Don't really get where this comment came from. i couldn't find one thing that indicated she sets the scene or tone. Just merely stated how her PYL does exactly that from her POV
It has been a hellacious whirlwind but as we have talked it has been wonderful and feels right..I look forward to the journey as your slave...And I look forward to that day that I am before you on my knees serving as your slave!
I posted something in the "What made you smile" thread that got me thinking. On the stairs down to my garage/basement/office, there are shoes. I have a standing rule that says no bare feet in the garage. The floor is neither clean nor safe, though I do try to keep it swept. Glasses have been broken down there, metal shavings, etc. So I want my gals and the kids to wear shoes when they come down.
When MIS visited the first time, she put a pair of flip-flops there. Reed soles, blue tropical print cloth on the edges and straps, they're cheap little things, but they were the only pair she had at that moment. she went out and bought another pair of course. Still, they are there, and they remain there because she knows it really made me happy to have them there.
They continue to make me happy because every time I walk up or down those stairs I see those flip-flops and remember that she will be back to fill them at some point. Regardless of how far away she might be, those shoes are ready for her to walk down the stairs and be in my arms.
Sometimes it's tough. Sometimes I see them and I feel bad because I know it's going to be a long time until I see her down here. Most times though, it's such a great positive reminder.
Not really sure of the point to this. I just wanted to ramble on a bit about one of those little reminders. It's like I told a friend of mine, set up memory tags that will remind the other person of you, make you think of them. Songs, smells, sights, phrases, items left where they'll see them, etc are all little ways to put yourself into their day.
She's in my day, all because of a pair of shoes left waiting for her on the stairs.
I know I've already said this, but many congratulations to you both
I posted something in the "What made you smile" thread that got me thinking. On the stairs down to my garage/basement/office, there are shoes. I have a standing rule that says no bare feet in the garage. The floor is neither clean nor safe, though I do try to keep it swept. Glasses have been broken down there, metal shavings, etc. So I want my gals and the kids to wear shoes when they come down.
When MIS visited the first time, she put a pair of flip-flops there. Reed soles, blue tropical print cloth on the edges and straps, they're cheap little things, but they were the only pair she had at that moment. she went out and bought another pair of course. Still, they are there, and they remain there because she knows it really made me happy to have them there.
They continue to make me happy because every time I walk up or down those stairs I see those flip-flops and remember that she will be back to fill them at some point. Regardless of how far away she might be, those shoes are ready for her to walk down the stairs and be in my arms.
Sometimes it's tough. Sometimes I see them and I feel bad because I know it's going to be a long time until I see her down here. Most times though, it's such a great positive reminder.
Not really sure of the point to this. I just wanted to ramble on a bit about one of those little reminders. It's like I told a friend of mine, set up memory tags that will remind the other person of you, make you think of them. Songs, smells, sights, phrases, items left where they'll see them, etc are all little ways to put yourself into their day.
She's in my day, all because of a pair of shoes left waiting for her on the stairs.
*giggles* Guess I haven't grown out of that yet.
Man is that going to raise the value of that tag!
It has been a hellacious whirlwind but as we have talked it has been wonderful and feels right..I look forward to the journey as your slave...And I look forward to that day that I am before you on my knees serving as your slave!
You both know my feelings already. Its good to see you both so happy and I wish you a truly wonderful future
I think he just ment he didn't mean to exclude anyone with his question directed towards PYLs, but that he was looking for a certian point of view.
It has been a hellacious whirlwind but as we have talked it has been wonderful and feels right..I look forward to the journey as your slave...And I look forward to that day that I am before you on my knees serving as your slave!
It has been a hellacious whirlwind but as we have talked it has been wonderful and feels right..I look forward to the journey as your slave...And I look forward to that day that I am before you on my knees serving as your slave!
As you know already know MP, I am estatic for you two. I wish you many years of happiness you both deserve it..
KK- YOU know my personal feelings already... but I am so happy for you both.. I am always here for you both!!!
I felt the distance the last week.. we were both gone for work and family reasons and hopefully if all goes right Ill see him tonight.. Im keeping my fingers crossed
