Disobedient subs

Xelebes said:
What's a twigophile anyways?

it's my explanation of why so many in the bdsm scene seem to have a stick stuck up their arse.

it must be a twig fetish!
 
Nope...not me.

I'm never intentionally disobedient. All of my past Doms know that I enjoy impact play and have a great capacity for pain so any punishment does not come in that particular flavor. I only get spankings, canings or floggings when I'm a good girl. My last made be ask for them and at times beg. Any punishments I have received came of errors in judgement, any perceived laziness or disrespect and they have always been lessons to remember and not ones to look forward to.


I as a submissive have a strong need to serve and please which leaves little room for naughtiness or bratting. Just how I'm made I guess.
 
Andraste said:
it's my explanation of why so many in the bdsm scene seem to have a stick stuck up their arse.

it must be a twig fetish!

Xelebes is probably the LAST among us to have that problem.
 
I disobey when needed.

If he were to tell me to do permanent damage to myself I'd tell him to fuck off.

I'm generally obedient, and won't disobey on gp.

I disobey in the bedroom though constantly, if it could be called that but our dynamic doesn't extend to the bedroom. I'm free to be a bit mouthy, and not do something I really don't feel like doing.
 
I don't really do anything to a great extent if disobeying, but sometimes I'll tease my Master, then push him away, not letting him get his way till he decides enough is enough, pull my hair and drag up stairs to get punished. Sometimes I'll bite him a little to hard (by accident most the time) and that gets me punished as well. Other than, I do what I can to please him, he likes me to be a bad pet once in a while, but i try to not make it a habit of all time. Pleasing him, means I get pleasure as well. =)
 
I would have not and would not disobey my Master on purpose. There was one time i remember He told me to do something and i said i cant and He said are you giving ur safe word and i said no....of course not and i did it... it was hard but there was NOTHING like after when He said He was so proud of me and i was such a good girl...soooo worth it. :heart: I of course tease him and stuff as he has really great sense of humor.... But would never disobey Him. On the other hand he wouldnt tell me something to do if i was not capable of doing it....he doesnt try to set me up to fail or anything, when he tells me to do something he knows that it might be hard for me and might test my limits but i am capable and if i cant i am expected to give a safeword (never have) and as long as i gave it my all then He would pleased i tried.
 
Chris_Xavier said:
Who was it that came of with the theory of anal retentive and anal expulsive?


The pot goes round and round. Will someone please put a stick in it!
 
Sort of relevant to this thread..

A few days ago Daddy did something that threw me into a fit of giggles. It wasn't meant to, but what he did just struck me as funny and I couldn't stop laughing. He expressed his unhappiness with my inability to do what he wanted because I couldn't stop giggling. I responded trhat we couldn't be serious all of the time (which we aren't but it sounded good at the time). His response? "It's not about being serious or not, it's about obeying and doing what I want." That was a real eye-opener for me..I did not view myself as being disobedient by not performing because I was giggling but clearly he did. It was a simple and obvious statement but it had a powerful impact on me.

The way handled that situation was far more effective with me than some kind of punishment would have been. I know there are Doms that would go ballistic in that situation, thankfully he is not one of them.
 
callinectes said:
Sort of relevant to this thread..

A few days ago Daddy did something that threw me into a fit of giggles. It wasn't meant to, but what he did just struck me as funny and I couldn't stop laughing. He expressed his unhappiness with my inability to do what he wanted because I couldn't stop giggling. I responded trhat we couldn't be serious all of the time (which we aren't but it sounded good at the time). His response? "It's not about being serious or not, it's about obeying and doing what I want." That was a real eye-opener for me..I did not view myself as being disobedient by not performing because I was giggling but clearly he did. It was a simple and obvious statement but it had a powerful impact on me.

The way handled that situation was far more effective with me than some kind of punishment would have been. I know there are Doms that would go ballistic in that situation, thankfully he is not one of them.


i would be in trouble often if giggling was a punishable offense. Sometimes i just can't help it and they slip out...
 
Oh it wasn't the fact that I was giggling, it was that I was unable to do what I was supposed to because I couldn't stop laughing.
 
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