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Luvkitty33 said:
I'm sorry Jade! That really, really sucks!! What's with some people these days that they've forgotten HOW to be a friend and what TRUE friendship means? I hope that she didn't completely ruin the day for you.

How is your mom feeling?
She didn't ruin the day- my future mother-in-law, and honey's sister-in-law were there with me, and we did a great job- bought the dress!...though I worried all day. I honestly thought something terrible had happened... but no.

As to my mom... she's not well. Complications.
 
LittleJade said:
She didn't ruin the day- my future mother-in-law, and honey's sister-in-law were there with me, and we did a great job- bought the dress!...though I worried all day. I honestly thought something terrible had happened... but no.

As to my mom... she's not well. Complications.


I'm so glad that your wedding dress shopping day turned out to be a success and that you found THE DRESS!!!!! :nana: :nana: YAY!!! :nana: :nana:
Are you going to post pics, or is it a surprise?

I'm sorry that your mom is having complications. She, and you, are in my thoughts and prayers. :rose:
 
Luvkitty33 said:
I'm sorry! That really doesn't sound fair to me either. Is there anyway that you might be able to talk to your boss about your plans that were already made based on your previous schedule? Do you think he/she might be willing to work something out with you for the holiday, or is there anyone you can switch schedules with? I don't know what kind of work you do, but I do know that I'm very worried about you driving home alone after no sleep, a long night of work, a long drive to get to your family's house, and a huge meal. I'm sorry your boss is being so uncooperative and not having the decency to even discuss the schedule change with you! Hugs! :)
It's a long story. I work in security, and there is no fudging on being there. They need a warm body in my spot and If I'm not there, someone else has to be there to fill my void. That means they pay overtime to that person. They won't do that.

This was a major change in the schedule. They don't happen that often. But, when they do, it's the luck of the draw, that your schedule will suffer. My schedule wasn't the only one changed, and you only heard my story. I'm sure there were others that had plans of some sort and are also unhappy with the changes. Management doesn't care. They can't single me out for a favor or they would be forced to do that for everybody, which is just not possible.

Actually, if they were better organized with planning the schedule changes, they could maybe work out a few issues before they happened. But, we are talking about someone who has a minimal education, but because of his length of time in the company, has moved up to the top.

Trust me...moving up in that company has nothing to do with intelligence. They pick people who can't use their heads for anything but taking orders from a superior. They don't want someone making decisions on his own, without management's OK. And his lack of ability to make an adequate schedule for 25 people only affects those 25 people.

But, I think I can get my sisters to meet me part of the way up there, so I can ride with them. It will depend on which sister is driving, and who's house they are leaving from. It also means I'll have to listen to their gossip about the relatives on the way home. :rolleyes:

Hopefully, with my lack of sleep, I can sleep through the gossip. :nana:

P.S. The rumor I heard last night was he's changing the schedule again, because so many people complained. I don't know if that is good news, or bad news. Sure, it could end up in my favor...but it could just as easily get even worse. I guess I'll find out if the rumor is true on Monday. :eek:

Thank you for your thoughts. Keep your fingers crossed that if the rumors are true, I come out ahead in the latest schedule changes. :rolleyes:
 
Dear Husband O' Mine,

If you spent nearly as much time loving me in stead of trying to catch me doing something "wrong", we would probably be ok! Glad you had such good luck hunting this weekend....looks like your about to find out what I have been hunting too. A little attention, I found it. Some appreciation, got that too! Unfortunately, none from you.

Hmmmmm, welcome home (?) ehhhhh!

Love,
Me
 
Dearest X

I feel like I played with You instead of really considering the man behind the words. I'm sorry. I've spend a lot of time wondering "what if....????"

You are kind, understanding, sweet - and oh so wicked. Which makes what happened that much harder.

Thank You.

nowgirl
 
Dear X;

Thank You so very much for unexpectedly picking me straight off my feet last night and putting me into one hell of a major bear hug. My body not even expecting that; and in doing so You popped all my vertebrae back into alignment, which even my chiropractor had not been able to do.

I feel a foot taller, more relaxed, and the headaches are gone.

You are the Man, in more ways than one. :kiss: :heart:
 
Luvkitty33 said:
I'm so glad that your wedding dress shopping day turned out to be a success and that you found THE DRESS!!!!! :nana: :nana: YAY!!! :nana: :nana:
Are you going to post pics, or is it a surprise?

I'm sorry that your mom is having complications. She, and you, are in my thoughts and prayers. :rose:
*smile* The dress is lovely... but no, no pics. *grin* It's a surprise.
 
Dear fairy-in-the-sky,

Thank you so much for sending me that cute boy to play with. Just when it was starting to get boring and lonely around here, that hawt thing you sent my way was just what i needed.


Dear hawt thing,

Thank you for the lovely evening. You are the hottest thing I've played with in a long time and oh-my-god am I happy that we're on the same kink-waves. You've made my day. I hope you're still a little sore.

Love,
DB
 
Dear X
after that drive all I wanted was to be in your arms, even for the short time until that evil thing called work happend. I am honored to be your pet and I am glad you are my Sir. I cannot wait until I am there again but as you always said you are only a thought away.... close my eyes and your right there with me no matter where I am....

Your Humble Pet
 
Dear X,

I'm sitting here, working on my term marks and would like to think that you are right with me, helping.

Thank you, it helps.
 
Dear Maid of Honour

I'm seriously unimpressed. I haven't heard from you since your wussy email yesterday. Not a word. Not a phone call. Not an email. Nothing.

STEP the FUCK UP!
 
Dear X.
I do hope sat goes as planned...
it will hopefully make up for being alone on my b-day...
I hope it goes well...
 
Dear whoever thought it would be cute to cram all this end of the year calendar holiday thing together - you suck.
 
LittleJade said:
*smile* The dress is lovely... but no, no pics. *grin* It's a surprise.


I'm sure that you will look lovely in your lovely dress!!! I can't wait to see pics of you in it.........all smiling and happy as you marry the man you love!! :rose:

Still no word from said friend, huh? Wow, that really stinks that she's behaving this way. Time to have a serious chat with her I'd think, since you've been friends for so many years, and see if she will step up to the plate.......you know, be happy for you, participate, things that a Made-of-Honor should be doing to make her best friend feel special !!
Sorry, it just makes me sad and frustrated for you, and I hope it gets worked out soon.

Hope the rest of your wedding plans are falling into place!! Have you decided on your flowers yet? :rose:
 
Dear X,

You know, it would be really nice if just once I could spend a few minutes alone with Mom without having to put up with your crappy attitude!!! I'm sick of the double-standards and of having to walk on egg shells around you so that I don't accidently touch something of yours you didn't want me to touch or say something that's going to set off a temper tantrum. It was nice of you to say that I could invite one of my friends to your Christmas party, but I wish you could be nice more than once every few weeks or so. It would make our time together much more pleasant.

Signed,
Sick of Being Sad About it All
 
Dear X,

Thank you for helping like you did this past weekend. You helped make it the success it was.


PS - Safe journey home to you.. even though I'll miss you.
 
Dear X,

Darling, how could you tell me my links don't work? Didn't you know I'd check?

*shakes head*

Fury :rose:
 
Luvkitty33 said:
I'm sure that you will look lovely in your lovely dress!!! I can't wait to see pics of you in it.........all smiling and happy as you marry the man you love!! :rose:

Still no word from said friend, huh? Wow, that really stinks that she's behaving this way. Time to have a serious chat with her I'd think, since you've been friends for so many years, and see if she will step up to the plate.......you know, be happy for you, participate, things that a Made-of-Honor should be doing to make her best friend feel special !!
Sorry, it just makes me sad and frustrated for you, and I hope it gets worked out soon.

Hope the rest of your wedding plans are falling into place!! Have you decided on your flowers yet? :rose:

Still no word. I'm about ready to call her, though I do believe that the ball is firmly in her court.

We've got honey's suit, we've figured out where we're going to get the groomsmen's shirts and ties to match honey's, we've figured out what we WANT for flowers, but haven't spoken to a florist yet.

Red Cala lilies for everyone but me and my honey... mine and his will be white.
 
LittleJade said:
Still no word. I'm about ready to call her, though I do believe that the ball is firmly in her court.

We've got honey's suit, we've figured out where we're going to get the groomsmen's shirts and ties to match honey's, we've figured out what we WANT for flowers, but haven't spoken to a florist yet.

Red Cala lilies for everyone but me and my honey... mine and his will be white.
I emailed her.

Told her that while I know she didn't purposely sleep through her alarm, she knows that she has a habit of doing it, and so should have done SOMETHING to make sure she woke up.

Told her that I need to know if I can count on her to take on the responsibilities of the maid of honour... that she'll be there when she says she'll be there.

Told her I love her, and that I'm not going to bullshit with her- we've known each other too long for that.

This women is like my sister. We've been friends for 22 years. I just hope that she'll be there, y'know?
 
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Dear x:

My feet are cold. I wish you were around to cuddle them and keep them warm.
 
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