Disappointments

[pwr2theblondes]

One of my biggest disappointments was one night I was at my ex boyfriend's house we were laying in bed watching a movie. That eventually led to sex..I was on top the whole time. He then came before I did and then when he got hard again I got back on top and had two amazing orgasms. After my second one I had to take a short break and then wanted to get back on top and go again bc I was soaking wet. He was still hard but said he was exhausted. Even though I was on top the whole time? So after feeling shot down..I think I just put my underwear on and rolled over and fell asleep...

 

[Sensualdreamer]

My husband had returned home on Valentines day from 5+ month deployment to Iraq - that night (first time EVER) he tried out a cock ring. He then lost his erection and blamed it on me for being "too wet"

 

[pwr2theblondes]

My husband had returned home on Valentines day from 5+ month deployment to Iraq - that night (first time EVER) he tried out a cock ring. He then lost his erection and blamed it on my for being "too wet"

"too wet" Is there such thing? I once had a guy blame me for him not being able to cum because I was "too tight". Glad your husband is home now. I am an Army Brat so I know deployments can be hard.

 

[duppy_conqueror]

One of my biggest disappointments was one night I was at my ex boyfriend's house we were laying in bed watching a movie. That eventually led to sex..I was on top the whole time. He then came before I did and then when he got hard again I got back on top and had two amazing orgasms. After my second one I had to take a short break and then wanted to get back on top and go again bc I was soaking wet. He was still hard but said he was exhausted. Even though I was on top the whole time? So after feeling shot down..I think I just put my underwear on and rolled over and fell asleep...

God up to the falling asleep part that sounded like some pretty amazing sex. I don't need any further proof to judge him as a dumbass.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

God up to the falling asleep part that sounded like some pretty amazing sex. I don't need any further proof to judge him as a dumbass.

haha aw thanks for the boost

 

[curiousirish]

not quite a sexual experience but I lusted after a guy from high school for ages....we bumped into each other yrs later and he asked me on a date.....he was the most crap kisser ever........soooooooo disappointing and he wasnt what I had imagined all those yrs before ......

 

[Ekserb]

One of my biggest disappointments was one night I was at my ex boyfriend's house we were laying in bed watching a movie. That eventually led to sex..I was on top the whole time. He then came before I did and then when he got hard again I got back on top and had two amazing orgasms. After my second one I had to take a short break and then wanted to get back on top and go again bc I was soaking wet. He was still hard but said he was exhausted. Even though I was on top the whole time? So after feeling shot down..I think I just put my underwear on and rolled over and fell asleep...

I have to say it ... you know I'm not the only one thinking this:

I think you've safely cemented the idea that no man could satisfy you if your idea of a disappointment (and one of your "biggest disappointments," at that!) was two rides and two "amazing orgasms." I hesitate to guess what would have been necessary for this experience to become something other than disappointing.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

I have to say it ... you know I'm not the only one thinking this:

I think you've safely cemented the idea that no man could satisfy you if your idea of a disappointment (and one of your "biggest disappointments," at that!) was two rides and two "amazing orgasms." I hesitate to guess what would have been necessary for this experience to become something other than disappointing.

I am always satisfied with one orgasm. I was just on a roll and the night was young. Would have been nice to go for a second for him or a third for me.

 

[fstuck]

ill give you a third baby

 

[peterthelicker]

"too wet" Is there such thing? I once had a guy blame me for him not being able to cum because I was "too tight". Glad your husband is home now. I am an Army Brat so I know deployments can be hard.

Oh my dear.... You can be "too tight" for me whenever you like!

 

[rawrrx]

My husband had returned home on Valentines day from 5+ month deployment to Iraq - that night (first time EVER) he tried out a cock ring. He then lost his erection and blamed it on me for being "too wet"

Actually, I've had issues with supposedly being "too wet". It made it a bit too slippery, apparently.

I tend to really turn on the waterworks when I'm aroused.. and sometimes we have to stop to dry me off a little, lol

 

[CaliGuy60]

"too wet" Is there such thing? I once had a guy blame me for him not being able to cum because I was "too tight". Glad your husband is home now. I am an Army Brat so I know deployments can be hard.

There is no such thing as too wet.

 

[CaliGuy60]

Actually, I've had issues with supposedly being "too wet". It made it a bit too slippery, apparently.

I tend to really turn on the waterworks when I'm aroused.. and sometimes we have to stop to dry me off a little, lol

Being "too slippery" is good, it just makes me last longer. And ohhh, having that on my face.

 

[Guest]

My disappointment were the 7 months I was with the last guy I dated. Big big disappointment. Total waste of time.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

Ooooooooooooh, yeah.... You are not alone there. Haven't thought about that in a long time. Our first night together as man and wife was at an ocean front suite on the coast--it should have been romantic, but we might as well have slept in the car. That was more of a WTF moment than a lifelong disappointment, but really!!!

I was more disappointed the one and only time I paid for sex. The experience made it clear that the reward from sex originates from personal intimacy. That is probably obvious to most people.

 

[philos]

Good to see I'm not alone in this. I was just being selfish and venting but glad others did too. That whole miss matched libido thing really kills me sometimes.

 

[TenCentPistol]

I hate that most confident men are crap in bed...I slept with a guy would would be fucking me, and after about 8-9 strokes he would change the position completely. I was just like "???" is this turning you on? So in the 20 minutes we were in bed we were only having sex for about 4 of them. The most worthless sex I've had in a long time, I didn't know if I should laugh or give him a hug and tell him to slow down.

 

[Ekserb]

I'd just like to make it clear that the two times I paid for sex were among the least disappointing events of my life. I wanted sex. I got it. I didn't have to take her out to dinner or invest in flowers or even dress nice. Hell, I didn't even need a car, job or home (although I had those things; they just weren't necessary).

Now, if I were looking for romance, the red light district would probably not be my first stop. That is probably obvious to most people.

 

[Angryniceguy]

The disappointments that have stuck with me are:
Having a girl who told all and sundry of her love of blowjobs and all they bring vomiting when I came then looking a me and pointing out that always happens and if I mentioned it she would tell the world I had sperm like bleach. Charmer.
Another was being told that lasting over an hour is too much and that a good session is 20 mins. Gutted.

New gf seems happy with my taste and stamina as did the last, hope I don't taste like bleach and bore women sexually.

 

[GoodOmen]

My ex and I had been apart - distance, not broken up - for about a month, so we were really looking forward to our reunion date/night of passion. When I got to her place, we were both horny beyond belief, but agreed to hold off until after our date. Withholding pleasure would increase the pleasure later, right? It made sense at the time.

Anyway, we had a great date, went for a walk by the river, made out a little bit on a park bench, had a drink or two, caught a cab home. By the time we got there, we were both so exhausted, we didn't have the energy to have sex. It was kind of like how at the end of the day on Christmas day you're completely exhausted from the anticipation and then the excitement of the day. We just fell asleep.

I suppose it wasn't all that bad because we were just happy to be back together, but man, I really wanted to feel her riding me.

 

[evanwired]

never mind

 

[philos]

not quite a sexual experience but I lusted after a guy from high school for ages....we bumped into each other yrs later and he asked me on a date.....he was the most crap kisser ever........soooooooo disappointing and he wasnt what I had imagined all those yrs before ......

Guess I should be greatful I've never run into my high school crush. It would ruin the fantasy and after 20 years we're totally different people anyway

 

[Kahlo]

There was this guy I used to like. He was just gorgeous and had the reputation of kind of being a player, so you'd think he'd know what he was doing. Anyways we hooked up at a party one night. He took off my clothes and he prematurely ejaculated and couldn't umm... recover. So he decided to eat me. He was not good at it at all. It was very awkward. I kind of wanted to kick him in the head a little to get him out of there, ya know like you see a mom cat kicking her kittens off her when she doesn't want them nursing.. um.. but yeah.. It was slightly disappointing. LOL!

 

[philos]

There was this guy I used to like. He was just gorgeous and had the reputation of kind of being a player, so you'd think he'd know what he was doing. Anyways we hooked up at a party one night. He took off my clothes and he prematurely ejaculated and couldn't umm... recover. So he decided to eat me. He was not good at it at all. It was very awkward. I kind of wanted to kick him in the head a little to get him out of there, ya know like you see a mom cat kicking her kittens off her when she doesn't want them nursing.. um.. but yeah.. It was slightly disappointing. LOL!

Lol I love the image of you kicking him. Guess maybe a gentle nudge in the right direction would work better but I like your idea better

 

[Kahlo]

Lol I love the image of you kicking him. Guess maybe a gentle nudge in the right direction would work better but I like your idea better

lol.. I am not sure nudging him in the right direction would have helped. I am not sure how to explain it even.. but his whole technique was a little weird and almost painful.. but not in a good way. LOL!!