decided to find out once and for all. DOES SIZE MATTER?

does size matter???

  • MALE - 1 to 4 inches

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • MALE - 4 to 6 inches

    Votes: 21 18.9%
  • MALE - 6 to 8 inches

    Votes: 45 40.5%
  • MALE - 9 inches +

    Votes: 10 9.0%
  • FEMALE - 1 to 4 inches

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • FEMALE - 4 to 6 inches

    Votes: 4 3.6%
  • FEMALE - 6 to 8 inches

    Votes: 14 12.6%
  • FEMALE - 9 inches +

    Votes: 2 1.8%
  • i dont care about size

    Votes: 10 9.0%
  • i dont care because nothing is going inside me!!!

    Votes: 5 4.5%

  • Total voters
    111

madmanmike

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ok this is for the guys and girls. its for the gays and lesbians. its also for the bisexuals and trannys. does size matter? if you dont like men just use toy size.
 
That's a rather open-ended question (pun intended). Yes, of course size matters. If someone says it doesn't matter to them, most of them are either lying or delusiuonal or they have no idea what you're talking about.

The next question is, what is the intent behind the question? When people ask it, they usually mean "Does LARGE size matter (are large penises really that desirable and in such high demand)?" To that I'd say no, not as much as people tend to think.

That being said, people have their own preferences and they vary widely of course. But I think generally speaking people don't one that is too small ("Is it in yet?") or too big ("OWWW! It hurrrts! Take it out-take it out-take it out!")...

Well, you get the idea.
 
Stuponfucious said:
That's a rather open-ended question (pun intended). Yes, of course size matters. If someone says it doesn't matter to them, most of them are either lying or delusiuonal or they have no idea what you're talking about.


I may mildly prefer some sizes over others, but it really doesn't matter to me, and that's the truth. As long as the guy penetrates me, and all guys should be able to do that.

The only exception being if guys cocks are so big it's very painful causing severe bleeding, but that would be a rare case I think--there are always those rare exceptions.

I've had a guy with a thick cock that made me bleed a bit (spotty blood). It was painful a little but very pleasurable. A *little* pain turns me on as well.
 
Lorrie Flash said:
I may mildly prefer some sizes over others, but it really doesn't matter to me, and that's the truth. As long as the guy penetrates me, and all guys should be able to do that.

The only exception being if guys cocks are so big it's very painful causing severe bleeding, but that would be a rare case I think--there are always those rare exceptions.

I've had a guy with a thick cock that made me bleed a bit (spotty blood). It was painful a little but very pleasurable. A *little* pain turns me on as well.

So what you're really saying is, yes size actually matters to you?
 
Stuponfucious said:
So what you're really saying is, yes size actually matters to you?

Not really. Pain doesn't always have to happen. There are other nice things about fucking that equals that.

If you want a simple yes or no from me then I'd have to say: No, it does not matter.
 
Naive

ok, i need some help here.

i have not had alot of partners (5) because i have had all long term relationships. The shortest relationship i had was for a little over 2 yrs. Call me old fashioned but before i have sex with my partner i want to know who i am fucking.

every gal i had sex with i made them orgasm. i didnt say everytime but i did make them orgasm. this is not what i thought this is what they told me.

i am not big (little over 7") and i guess average thickness. they told me that when my cock is almost in all the way it hits something that makes them get all light headed. i would guess i would hit that button somewhere around 5 inches in.

When i hit that button over and over their legs start to shake, they might break out into a big laughter, start to cry, or pass out. Yes, all 4 emotions have happened before.

my question is if i was lets say 4" then how can i hit that button?

i am not a stud by any means nor am i patting myself on the back. I am just curious, thats all.

thanks,

naive here
 
No size doesn't matter if the guy knows what he's doing. But it is more desirable.
 
Re: Naive

south_florida_bicur said:
Call me old fashioned but before i have sex with my partner i want to know who i am fucking.



my question is if i was lets say 4" then how can i hit that button?


You could know someone very well in two days, and not know a person very well after two months. That's why I don't time when I have sex with someone.

There are 2 "G-Spots". One is about 2" in the pussy--above. So if your cock was 2" inches long, no problem getting to that one.

The second so-called G-Spot is at the uterus wall, which you can not go beyond. The length to reach this second G-Spot dependes on the length of the woman's vaginal tunnel. Generally, I'd say a guy needs to have a 6 1/2" + cock to reach that spot.
 
The second so-called G-Spot is at the uterus wall, which you can not go beyond. The length to reach this second G-Spot dependes on the length of the woman's vaginal tunnel. Generally, I'd say a guy needs to have a 6 1/2" + cock to reach that spot.

ok, then this is what i am referring to. i didnt think it was that far in but like i said i am a little over 7" with a curve and it hits the spot everytime.

btw, yes its true that you can not know someone after 2 months of dating. very true!
 
Lorrie Flash said:
Not really. Pain doesn't always have to happen. There are other nice things about fucking that equals that.

If you want a simple yes or no from me then I'd have to say: No, it does not matter.

But you said you wouldn't want one that's too big, right?
 
Stuponfucious said:
But you said you wouldn't want one that's too big, right?

Not one that's 3 inches wide (not girth, but width) from the tip of the cock to the end. But how many cocks are like that around?
 
Lorrie Flash said:
Not one that's 3 inches wide (not girth, but width) from the tip of the cock to the end. But how many cocks are like that around?

753, 489.

But the likelihood of encountering such a specimen is moot. If you have any standards regarding size, then by definition size matters to you.
 
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This is a hard question to answer because if you're turned on enough, they'd all work!

I suppose a guy would just have to learn with the equipment he's got. If it's really big don't try and pump it in a lot. If it's really small, move faster (or get really skilled with the tongue I suppose)
 
I just thought of something...why is this in the GLBT section? It doesn't seem to me to be an exclusively GLBT issue.
 
madmanmike said:
ok this is for the guys and girls. its for the gays and lesbians. its also for the bisexuals and trannys. does size matter? if you dont like men just use toy size.

Size matters, but not the way most guys seem to think. There is such a thing as too much, and too little a good thing.

Also, if a guy is going to be "above average," I'd prefer it be in girth rather than length. Length is just a bit over-rated, IMO.
 
ok this is for the guys and girls. its for the gays and lesbians. its also for the bisexuals and trannys. does size matter? if you dont like men just use toy size.

i am a gay t.v and i have to say yes size matters ,please dont get me wrong ,i love all cocks but the best sex i ever had was with a guy who had a ten inch cock ,kneeling at his feet sucking on that beauty was so sexy and when he bent me over the back of a chair and fucked me ,god i felt so full it was heaven so yes for me size does matter .
 
it doesn't really matter to me, and I am about 5 to 6 inches long (maybe longer). But, I have a thick cock too, so it somewhat evens out.
 
A man takes a hooker back to his hotel room and they begin to undress. As he turns, naked, toward the hooker she looks at his penis and begins to laugh asking "Who could you possibly please with that little dick"?

Without a moments hesitation the man replies "Me".


So, I guess it all depends on what are you referring to when you ask "does size MATTER". I would suppose that you might also get different answers from a woman that is 3'6" than you would from a woman that is 6'3". So, in your question, "Matter" to who? in what manner? in what context? etc etc etc.
 
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I think size matters....but, what are we talking about. monster cock, big cock (long and thick) my only three male sex partners, one was long and thing cock'd. the other was 5" and thick....the last was about 8", much more bottom. but wasn't much for a cocks man.

The 5" thick was much more satisfying...my long thin cock'd luvr had a little curve...gave some special sin'sation. But, having that thick cock sliding in and out...HOT

Mrs K on the other hand....when asked this question, straight away will say thickness. she has had a few cock and a cpl were biggies. The avg cock with girth always got her off the best. Though she luv'd playing with and was truly amazed with the big cocks. Mrs k, seems too enjoy my 6.5 thick cock....likes to ride hard and take good fucking
 
Toy wise, I guess 4 inches is not quite enough sometimes.. 6inches can be too much...

I once had a boyfriend who was huge 8-9" and I had to keep my hand on it to stop him hurting me as he always wanted to go as deep as possible... Never orgasmed with him as the stress was ever present.

Best male partner was about 5-6" and thick.. Perfect for me or as perfect as a man can be

Anyhow, I generally just use my fingers now so thats fine
 
lenth only?

ok this is for the guys and girls. its for the gays and lesbians. its also for the bisexuals and trannys. does size matter? if you dont like men just use toy size.

What about circumference? And then there's before or during erection.
 
I think guys with 7-8 inches or so to play with are best. I want them bigger than me(I'm more submissive), but not so big that it hurts.
 
This is quite possibly the oldest thread I have ever seen bumped.
 
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