunshine one minute and pouring the next. I'm bound to be one wet little subby in so many ways as I absoultly have a mad passion for both rain and accents and I'm going to be surrounded by both for a week. *giggles* Maybe we won't get to the sight seeing.

This re-assures me as well. I was just all over Master's case last week about whether he had been looking at hotels for when I come up in January. I was politely told after enough of a rant that I could shut my mouth and the details would be taken care of accordingly.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

This re-assures me as well. I was just all over Master's case last week about whether he had been looking at hotels for when I come up in January. I was politely told after enough of a rant that I could shut my mouth and the details would be taken care of accordingly.

LOL this is funny, because in our situation it was the other way around. Master was asking me all kinds of questions and trying to organize it all, and He was asking about the weather and well the weather here is VERY unpredictable to give an example of that, last week, tuesday i think it was, it was 67 degrees, the VERY next day it was in the 30's and it SNOWED. so it was hard to tell Him what to bring. now this time i know He will need a coat, a heavy coat at that as January in Indiana is still rather cold. but He drove me nuts bofore He got here with all His questions *giggles*

 

[shy slave]

This re-assures me as well. I was just all over Master's case last week about whether he had been looking at hotels for when I come up in January. I was politely told after enough of a rant that I could shut my mouth and the details would be taken care of accordingly.

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

 

[the captians wench]

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

LMAO

I'll bring snickerdoodles!

 

[the captians wench]

LOL this is funny, because in our situation it was the other way around. Master was asking me all kinds of questions and trying to organize it all, and He was asking about the weather and well the weather here is VERY unpredictable to give an example of that, last week, tuesday i think it was, it was 67 degrees, the VERY next day it was in the 30's and it SNOWED. so it was hard to tell Him what to bring. now this time i know He will need a coat, a heavy coat at that as January in Indiana is still rather cold. but He drove me nuts bofore He got here with all His questions *giggles*

You're not too far from me. When I tell him of our weather he's always amazed. I haven't had the chance to tell him about the fact that it was 70 one day and 30 and snowing the next. He's always amazed by the amount of snow we get. I've told him a few times we'll have to plan a visit for him here one winter so he can play in the snow with me. Some how that lead to a plan of me being naked and tied to a tree with him thowing snowballs at me. I think he's joking....I hope he's joking....you think he's joking? Well mom says he probably wouldn't know how to make a snowball anyway so I shouldn't worry too much. *giggles*

 

[Sprinkles22]

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

*laughs out loud, spewing Coke*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

You're not too far from me. When I tell him of our weather he's always amazed. I haven't had the chance to tell him about the fact that it was 70 one day and 30 and snowing the next. He's always amazed by the amount of snow we get. I've told him a few times we'll have to plan a visit for him here one winter so he can play in the snow with me. Some how that lead to a plan of me being naked and tied to a tree with him thowing snowballs at me. I think he's joking....I hope he's joking....you think he's joking? Well mom says he probably wouldn't know how to make a snowball anyway so I shouldn't worry too much. *giggles*

i sure hope He's kidding, that doesn't sound like much fun and i hope Master doesn't read this cause you may have just given Him some ideas *giggles* He's from California, so yea, no snow there either, cept in the mountains where He doesn't live . i'm not too far from you? where are you?

 

[the captians wench]

i sure hope He's kidding, that doesn't sound like much fun and i hope Master doesn't read this cause you may have just given Him some ideas *giggles* He's from California, so yea, no snow there either, cept in the mountains where He doesn't live . i'm not too far from you? where are you?

Ohio, near the kentuky/indiana tristate area

And actually, if it weren't for the fact that I'd catch my death of cold, I think it would be fun. One giggling as he tied me, two I'm naked in a pretty public area, three watching him play in the snow when he's not used to it just brings a smile to my face, and then there's the whole taunting him as he either misses me or his snowballs fall apart in mid air. Man I could really get myself into trouble! *giggles* Oh and then there's the whole warming up part.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Ohio, near the kentuky/indiana tristate area

And actually, if it weren't for the fact that I'd catch my death of cold, I think it would be fun. One giggling as he tied me, two I'm naked in a pretty public area, three watching him play in the snow when he's not used to it just brings a smile to my face, and then there's the whole taunting him as he either misses me or his snowballs fall apart in mid air. Man I could really get myself into trouble! *giggles* Oh and then there's the whole warming up part.

not that far for sure. *giggles* but i think it would be much funner to be able to throw them back at Him *grins* being an experienced snowball thrower and all, course that definantly would get me in trouble, but i think it'd be well worth it

 

[Sprinkles22]

Girls

No talk of snow torture to the subbie, please??? My Master lives where LOTS of snow falls. I live where NO snow falls. If he got an idea like this in his head I'd be in big trouble

Shhhhhhh .... keep the laughter and giggles to a minimum, please.

 

[Luciden]

omgsh, I got to have the best orgasm of my life today. Sir had me wear a vibrator for about 15 hours nonstop, and then he teased me for another hour. And then he let me cum. It was amazing. ^_^

 

[Montana_Roze]

Hi, Montana Roze. Welcome to this part of the board.

Hi JMohegan. Not really new to the board, just coming in under my "other personality". Its a good board here if people read carefully and it has certainly helped me with ideas to use in my long distance relationship with my sub. We are certainly still very new to the long distance thing, although I have had a D/s in real life with my husband, online distance is new to me.

Again thanks for the welcome. I enjoy reading your comments.

 

[myinnerslut]

omgsh, I got to have the best orgasm of my life today. Sir had me wear a vibrator for about 15 hours nonstop, and then he teased me for another hour. And then he let me cum. It was amazing. ^_^

glad your back.. you disapeared for a few days

 

[FurryFury]

<snips>

I regret our obvious failure to communicate effectively as well.

Well, we agree on that. I thank you for posting this comment JM.

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

You guys are making me smile. Thanks to you all.

Fury

 

[raven2]

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

Bet Andante loves that idea......LOL

 

[Luciden]

glad your back.. you disapeared for a few days

disappeared because of family issues
I still live with my parents, my control freak mother... but I'm moving out in a few months. ^_^ woot

 

[littleone77]

More lonely than usual

This has been a particularly hard week for me. Since last Thursday I have had maybe an hour with him total and its beginning to take its toil on me. Like many others have already said, I get emotional. Tears and the doubts flow constantly. Along with that my self esteem, low usually, also takes a hit.

This week has been particularly hard on me. Its the beginning of finals and I need him more than normal. Right now, I just want to be held...*shrugs*. Its not going to happen so I best get use to the fact no?

I feel a bit better, thanks

 

[MasterPhoenix]

This has been a particularly hard week for me. Since last Thursday I have had maybe an hour with him total and its beginning to take its toil on me. Like many others have already said, I get emotional. Tears and the doubts flow constantly. Along with that my self esteem, low usually, also takes a hit.

This week has been particularly hard on me. Its the beginning of finals and I need him more than normal. Right now, I just want to be held...*shrugs*. Its not going to happen so I best get use to the fact no?

I feel a bit better, thanks

It gets hard on rose and I when we have gone though periods when we could not talk much... especially our first couple of Christmas seasons being that I work retail...

Hope that things improve for you little one and you get to spend time with Him.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Girls

No talk of snow torture to the subbie, please??? My Master lives where LOTS of snow falls. I live where NO snow falls. If he got an idea like this in his head I'd be in big trouble

Shhhhhhh .... keep the laughter and giggles to a minimum, please.

Snow torture...

That sounds like it could be fun

 

[DontThankJustSpank]

Ideas for punishing from Long Distance...

I need ideas for how to make sure a slave is punished if you cannot see them regularly.

I am sure that there are those that have much more creative ideas, but my Mr. and I are new in this together, myself in particular as I have never had a d/s relationship that was not irl together.

So far he has just made me wait a certain amount of time until I can IM him again or makes me wait while we are masturbating until I can have an orgasm.

But he is making me keep track of how many spankings he owes me!

Oh, and don't give him any other ideas. I couldn't stand it. (heeheehee)

Mr's little pet

 

[DontThankJustSpank]

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

I almost spilled my coffee. That would have been bad. But I laughed out loud for about 5 minutes. For a group of submissives, we seem to all be control freaks.

It's reassuring to me actually. I don't feel like I am such a freak. And if I am, then at least I am in good company with some wonderful subs...

And my Mr. seems to be fast learning the difference between when I am just being sassy like he likes, am upset and say something out of line, and just being willfully disobedient.

To keep those who have asked up to date, well, yesterday was interesting. I completely blew off a bunch of work that really needed to get done in favor of chatting most of the day with my Mr. But it's all good, ive been up for hours and have accomplished most of yesterday's tasks.

Our conversation hit one end of the spectrum to the other, but ended well with lots of things discussed. So glad.

Mr's little pet

 

[subfem1963]

This is starting to sound like AA meetings.

My name is shy, I am a submissive who likes to be in control....lol

That really made me laugh, My Master is always telling me off for trying to tell him what to do, I dont mean to be a little miss bossy boots, but it always seems to come over that way. Then i get punished.