deep sadness

[Jade]

I guess my baby didn't want me

she left me this morning

I named her Noel Celeste b/c she was conceived christmas eve and is now an angel

I am back from the hospital and am very sad

I will never regret not aborting

 

[MissTaken]

hugs Jade.

I am so sorry to hear your news. Noel is a beautiful name and her being concieved on Christmas eve is special. She is special and as you said, is an angel now.


Be well. E mail me or pm me if you want to chat a bit.

Take care
Miss T

 

[T.H. Oughts]

My deepest thoughts in your time of sadness.

 

[Xander]

I am so very very sorry to hear that Jade.....I dont know what to say....you are in my thoughts my friend...as always.

*HUGS*

 

[on_the_verge]

Deeply sorry for my callous thought and misjudgement.

 

[Cath!]

huggs, Jade from someone who has been there twice...I always looked at this as a sign that things would have been harder had she made it the whole way...but for now, all you can do is grieve...and that is healthy.

 

[LukkyKnight]

((( Jade )))

She lives in your memory.
http://64.45.32.76/PW/flowers/rose11.gif

 

[princess4u]

so sorry to hear jade - holding you close in thought ~

 

[on_the_verge]

Before I get flamed, maybe I am not readig into what happened as acute as what had occured. I look at Jades words, but I am left wondering what actually happened and why?

I do have a deep sadness for the lost of life, any life for that matter and as much as I will onr day be faced with attempting to create a child with a love, I do hope that it will be wonderful and the lives shared and created will not have to endure the pain that comes with loss.

 

[Cloak38]

I am sorry for your loss...

 

[freakygirl]

Re: Re: deep sadness

So, you post this in mourning, but you also do not regret the abortion for some reason or another. Is this your first abortion and why are you sad? You made the choices for some reason or another, but you also post it. I am not trying to be callous or insensitive, but I am try to figure out why you chose to post about it here like so. There are sites like oxygen.com that could be suited, but I am sure there are people here that have been in your shoes. I just hope you are well and that you can get beyond this. Maybe when the time and situation is right?

I think you need to go back and read her post..

or maybe I do..

She lost the baby.. not aborted it..

right guys? I'm reading her original post correctly.. aren't i?

 

[modest mouse]

This is one of those times to allow those close to you to provide the comfort and love they wish to give you. Let them.

Allow yourself to feel the pain, to feel horrible and terrible and sad, its ok to feel such. Love of life is something we all have, especially a mother.

It seems clinical but please, as someone who has dealt with miscarriage a bit, know that there is a reason somewhere. Perhaps your body wasnt ready, or it just wasnt right. In the future things will have another chance, to provide you with a small loved one, one who calls you 'mom' and has an amazing ability to shit his diapers at will.

As a stranger, Jade, I offer you sincere hugs and wishes for the best in the future.

 

[patient1]

I'm really sorry for you. That is a terrible experience to have.

 

[TN_Vixen]

on the verge

trust me, you've already been flamed in my mind ever since I read that idiotic statement above.

It's obvious she miscarried.

Jade, I'm very very sorry for you. I understand how difficult it is, I've been there myself and I still remember my baby angel.

(hugs) Let me know if you want to talk.

 

[on_the_verge]

Jade, I understand now as I have read back. I am sorry for being an ass on my own faults for not reading and understanding. I can admit I was wrong and I hope I have not hurt you any further than you need to be. I know it's hard and I am taking my head away in shame. Peace and joy in your life, just know your hearts were there and one day when the time is right and God willing, there will be happiness and a family to gather and enjoy through it all.

 

[lilminx]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[lavender]

 

[Wiggles]

Jade

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm so happy that you got to love your baby though. One day you will meet her in heaven and tell her just how much she meant to you.

You are in my thoughts, and I wish you peace in your heart.

 

[juicylips]

*HUGGS*

I am terribly sorry for your loss.

Cassidy

 

[LRC]

Sorry for your loss Jade

Allow yourself to feel the pain, to feel horrible and terrible and sad, its ok to feel such. Love of life is something we all have, especially a mother. .... quoted from Modest Mouse's post

Words similar to these helped me when I lost my twins. Don't let anyone rush you thru the grieving process. Take all the time you need.

 

[freakygirl]

Jade, I'm sorry for your loss..

I've been there.. I know your pain..

Take MM's advice..

*hugs* PM me if you would like to talk

 

[Summery]

My Sympathy Jade....I am so very sorry for your loss. {{Hugs}}

 

[PacificBlue]

I'm sorry Jade. {{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}

 

[Angel]

I'm sorry. You have a PM.

 

[LukkyKnight]

A torn jacket is soon mended; but hard words bruise the heart...

- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow