I’ve discussed the topic with her for the 30+ years that we’ve been married. In fact, I asked her for 15 years to fuck another guy, until she finally did.Honest conversation is good. Like someone said details please. You have to convince her it turns you on!
She was with him twice, with him fucking her multiple times on those 2 encounters. I set it up and was there for both. It was amazing!
Afterwards, guilt and her religious upbringing overtook her conscience and she refused to do it again.