cactusjack0584
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Did anything make you cry today?
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cheekygirl75
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Yes…. It’s been a while but I was thinking about the future without my parents, which might be relatively soon.
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inkandiridiumnibs
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yes, out of both loss and anger. Just because I wouldn't be able to make the funeral, does not mean you don't tell me of the loss at the time.
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Yes, actually. I did. But maybe that needed to happen.
cactusjack0584
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Even if needed…
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cheekygirl75
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Yes, reading the obituary of a Lit friend who passed away and knowing it was entirely my fault that we’d lost touch.
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That does sound quite rough. I’m sorry that happened
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They can do that
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This resignates with me...
So my grandpa passed away in June 2018... I was close to him, helped him with things like his new electronics, lots of visits, talks etc...
He was 90 and had memory loss, so my uncle placed him in a memory loss home in May 2018....
I was going to visit him there, but never got the chance.
He passed away, and my aunt and uncle were there at his time of passing...
I got the call... THE NEXT DAY that he died...
I have been angry and resentful since. Who does that to close family??
cactusjack0584
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It wasn’t your fault, it’s not like you intentionally didn’t visit. But I am sorry that you experienced that.This resignates with me...
So my grandpa passed away in June 2018... I was close to him, helped him with things like his new electronics, lots of visits, talks etc...
He was 90 and had memory loss, so my uncle placed him in a memory loss home in May 2018....
I was going to visit him there, but never got the chance.
He passed away, and my aunt and uncle were there at his time of passing...
I got the call... THE NEXT DAY that he died...
I have been angry and resentful since. Who does that to close family??
inkandiridiumnibs
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This resignates with me...
So my grandpa passed away in June 2018... I was close to him, helped him with things like his new electronics, lots of visits, talks etc...
He was 90 and had memory loss, so my uncle placed him in a memory loss home in May 2018....
I was going to visit him there, but never got the chance.
He passed away, and my aunt and uncle were there at his time of passing...
I got the call... THE NEXT DAY that he died...
I have been angry and resentful since. Who does that to close family??
I found out 6 months after their passing. We weren't that close any longer, but, we would still toss each other a message around birthdays or certain holidays. I sent a message for their birthday, and got a call saying they had passed and they didn't want to bother me because they knew I wouldn't be able to attend the funeral.
cactusjack0584
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Well I’m sorry to hear about your health issues. But there is nothing wrong with crying, if you need to you should. I also respect if you’ve already done enough of it before. Regardless
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I'm about to. My daughter (8) is having a tough time socially at school and getting bullied by a really mean and destructive kid. Talked to some of the other parents about it, one mom volunteers in their class regularly and apparently this kid makes my daughter cry every single day. Daughter hasn't mentioned this but it makes my heart ache.
jays78
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That sucks. My oldest went throught that a bit at the same age. Hope this gets sorted out quickly for your daughter and you. Hugs.
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Too many things. I need to just stop.
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I'd address this soon. I've read too many heartbreaking stories of young people going to drastic measures to stop the bullying. It's the schools responsibility to ensure children's safety and well being. Hold their feet to the fire. In my school days, I was always picked on, bullied. I dealt with it, buried the pain inside. It made me hate people, fueled my introvertedness. I learned to live in my head where I could be happy, I still battle with those struggles and sometimes insecurities. Those early encounters shape your life, shape who you are. Please, for your daughters sake, confront the school, not in anger or in a threatening manner, at least not unless nothing is done. Forgive me if I am sounding offensive or presumptive. It's truly not my intention. It kills me to see or hear about children getting bullied. It's still a very personal thing that gets me very worked up.
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I didn’t quite cry but I got teary and angry. A very close friend might have cancer again. She’s been through so much already.
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