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Dear GP

Please don't give me that 'nothing you can do but rest' crap when I come down to see you next week. She is my daughter, she has the same thing I had, and I went through the same thing and only found out years later that YES there was lots that could be done. I'm prepared to fight you over it if I have to, she's my child and I wouldn't be doing my job if I let you fob me off the way you (well another of your ilk) did my parents.

A Caring Concerned Mum
 
dear mom,
even though you're not yourself anymore, i still enjoy seeing sparks of you in there. i pray that you'll get better, but i know those chances are slim. i pray that you'll be safe, happy, and pain free. i'm doing my best to make those things happen. please work with me though. i'm only one person and can only do so much. you have to allow me to get help from others, when my siblings won't help. we'll make it thru this mom. you've taken care of us all these years, let me take care of you now.
i love you,
your daughter
 
Dear Cousin,

I just wanted to tell you that soon I will be sharing all with you...you have always loved me unconditionally, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that, because I know, you will still be there for me.

You should have been my sister, but I'm so glad you are even more than that

I love you.
 
Dear X,
I was open and honest just as promised, I guess to much so.

Friendship I thought was based on that and not turning away.

I assume I was wrong on all accounts. I do hope you have a

wonderful amazing weekend, you truly deserve it.

Best of Luck always

Signed ,

Simply Me
 
Dear T:

Thanks for the after-nooner!! Was the best way to start a weekend :kiss:

~I love how you hold me down Litster ;)
 
Dear J

I tried to hold it together for as long as I could, but I believe I would have lost my mind by now if I didn't leave for a different life. I wish you could be me for a few days... then you would learn that living with a narcissist is nearly impossible. It really WAS all about you. All the time. In Your head. You made me feel small and on quicksand several times every week. I loved the part where you'd start huge arguments over the most trivial thing, and, in order to bring peace back to my life, I'd apologize for wronging you, even though I had no fucking idea what the cause of the fight was.

It was a sick way to live but I did not want to fail in our marriage. But I found that I was failing at life... and I had to save myself and rediscover my true authentic self.

I hope... truly... that you find a different way to live... you have no idea how deeply you scarred me
 
Dear J

I tried to hold it together for as long as I could, but I believe I would have lost my mind by now if I didn't leave for a different life. I wish you could be me for a few days... then you would learn that living with a narcissist is nearly impossible. It really WAS all about you. All the time. In Your head. You made me feel small and on quicksand several times every week. I loved the part where you'd start huge arguments over the most trivial thing, and, in order to bring peace back to my life, I'd apologize for wronging you, even though I had no fucking idea what the cause of the fight was.

It was a sick way to live but I did not want to fail in our marriage. But I found that I was failing at life... and I had to save myself and rediscover my true authentic self.

I hope... truly... that you find a different way to live... you have no idea how deeply you scarred me

You made a very brave decision...good luck with your future. It will certainly be better than your past.
Bill :rose:
 
Dear J

I tried to hold it together for as long as I could, but I believe I would have lost my mind by now if I didn't leave for a different life. I wish you could be me for a few days... then you would learn that living with a narcissist is nearly impossible. It really WAS all about you. All the time. In Your head. You made me feel small and on quicksand several times every week. I loved the part where you'd start huge arguments over the most trivial thing, and, in order to bring peace back to my life, I'd apologize for wronging you, even though I had no fucking idea what the cause of the fight was.

It was a sick way to live but I did not want to fail in our marriage. But I found that I was failing at life... and I had to save myself and rediscover my true authentic self.

I hope... truly... that you find a different way to live... you have no idea how deeply you scarred me

Congrats on your decision to take care of you!! I too, was stuck in a similar situation, and leaving was the best decision I ever made. Embrace your new life, your freedom and your happiness!!;):kiss:
 
Dear GP

Please don't give me that 'nothing you can do but rest' crap when I come down to see you next week. She is my daughter, she has the same thing I had, and I went through the same thing and only found out years later that YES there was lots that could be done. I'm prepared to fight you over it if I have to, she's my child and I wouldn't be doing my job if I let you fob me off the way you (well another of your ilk) did my parents.

A Caring Concerned Mum

Just saw that- Hope you've been heard (((((ERF))))) :rose:
 
Dear X ,
I could not believe how weak and spineless you were the other morning - I have no respect for you at all now .
Disgusted and dismayed Litster
 
Dear X,

I was stupid and foolish

I realized I need to take more time and dont jump to conclusions.

Im humbled..

I do miss everything I said and much more..

Thank you for accepting my appology (I am sorry) but I owe you much more to prove of myself..And I will ..

Cherishing YOU, honestly, trust, keeping you happy, and your friendship means more than can words can express:heart:



You know who..:cool:

:rose:x12
 
dear biological sister,
why don't you take some lessons from the sisters that are dear to my heart?
signed
sad that you're the sister i got stuck with
 
Congrats on your decision to take care of you!! I too, was stuck in a similar situation, and leaving was the best decision I ever made. Embrace your new life, your freedom and your happiness!!;):kiss:

thank you for your kind words.... I am living in a new, more wonderful place now
 
Dear Work Study Sister of Heather #3,

Just because the boss is on vacation does not give you the right to speak to me however you want. If I wanted to send a photo to our VP by interoffice mail, I would have done so, instead of asking you to deliver it.

You're getting as worthless (and as pudgy) as your sister.
 
Dear X,
It must be nice to only have to work 3 nights a week while I put in 50 hour a week work week, sleep 12-14 hours a day, get up, drink coffee, park your (to be honest) quickly increasing in size body on the couch in front of the tv and then bitch about everything that isn't done around here.
Perhaps I should be writing this to myself asking why I put up with it.
Questioning myself as much as you
 
Dear X,

Sometimes I wonder about you, but contrary to your belief I have better things to do than talk about what a fuck up you are all the time.
I just thought it would be nice that she see her Grandfather one more time before he passes. Not my fault you screwed up and got cut out. Dads loves her despite who her mother is.
 
Dear BF (or is that X.... lol),

I share well. That doesn't mean it's ok to spend the whole time we're together texting your wife, friends, or other lovers. Also, telling me that your wife wants you to visit me so she can have some alone time is kind of douchey. Saying it more than two times in an evening is really, really douchey, and makes me feel like your back up plan. Maybe you should just rent a hotel room when she wants you out of her face. At least hotels have wifi & cable.

See you next time you're here because you want to spend time with me, not when your wife wants some solitude.

Over It
 
Dear Moronic Old Guy in the parking lot:

I understand you wanted the space I parked in. I understand you are a little miffed because I fit my smaller Dodge Caravan into it much easier than you would have tried to fit that tiny aircraft carrier you drive. I understand that miffed you so much that you sarcastically said thanks as I walked by.

However, last time I checked, you didn't have a handicapped decal on your "truck". To me, that means that you still have your mobility and can walk the extra one or two parking spaces to get into the grocery store. Maybe being bitter is the best you can do, but I pulled through so I wouldn't endanger the other vehicles by trying to back out. Think about it.
 
Dear X,

You really irratated me today. When I told you No I didn't haven't it to give. That I was on limited funds for vacation, that's exactly what I ment. How could you call and ask him for the money then volunteer me to wire it to you and have him pay me back when I get there? You know what condition he's in. He'll forget to pay me and I'm surely not going to ask him for the money!
Your little stunt is the spittin' image of things your mother pulls all the time, and has me fuming because you know I won't tell him I already told you No.
 
dear big toe,
what is up with the skin on the bottom of you? peeling off in strips? don't you think that's a tad bit disgusting? it kinda hurts, so knock it the fuck off. what is my pedicurist going to say when i go in? 'that not good' :D so shape up. enough peeling. enough hurting. fly right by golly or you'll be replaced.
you've been warned.
 
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