Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[Nellie60]

This is really a spin off of an early thread about " How would you feel if your close friend starting seeing your ex"

Well this particular girl was the love of my life.
A beautiful Korean girl that appeared to start a new relationship with my mate straight after we broke up.

Obviously there must have goings on behind my back and I think about it pretty much every day.

It's both a fantasy now but still gets to me how this happened yet I get hard imagining her with him cause I know what she was like sexually.

How does everyone else deal with this?

 

[kiggs]

You just gotta move on. The pain will fade in time. Also, he is not your friend.

It's ok to be turned on by it though.

 

[screwher]

This is really a spin off of an early thread about " How would you feel if your close friend starting seeing your ex"

Well this particular girl was the love of my life.
A beautiful Korean girl that appeared to start a new relationship with my mate straight after we broke up.

Obviously there must have goings on behind my back and I think about it pretty much every day.

It's both a fantasy now but still gets to me how this happened yet I get hard imagining her with him cause I know what she was like sexually.

How does everyone else deal with this?

You’re getting something positive out of this. Fantasizing about the sex they’re having will prove beneficial in the long run.

My wife developed an attraction to another man. She ended up cheating with him. At first I was furious and it almost ruined us. But soon after her tryst started to arouse me. I started fantasizing about other men screwing her! It did wonders for our marriage.

 

[Nellie60]

You’re getting something positive out of this. Fantasizing about the sex they’re having will prove beneficial in the long run.

My wife developed an attraction to another man. She ended up cheating with him. At first I was furious and it almost ruined us. But soon after her tryst started to arouse me. I started fantasizing about other men screwing her! It did wonders for our marriage.

Thanks for heads up. It was very painful at the beginning when I discovered she had basically went straight to him after we broke up.

Then the rumour mill did its best on me about her secretly having the affair much earlier.

And right you are it has created many fantasies around her and imagining her with him or other men its pretty arousing.

 

[van_delay]

I found a pic on my wife's phone of her getting fucked by an old HS boyfriend when she went home for her 35th reunion. I've masturbated to the pic countless times.

 

[van_delay]

My wife told me about her first affair. She was getting eaten up by the guilt she felt. I guess she got better as a few years latter the guys wife came to me and said that she had followed them to an empty parking lot on the outskirts of town.

Did you enjoy the thought?

 

[van_delay]

My wife told me about her first affair. She was getting eaten up by the guilt she felt. I guess she got better as a few years latter the guys wife came to me and said that she had followed them to an empty parking lot on the outskirts of town.

Did you enjoy the thoughr

Thanks for heads up. It was very painful at the beginning when I discovered she had basically went straight to him after we broke up.

Then the rumour mill did its best on me about her secretly having the affair much earlier.

And right you are it has created many fantasies around her and imagining her with him or other men its pretty arousing.

Love the thought.

 

[van_delay]

My wife and the guys wife said the other guy was impotent. My wife admitted to a blow job on him to try and get him hard. Over time the blowjob changed to a hand job instead. She doesn’t like to talk about it so Inwill never know the truth. But to answer your question, I have thought of him fucking Hernandez in my fantasy his cock was hard and his cum was hot when it flooded her cheating cunt.

This is iny frequent fantasies also.

 

[screwher]

My wife told me about her first affair. She was getting eaten up by the guilt she felt. I guess she got better as a few years latter the guys wife came to me and said that she had followed them to an empty parking lot on the outskirts of town.

Wow! That’s hot! I’d love for another man to drive my wife out to a secluded spot. Then fuck her in back seat!

My wife confessed her second tryst with another man. I’m thinking she was secure enough in coming clean since our marriage survived her first infidelity. She was quite surprised when I confessed my desires for her having sex with other men. That was the starting point of our hotwife lifestyle.

 

[van_delay]

My wife was driving a minivan at the time. The extra space helped with my thoughts of her legs spread wide and pointing to the ceiling. When the minivan’s rockin’ don’t come a knocking’.

I always envision my wife on all fours like a dog when she cheats

 

[cuckoldbill]

You’re getting something positive out of this. Fantasizing about the sex they’re having will prove beneficial in the long run.

My wife developed an attraction to another man. She ended up cheating with him. At first I was furious and it almost ruined us. But soon after her tryst started to arouse me. I started fantasizing about other men screwing her! It did wonders for our marriage.

Did she know about your fantasies

 

[Nellie60]

My wife told me about her first affair. She was getting eaten up by the guilt she felt. I guess she got better as a few years latter the guys wife came to me and said that she had followed them to an empty parking lot on the outskirts of town.

I can only imagine what they were doing on. Did she say what she saw?

 

[Nellie60]

Did you enjoy the thought?

I suppose it's easy to say if only I was a fly on the wall and be able to catch them in the act

 

[Nellie60]

Actually, the guys daughter did the following and not the wife. The daughter was too scared to confront her dad so they did not see anything. I sure wish she had gone and taken a look. I know we all regret not finding the truth for ourselves

Either way it's kind of hot and erotic. I am just not sure how the daughter would have reacted if she saw what Dad was up to!

 

[Nellie60]

So true. I don’t know how flies masturbate but I would have been stroking while I watched

Ha ha It's hot either way. I would have loved to see my ex make out with him or some other guy!

 

[Nellie60]

True. Wonder if she ever fingered herself to dear old dad doin’ the nasty

Can you imagine if she saw daddy getting a handjob from another woman...

 

[screwher]

My wife was driving a minivan at the time. The extra space helped with my thoughts of her legs spread wide and pointing to the ceiling. When the minivan’s rockin’ don’t come a knocking’.

Yes, a minivan would be hot! A lot of extra room so they can really go at it. He could give my wife the screwing she deserves.

And I wouldn’t come a knocking. I wouldn’t want to disturb them.

 

[screwher]

Did she know about your fantasies

No. I never told her until years later, after her second tryst. But I think she might have had an inkling that I had thoughts of her with other men. For many years after she first cheated she wouldn’t even look at another man, for fear of my reaction. But eventually I think she started getting sexually restless. And curious of other men. Started subtly and innocently talking about guys. I made sure to show no negative emotion. I think that gave her confidence to tell me of her second tryst.

 

[Nellie60]

With a nice boner or with a soft impotent cock? Dad cheating but with a shriveled wiener may have warped her mind

We can only imagine now ...an impotent cock wouldn't look good!

 

[Nellie60]

No. I never told her until years later, after her second tryst. But I think she might have had an inkling that I had thoughts of her with other men. For many years after she first cheated she wouldn’t even look at another man, for fear of my reaction. But eventually I think she started getting sexually restless. And curious of other men. Started subtly and innocently talking about guys. I made sure to show no negative emotion. I think that gave her confidence to tell me of her second tryst.

That's good. Takes time to accept and the fantasing does help alleviate the jealous.

 

[screwher]

That's good. Takes time to accept and the fantasing does help alleviate the jealous.

Through out our marriage, six other men have fucked my wife. There were actually two other men around that same time as her first tryst. The first guy took her to a hotel, as he was married too. The other two were single men in our smallish apartment building. They fucked her in their bedrooms. She won’t talk about those hook ups much. But I’ve stroked my cock many times thinking it!

 

[Nellie60]

Through out our marriage, six other men have fucked my wife. There were actually two other men around that same time as her first tryst. The first guy took her to a hotel, as he was married too. The other two were single men in our smallish apartment building. They fucked her in their bedrooms. She won’t talk about those hook ups much. But I’ve stroked my cock many times thinking it!

Gosh did you ever felt jealous, angry or upset about at the time cause I was emotional for some time thinking about things like what she was doing to him...

 

[screwher]

Gosh did you ever felt jealous, angry or upset about at the time cause I was emotional for some time thinking about things like what she was doing to him...

At the time, I only knew about her hotel romp. I was furious. We came soooooo close to our relationship ending. But we kept it together. It wasn’t until more recently when she told me about the neighbours. Long into our hotwife lifestyle. So I was absolutely thrilled to know those guys fucked her too!

 

[Nellie60]

At the time, I only knew about her hotel romp. I was furious. We came soooooo close to our relationship ending. But we kept it together. It wasn’t until more recently when she told me about the neighbours. Long into our hotwife lifestyle. So I was absolutely thrilled to know those guys fucked her too!

That's excellent that you managed to not only accept her initial affair but to embrace your new lifestyle. She must have been thrilled that you have a new found understanding when you learnt of the neighbours.

 

[Greytruck]

Been married many years now and I’ve had several sexual affairs..
My wife never know or if she did she looked the other way.
A couple years back I got the feeling something might be up with her.
Trips shopping and returning with nothing purchased.
I got the notion to follow her.. and I did.. to a motel off the freeway.
I saw her car parked in the lot.. nothing else really around the place.
And no bar in the motel so had to be in a room..
I was so mad but turned on too.. I sat in the parking lot staring at the building.
I left and felt so aroused at what’s going on inside that motel room.
Picturing my wife in bed with who? Did I know him? Was it one of her old flings?
I went home and jerked off with those thoughts.
A short time later she comes in the house saying I’m beat..
I need a warm bath and early bedtime..