Degrade and humiliation kink

[Cuckwannabe111]

I have recently discovered something about myself. I get turned on by getting degraded and/or insulted. I also feel this would be transferred to hearing wife's lover humiliate her, if we ever got into that lifestyle. I know it's wrong, but it turns me on so much

 

[Sweepup50]

I know what you mean, the thought is a big turn on for me.

 

[littlecordelera]

I have recently discovered something about myself. I get turned on by getting degraded and/or insulted. I also feel this would be transferred to hearing wife's lover humiliate her, if we ever got into that lifestyle. I know it's wrong, but it turns me on so much

It's only wrong if you are hurting others. Outside of that, what others think of your sex life is none of their business.

 

[Wonderer67]

It's only wrong if you are hurting others. Outside of that, what others think of your sex life is none of their business.

This is very true. I have a thing for humiliation and my wife likes to challenge me a bit. I’d never do anything super humiliating in front of others, but the idea that they could possibly see me turns me on.

Examples: my wife and I at Victoria’s Secret at the mall, buying panties for me and the ways she’s talking makes it very obvious. So embarrassed at the check out counters, o maybe her or me asking one of the clerks if these panties would fit a size 34 or 36 male.

Or… a few weeks ago at our farm, she handcuffed me to a harrow plow, behind the barn which is quite near a major road. She pulled down my pants and spanked me. Not too hard or for long, but the idea that cars were going by and if someone pulled into the farm or had just the right angle, they could have seen me, turned me on so much.

I don’t know what it is about humiliation, and I don’t really want to know why… but I really love it.

 

[littlecordelera]

Am I correct in assuming that this humiliation or degradation would only be arousing when delivered by your spouse or significant other? Or do people get aroused by this sort of treatment no matter what the source?

My husband likes this sort of thing, but only from me. If someone else were to attempt to degrade him, he would quickly provide a lashing retort.

 

[whenagain]

Am I correct in assuming that this humiliation or degradation would only be arousing when delivered by your spouse or significant other? Or do people get aroused by this sort of treatment no matter what the source?

My husband likes this sort of thing, but only from me. If someone else were to attempt to degrade him, he would quickly provide a lashing retort.

I don’t get aroused no matter what the source but certain kinds of jokes or teasing can push my buttons even when it’s not my partner.

 

[magicman76]

Am I correct in assuming that this humiliation or degradation would only be arousing when delivered by your spouse or significant other? Or do people get aroused by this sort of treatment no matter what the source?

My husband likes this sort of thing, but only from me. If someone else were to attempt to degrade him, he would quickly provide a lashing retort.

lol your marriage is pathetic

 

[lil_jenni]

I can really get off on being humiliated and degraded by my husband, but in private rather than public. I don't think I would find it arousing at all in most public settings. Luckily, my husband would never do that to me anyway... hell, he usually doesn't even like doing it in private, but he will indulge me sometimes because he knows I like it.

I wonder... does that make my marriage pathetic like was mentioned about a poster above me, or does that only apply when the situation does not meet someone's preconceived gender norms?

 

[whenagain]

I can really get off on being humiliated and degraded by my husband, but in private rather than public. I don't think I would find it arousing at all in most public settings. Luckily, my husband would never do that to me anyway... hell, he usually doesn't even like doing it in private, but he will indulge my sometimes because he knows I like it.

I wonder... does that make my marriage pathetic like was mentioned about a poster above me, or does that only apply when the situation does not meet someone's preconceived gender norms?

I think magicman just has an issue with these kind of kinks in general.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife just had me bring in the garbage cans naked. Not too risky as it was almost dark out, but I’d be fucking mortified if one of my neighbors drove by… I’d probably have to hit the dirt.

She sat there watching tv and watching me walk down the driveway through the living room window, her eyebrows arched… luckily no one was on the road tonight.