Disobedient subs

[x_Angel_Slave_x]

I am quite a mouthy sub I guess. And my master likes that. He likes to punish me, and vice versa.

I started posting on Lit without his permission, although we spoke about it. So I will be in trouble if he finds out heh

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Andraste]

sometimes it's more fun to obey.

eg. he says "oh, bite me!"
or "you just do that and see what happens!"

but you told me too!!

 

[WriterDom]

Who would spit in someone's drink other than the reverend Jesse Jackson? That's just retarded.

I want someone who obeys. Someone on the same page. My punishments are tailored to what the sub hates, not enjoys.

 

[Calyph]

I've disobeyed several times, but I've done it when my Domme was looking for a reason to punish me. Like when she wants to scratch me but doesn't feel she has enough reason yet, so I'll do something to give her reason.
Other than that, no.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

it's endearing

Isn't it time for you to start canning peas again?

gawd you're a riot!

 

[Life_Noir]

I don't consider myself to be bratty; I abhore bratty behaviour. As an adult, can I occasionally have a wry sense of humor...

What you're talking about seems to be intentionally screwing around to get punished, whihc I consider a waste of time.

Intillectual sparring, acting like adults, teasing one another... that isn't disrepectful or disobedient, to me.

Cogent as always...

I like to "Play", on a relatively frequent and regular basis... And it isn't hard for a sub to get my attention in a "positive" way..
A disobedient or sammy sub?
Frankly, it just annoys me and rapidly depletes my patience..

 

[JMohegan]

I guess I'm "weird" but I like a mouthy sub. I want a reason to flog her ass and this nibble on it and go further from there (make up sex? - maybe) but then again my big rush in being a Dom is the control and exercising it. Not so much a sadist because I don't spank hard (but I will make the sub bring the switch, flail, etc) unless I know the person I'm spanking can take it or wants it.

Personally I don't need a reason, other than: I'm in the mood to flog.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

I have crohns disease, it's very difficult for me to digest, but frankly I'm addicted. After assholes suicide my sister drank and I ate chocolate. *shrugs*

Oh wow, graceanna - I didn't realize that. I was halfway teasing about the chocolate being bad for you. When I was a kid I was diagnosed as being allergic to chocolate (it gave me diarrhea). I was the only kid in school who drank white or whole milk versus chocolate. I eventually developed a tolerance for it.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Who would spit in someone's drink other than the reverend Jesse Jackson? That's just retarded.

That happens in restaurants more than I want to think about.

I want someone who obeys. Someone on the same page.

We all want peace and harmony in our relationships BUT I find it hard to believe that not one sub has gotten so pissed off at their D and just gone totally off the program and spent the money being saved for D's new "gotta have it" and went to the mall/bass pro shop and got something for themselves.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Frankly, it just annoys me and rapidly depletes my patience..

Actually, I've found that since I acknowledged my Domliness (there's a $5 word ) that my level of patience has grown and I'm more deliberate in my actions.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[catalina_francisco]

Doesn't feel the right thread for this so deleted...
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1183/663180291_df33e42493_t.jpg Catalina

 

[Andraste]

Isn't it time for you to start canning peas again?

gawd you're a riot!

i'm onto carrots now.

thing is, there's a time and a place.

sometimes it's the right time to be cheeky, naughty, flirty.
sometimes it's the time to shut up and do as you're bloody well told.

i have less than complimentory opinions on people who have to have 100% submission 24/7. it screams internal weakness...no offence meant to anyone here, just the way i interpret it.

and if you can't tell the difference between "come here & let me spank you, you bad girl!" and "you've disappointed me. this isn't acceptable behaviour. go get the paddle." then you're taking yourself too seriously.

 

[ecstaticsub]

We all want peace and harmony in our relationships BUT I find it hard to believe that not one sub has gotten so pissed off at their D and just gone totally off the program and spent the money being saved for D's new "gotta have it" and went to the mall/bass pro shop and got something for themselves.

When I get really pissed off I get cranky, not disobedient. He then sends me into sort of a time out and I end up writing down what has gotten me so angry and through a series of emails we work it out.

There was a time that he gave me a little break from being submissive due to severe stresses in my life and I went too far. Big mistake on my part, but I learned a lesson. I have also found that these sort of blow ups and the conversations afterwards brings us closer together.


Sor tof off topic---May someone tell this Lit newbie what "sammy" means? Thanks.

 

[Andraste]

Sor tof off topic---May someone tell this Lit newbie what "sammy" means? Thanks.

a sub that plays up to get punishment.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

i'm onto carrots now.

Glad to see you are expanding your knowledge base - however, knowing you there is probably some sort of perversion that is getting satisfied in the process.

 

[Andraste]

Glad to see you are expanding your knowledge base - however, knowing you there is probably some sort of perversion that is getting satisfied in the process.

they are rather large carrots.

large & knobbly.

they make peas feel inadequate.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

*spew diet green tea all over the floor (luckily I was able to miss the keyboard)*



I think I will be suffering from carrot envy for awhile now!

 

[Andraste]

*spew diet green tea all over the flow (luckily I was able to miss the keyboard)*



I think I will be suffering from carrot envy for awhile now!

trouble even when i'm not there

just don't ask about the pumpkin *wince*

 

[BiBunny]

i'm onto carrots now.

thing is, there's a time and a place.

sometimes it's the right time to be cheeky, naughty, flirty.
sometimes it's the time to shut up and do as you're bloody well told.

i have less than complimentory opinions on people who have to have 100% submission 24/7. it screams internal weakness...no offence meant to anyone here, just the way i interpret it.

and if you can't tell the difference between "come here & let me spank you, you bad girl!" and "you've disappointed me. this isn't acceptable behaviour. go get the paddle." then you're taking yourself too seriously.

Uh-huh. What she said. Personally, I think BDSM is just too inherently funny not to spend a good bit of time laughing at yourself. B. and I do a lot of that. We aren't the kind of people who take ourselves too seriously at all. We've gotten into some lovely verbal sparring matches in mid-scene before. Nothing like it, I swear.

That being said, I do know when to be silly and when to shut the hell up. He's pretty tolerant of me and my smartass mouth, but sometimes I know he just doesn't want to hear it.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

trouble even when i'm not there

just don't ask about the pumpkin *wince*

Maybe you should try something like a jack-o-lantern - it would have bit more "give" to it.

 

[Andraste]

Uh-huh. What she said. Personally, I think BDSM is just too inherently funny not to spend a good bit of time laughing at yourself. B. and I do a lot of that. We aren't the kind of people who take ourselves too seriously at all. We've gotten into some lovely verbal sparring matches in mid-scene before. Nothing like it, I swear.

That being said, I do know when to be silly and when to shut the hell up. He's pretty tolerant of me and my smartass mouth, but sometimes I know he just doesn't want to hear it.

sounds like fun

yup, you don't need a stick up your arse to be into bdsm...unless it's a really attractive stick and you're a twigophiliac.

sometimes i think people are scared off exploring the scene by all people try to push the only right way to do it.

 

[Andraste]

Maybe you should try something like a jack-o-lantern - it would have bit more "give" to it.

this being the bdsm board, do i leave the candle lit?

 

[Chris_Xavier]

I am quite a mouthy sub I guess. And my master likes that. He likes to punish me, and vice versa.

I started posting on Lit without his permission, although we spoke about it. So I will be in trouble if he finds out heh

I won't tell. Promise.