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ultramarineblue
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Dear X,
I don't know that you will actually read this. It's awfully presumptuous to even thing you will. I'm not going to bother you any more even though I feel like I've lost one of my closest friends. I don't even know why I feel that way. Thank you for the friendship you gave.
I don't know that you will actually read this. It's awfully presumptuous to even thing you will. I'm not going to bother you any more even though I feel like I've lost one of my closest friends. I don't even know why I feel that way. Thank you for the friendship you gave.
rida
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Dear x
I know.
Lil ól red.
Nice.
What now.
{{{hugs}}} for both of you.
ultramarineblue
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{{{hugs}}} for both of you.
*hugs*
BiaTcHiNFiRe
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Dear X,
sometimes I wonder HOW the fuck you and I can be sisters..
~me
sometimes I wonder HOW the fuck you and I can be sisters..
~me
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bellassecret
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Dear X
Your attempts to manipulate me are pathetic. I will not play your game.
Your attempts to manipulate me are pathetic. I will not play your game.
BiaTcHiNFiRe
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Yes DON'T!! *huggs*
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ecstaticsub
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Dear Government Agency,
Please work with me. Why must such a simple thing be made so difficult? You have all the paperwork you need just give your blessing and get the ball rolling. My life (and that of my husband and children) is in limbo until you do. I'm not just a number.
--Me
Please work with me. Why must such a simple thing be made so difficult? You have all the paperwork you need just give your blessing and get the ball rolling. My life (and that of my husband and children) is in limbo until you do. I'm not just a number.
--Me
Exactly!!! Hope it comes through quickly for you.
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*hugs* Best of luck!
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Thank you. Maybe the Agency lady reads this forum, she called me and things are starting to come together.
bellassecret
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Dear X,
Thank you for your email. I think it's time I got a few things out in the open with you. I was 'gracious' and 'polite' in my email to you because that is how I treat people when I give them the benefit of the doubt in a situation. And in spite of how you behaved on Sunday, this is what I wanted to do for you. Perhaps you were not feeling well or life was stressing you out in other ways. I wanted to believe the best of you, but this latest email has only indicated how manipulative you are, on top of thinking it is OK to treat people badly.
I can see through what you are trying to say to me easily enough. You want two things in this email: you want me to beg you to join us in the Children's Day performance, and you want to see who is on your "side" after Sunday. Let me make this very clear. I am not on your side. I do not approve of your behaviour, and frankly, neither does anyone else in the group. But there is more to it than that.
You complain that people are 'gossiping about' and 'publicly abusing' you. Well when you publicly abuse other people who do not deserve it, do not be upset when someone calls you out on your behaviour.
Let me explain, because you clearly don't get it. L-, you know, your friend, was the one who suggested everyone bring their children along to rehearsal so we could check costumes, and so on. Expecting children to sit quietly for 2 hours is unrealistic. All things considered, I thought the kids were quite well behaved. They were making a little noise, but it was not excessive. You, however, were sitting in the middle of a group of drummers. How is it possible that the sound of children playing that didn't bother the rest of us, was so loud that it 'you couldn't hear the beat'?
Then you yell at the children. And later, get up and abuse them, ignoring the mother of one of the boys who was nearby. And you abuse a total stranger, saying "why can't you control your children?"
Clearly you are not aware that the mother of the boy you abused is a good friend of mine. And you definitely are not aware that the stranger you abused is my sister. And you didn't bother to even find out if the children you spoke of were hers. They were not. She had never even met them.
Obviously you would like to take the victim role in this. You call it being 'publicly abused'. What I saw was my friend, A-, a usually quiet woman, being brave enough to publicly criticise your behaviour. You really have a cheek complaining about being abused when that is exactly what you then did to A-, not just once, but again later. You went up to A- and yelled at her while she was holding D-'s little girl. You obviously did not care if you frightened a toddler.
And as for gossip. I have never heard any gossip about you. I know nothing about your life and I don't want to. What I have heard is not gossip. Bitching, perhaps, but I feel it was justified. You see every year we dancers put a lot of work into our performances. Last year we spent a lot of time rehearsing our sword dance - 4 rehearsals a week, on top of our group Sunday rehearsal. Then at the last minute you decide you want to perform a dance, and manage to persuade L- to let you. Oh don't worry, we were annoyed at L- for assuming she could make that decision for everyone. I think we could have lived with it if we'd had some warning, but most of us didn't know you were doing a sword dance until the actual performance. And I think we could have lived with it if the dance you did was any good. It wasn't. Frankly you were awful. You clearly hadn't even practiced. It made the rest of us who had worked so hard more than a little upset.
And again, you have decided to do the same dance this year. You haven't danced once in rehearsal so far, but two weeks before the performance you decide to join in. And again you haven't practiced. If you had, you would actually be able to dance with the sword on your head. You couldn't even balance it standing still. Let me tell you this. Any fool can dance with a sword balanced on their hand. If you are going to do a sword dance, please make sure you know what you are doing first.
So you see, people have talked about you behind your back. But can you blame us? Would you rather we 'abused you in public' over this? Most of us just want the group to run smoothly and for everyone to have fun. We don't want fights and confrontation. If they happen, it upsets us all. Just as we were all upset by you on Sunday.
And one final thing. Why on earth do you want to come along to the Children's Day? You clearly do not like children! If the sound of three boys playing bothers you, then how are you going to cope with a whole crowd of children? We are not only expected to perform for the kids, we have to interact with them too, teaching them dance moves, and perhaps some drumming too. From the sounds of things, you'd hate it.
X, please do not try to manipulate me further. If I need to sum this up for you at all, A is a dear friend, and H is my sister. You treated them badly for no reason. You are insulted when your behaviour is questioned, and then expect sympathy. You will not get it from me.
I would prefer it if you didn't email me again,
Bella
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Sorry for the long post. Just the email I wish I could send.
Thank you for your email. I think it's time I got a few things out in the open with you. I was 'gracious' and 'polite' in my email to you because that is how I treat people when I give them the benefit of the doubt in a situation. And in spite of how you behaved on Sunday, this is what I wanted to do for you. Perhaps you were not feeling well or life was stressing you out in other ways. I wanted to believe the best of you, but this latest email has only indicated how manipulative you are, on top of thinking it is OK to treat people badly.
I can see through what you are trying to say to me easily enough. You want two things in this email: you want me to beg you to join us in the Children's Day performance, and you want to see who is on your "side" after Sunday. Let me make this very clear. I am not on your side. I do not approve of your behaviour, and frankly, neither does anyone else in the group. But there is more to it than that.
You complain that people are 'gossiping about' and 'publicly abusing' you. Well when you publicly abuse other people who do not deserve it, do not be upset when someone calls you out on your behaviour.
Let me explain, because you clearly don't get it. L-, you know, your friend, was the one who suggested everyone bring their children along to rehearsal so we could check costumes, and so on. Expecting children to sit quietly for 2 hours is unrealistic. All things considered, I thought the kids were quite well behaved. They were making a little noise, but it was not excessive. You, however, were sitting in the middle of a group of drummers. How is it possible that the sound of children playing that didn't bother the rest of us, was so loud that it 'you couldn't hear the beat'?
Then you yell at the children. And later, get up and abuse them, ignoring the mother of one of the boys who was nearby. And you abuse a total stranger, saying "why can't you control your children?"
Clearly you are not aware that the mother of the boy you abused is a good friend of mine. And you definitely are not aware that the stranger you abused is my sister. And you didn't bother to even find out if the children you spoke of were hers. They were not. She had never even met them.
Obviously you would like to take the victim role in this. You call it being 'publicly abused'. What I saw was my friend, A-, a usually quiet woman, being brave enough to publicly criticise your behaviour. You really have a cheek complaining about being abused when that is exactly what you then did to A-, not just once, but again later. You went up to A- and yelled at her while she was holding D-'s little girl. You obviously did not care if you frightened a toddler.
And as for gossip. I have never heard any gossip about you. I know nothing about your life and I don't want to. What I have heard is not gossip. Bitching, perhaps, but I feel it was justified. You see every year we dancers put a lot of work into our performances. Last year we spent a lot of time rehearsing our sword dance - 4 rehearsals a week, on top of our group Sunday rehearsal. Then at the last minute you decide you want to perform a dance, and manage to persuade L- to let you. Oh don't worry, we were annoyed at L- for assuming she could make that decision for everyone. I think we could have lived with it if we'd had some warning, but most of us didn't know you were doing a sword dance until the actual performance. And I think we could have lived with it if the dance you did was any good. It wasn't. Frankly you were awful. You clearly hadn't even practiced. It made the rest of us who had worked so hard more than a little upset.
And again, you have decided to do the same dance this year. You haven't danced once in rehearsal so far, but two weeks before the performance you decide to join in. And again you haven't practiced. If you had, you would actually be able to dance with the sword on your head. You couldn't even balance it standing still. Let me tell you this. Any fool can dance with a sword balanced on their hand. If you are going to do a sword dance, please make sure you know what you are doing first.
So you see, people have talked about you behind your back. But can you blame us? Would you rather we 'abused you in public' over this? Most of us just want the group to run smoothly and for everyone to have fun. We don't want fights and confrontation. If they happen, it upsets us all. Just as we were all upset by you on Sunday.
And one final thing. Why on earth do you want to come along to the Children's Day? You clearly do not like children! If the sound of three boys playing bothers you, then how are you going to cope with a whole crowd of children? We are not only expected to perform for the kids, we have to interact with them too, teaching them dance moves, and perhaps some drumming too. From the sounds of things, you'd hate it.
X, please do not try to manipulate me further. If I need to sum this up for you at all, A is a dear friend, and H is my sister. You treated them badly for no reason. You are insulted when your behaviour is questioned, and then expect sympathy. You will not get it from me.
I would prefer it if you didn't email me again,
Bella
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Sorry for the long post. Just the email I wish I could send.
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Sir_Winston54
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Chit, send it. The jerk needs to hear the unvarnished truth for once in his/her life.
Or print it out and get all the other members of the group to sign it and then present it to X.
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Dear X,
I love you too. You are my alpha and my maestro.
xxxxx
I love you too. You are my alpha and my maestro.
xxxxx
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Dear X:
Yesterday was amazing. I had such a wonderful day with you. I told you the other day I have everyone I need now, right here. I wasnt kidding. The only two people I need in the world Ive got. I just hope you stick around. We're doing amazingly and its so much fun. God Ive missed you.
Youre my strength, my rock, my lover and my best friend. I love you
-Me
Yesterday was amazing. I had such a wonderful day with you. I told you the other day I have everyone I need now, right here. I wasnt kidding. The only two people I need in the world Ive got. I just hope you stick around. We're doing amazingly and its so much fun. God Ive missed you.
Youre my strength, my rock, my lover and my best friend. I love you
-Me
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rida
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Dear S,
I've heard from you today and it made my heart beat faster.
I had to take a couple of deep breath before I could open the message.
You were so kind to let me know that you'll be going ahead with a, although it still sounds as if you have some reservations. Good thing I did not tell her that you were not sure that she would be mashing well with us ...
As a reply, I wrote the usual full of blah blah message and did not say the only thing that I really wanted to say and is chocking me up at the moment:
that I love you and miss you.
part-timely yours
I've heard from you today and it made my heart beat faster.
I had to take a couple of deep breath before I could open the message.
You were so kind to let me know that you'll be going ahead with a, although it still sounds as if you have some reservations. Good thing I did not tell her that you were not sure that she would be mashing well with us ...
As a reply, I wrote the usual full of blah blah message and did not say the only thing that I really wanted to say and is chocking me up at the moment:
that I love you and miss you.
part-timely yours
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