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Dear x...... board...


I'm sorry I haven't been posting on you lately.... I'm sorry for not showing my face here since the summer.

But I'm back now, and I've been lurking around on you for a bit. I'm really sorry for the grief some of your submitters are going through, and happy for the joy some others are going through.

SO what have I been doing, you ask?
Well.. Mainly moving to a new city and starting a new education. Yup. Kitten is back on her feet, and ready to make something out of this messy situation :)
I've moved from my dad's house(which was SUCH a relief).... To A new city... it's bigger and tastier! Also, I've started studying as a Multimedia designer. I can't describe enough how happy this education makes me. It contains all the things I like. Also... I finally have my education plans figured out... Or at least a backup plan if my ideal situation wont come true. Which is just as nice IMO. This is one of the best things that's happened to me since I met my love of my life, whom I'm doing great with too.
Yup... I'm going to be visiting him again in the Christmas vacation.... And I've already bought a present for him.... A... lets say... fun and romantic one :p
We're gonna have so much fun with it :)

So how are you, Board? Don't worry... I'll be coming back to you alot more, now that I have time for it.

Yours sincerely,
Little Kitten
 
Dear X (no one here, I just need to get this off my chest),

Go away. Leave me alone. I do not want to see you, talk to you, hear from you, nothing. Do not send me emails about friends/sisters. Do not get me anything for Christmas. Do not get my kids anything.

You were a complete and utter bitch and you know it. You got mad at someone else for some wrong you perceived them to have done to you five fucking years ago and you couldn't shut up, could you? Did you really think everything you said wouldn't get back to me? And I do mean everything.

This is not going to magically go away. I am not going to feel better because several months have passed. I am not going to forget about it. This is not just some minor thing. What you did was malicious and purely out of line. Especially since, when you asked, I told you everything was fine and I knew what was going on. And yet, you took it upon yourself to do what you did.

On that note...please, just stay out of my life.

Your ex-friend
 
Bear hugs for you Sweets. You know where I am should you need to talk :kiss:


Millificent said:
Dear X (no one here, I just need to get this off my chest),

Go away. Leave me alone. I do not want to see you, talk to you, hear from you, nothing. Do not send me emails about friends/sisters. Do not get me anything for Christmas. Do not get my kids anything.

You were a complete and utter bitch and you know it. You got mad at someone else for some wrong you perceived them to have done to you five fucking years ago and you couldn't shut up, could you? Did you really think everything you said wouldn't get back to me? And I do mean everything.

This is not going to magically go away. I am not going to feel better because several months have passed. I am not going to forget about it. This is not just some minor thing. What you did was malicious and purely out of line. Especially since, when you asked, I told you everything was fine and I knew what was going on. And yet, you took it upon yourself to do what you did.

On that note...please, just stay out of my life.

Your ex-friend
 
Dear X,

what is up with you??? we were having a friendly discusiion over lunch, like we do every day, only this time things ended differntly. this time we had a third friend sit with us. and this time we started talking politics. your the only republican at the table, so of course you defend your view, but then your attacks got personal. as your attacks got more personal, the topic went from being more general to more specific. and now you have the nerve to be mad at me for "attacking you"?!?! you claim you were only ever speaking in general statements, never once being any less then professional in your debate. which, im sorry, is bullshit. how dare you be mad at me? i got up from the table and luaghed the whole conversation off. so did our other friend. things were back to normal, all politics forgotten. but you couldnt do that could you? now your holding a grudge for no reason. and your mad at me?!?!?! i could scream!

now i know why they say never talk religion or politics.

~m~
 
This is for a few people:

Dear A and S,

I can't thank you enough for taking me out last night and getting my mind off of him. Though my anger and hurt hasn't gone away completely, I feel so much better now that I know that I have two amazing friends around whenever I need them. And I'm confident that no matter what happens, we will always be the greatest of friends. We should definitely repeat this next Thursday.

Love you bitches! :heart:

~J~


Dear B,

Well, this is it. This is were I decide that I've had enough. This charade is only bringing me down. I will move on from here and look for other guys. Yet, as angry and upset as I am with you that you did this to me, I still love you, and a part of me always will. And no matter what happens, I promise to always be your friend. I promise I'll defend you whenever needed and will be there if you ever need someone around. And I swear to fucking God, if she hurts you, I will be on her ass so quickly, she won't know what hit her! I will return to you soon. Just give me a little while longer to collect myself amd get better.

Your dear friend, J

:heart:
 
Millificent said:
Dear X (no one here, I just need to get this off my chest),

Go away. Leave me alone. I do not want to see you, talk to you, hear from you, nothing. Do not send me emails about friends/sisters. Do not get me anything for Christmas. Do not get my kids anything.

You were a complete and utter bitch and you know it. You got mad at someone else for some wrong you perceived them to have done to you five fucking years ago and you couldn't shut up, could you? Did you really think everything you said wouldn't get back to me? And I do mean everything.

This is not going to magically go away. I am not going to feel better because several months have passed. I am not going to forget about it. This is not just some minor thing. What you did was malicious and purely out of line. Especially since, when you asked, I told you everything was fine and I knew what was going on. And yet, you took it upon yourself to do what you did.

On that note...please, just stay out of my life.

Your ex-friend


I'm so very sorry that you've been hurt. It's never easy asking someone to stay out of your life who you've cared about, even if it's the best thing for you. I'm trying to decide whether to do the same thing you just did with a person I've been friends with for the last nine years. It hurts, and I'm sending you lots of hugs that you feel better soon. :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose:
 
Little_Kitten said:
Dear x...... board...


I'm sorry I haven't been posting on you lately.... I'm sorry for not showing my face here since the summer.

But I'm back now, and I've been lurking around on you for a bit. I'm really sorry for the grief some of your submitters are going through, and happy for the joy some others are going through.

SO what have I been doing, you ask?
Well.. Mainly moving to a new city and starting a new education. Yup. Kitten is back on her feet, and ready to make something out of this messy situation :)
I've moved from my dad's house(which was SUCH a relief).... To A new city... it's bigger and tastier! Also, I've started studying as a Multimedia designer. I can't describe enough how happy this education makes me. It contains all the things I like. Also... I finally have my education plans figured out... Or at least a backup plan if my ideal situation wont come true. Which is just as nice IMO. This is one of the best things that's happened to me since I met my love of my life, whom I'm doing great with too.
Yup... I'm going to be visiting him again in the Christmas vacation.... And I've already bought a present for him.... A... lets say... fun and romantic one :p
We're gonna have so much fun with it :)

So how are you, Board? Don't worry... I'll be coming back to you alot more, now that I have time for it.

Yours sincerely,
Little Kitten

Welcome back Little Kitten!! :rose: Glad to hear that things are going so well for you! It's a wonderful feeling when things begin to fall into place and you're not having to work so hard to be happy. Your education plans sound exciting, and you're very smart to have a backup plan as you just never know what the future holds. Even more exciting are your plans for Christmas vacation!! :D I hope you have a "fun and romantic" time with the love of your life's gift!!!

Again, welcome back and congrats on getting back on your feet! I'll look forward to seeing posts from you in the future! :rose:
 
TheBlackDahlia said:
This is for a few people:

Dear A and S,

I can't thank you enough for taking me out last night and getting my mind off of him. Though my anger and hurt hasn't gone away completely, I feel so much better now that I know that I have two amazing friends around whenever I need them. And I'm confident that no matter what happens, we will always be the greatest of friends. We should definitely repeat this next Thursday.

Love you bitches! :heart:

~J~


Dear B,

Well, this is it. This is were I decide that I've had enough. This charade is only bringing me down. I will move on from here and look for other guys. Yet, as angry and upset as I am with you that you did this to me, I still love you, and a part of me always will. And no matter what happens, I promise to always be your friend. I promise I'll defend you whenever needed and will be there if you ever need someone around. And I swear to fucking God, if she hurts you, I will be on her ass so quickly, she won't know what hit her! I will return to you soon. Just give me a little while longer to collect myself amd get better.

Your dear friend, J

:heart:

Big hugs for you!!! Friends can make all the difference in the world when your heart is breaking. I'm glad that you have two that are there for you when you need them the most.

Also, it takes a lot of strength to do THIS:


"This is were I decide that I've had enough. This charade is only bringing me down. I will move on from here and look for other guys."

Good for you for taking back your life!!! I'm proud of you as I know it's not an easy thing when you realize that the person you love is not the right one for you and that they've been hurting you. I hope you find someone soon that is deserving of what you have to give. :rose:
 
HB, having just recently ventured over to the GB, I couldn't agree with your statement more (quoted below)!!


"Wanted for immediate posting opportunities on the GB: Individuals who can be rude, obnoxious, insulting, and sarcastic yet equally versatile in flirting. Thick skin required. Gender not important. Must be 18 years or older to apply"
 
myinnerslut said:
Dear X,

what is up with you??? we were having a friendly discusiion over lunch, like we do every day, only this time things ended differntly. this time we had a third friend sit with us. and this time we started talking politics. your the only republican at the table, so of course you defend your view, but then your attacks got personal. as your attacks got more personal, the topic went from being more general to more specific. and now you have the nerve to be mad at me for "attacking you"?!?! you claim you were only ever speaking in general statements, never once being any less then professional in your debate. which, im sorry, is bullshit. how dare you be mad at me? i got up from the table and luaghed the whole conversation off. so did our other friend. things were back to normal, all politics forgotten. but you couldnt do that could you? now your holding a grudge for no reason. and your mad at me?!?!?! i could scream!

now i know why they say never talk religion or politics.

~m~


((((((myinnerslut))))))
 
dear X:

I appreciate your honesty. I want your honesty- you're my friend- I EXPECT your honesty... but I also hope that you will be happy for me when I am joyous.

As to the other things... I worry about them.. but you won't let me ask... I wish I could help.
 
LittleJade said:
dear X:

I appreciate your honesty. I want your honesty- you're my friend- I EXPECT your honesty... but I also hope that you will be happy for me when I am joyous.

As to the other things... I worry about them.. but you won't let me ask... I wish I could help.

i could have written that word for word

{{hug}}
 
Dear Employer.

You did it again. You fucked with my life. You know, my life is my own and it doesn't revolve around work. Again you've altered my work schedule so I have different days off than I had. That's three fucking times you've messed with my life, in less than six months.

Don't you think I have a life away from work? Wait, don't answer that...I already know the answer. :rolleyes: I'm sorry I asked. I should have known better.

Before last night, I had Wednesdays and Thursdays off. You know, in this line of work, you don't get a holiday unless it happens to land on your day off. Well, I've only been able to get Thanksgiving off, in these last five years, because it happens to fall on my day off.

Now, you've changed my days off to Thursdays and Fridays. For the most part, I don't see a major problem with that, except you failed to ask me if doing this mattered to me. I don't see a problem with this in the future, other than I have to change the things I do on Wednesday nights to some other night...hopefully Thursdays or Fridays. Need I say my friends appreciate your continued alteration of my schedules, so they, in turn, have to continually alter theirs for me?

Other than pissing off my friends, I don't see a major problem with this change down the road. But, I do see a problem with it, in the near future...like in a few weeks. Thanksgiving is just a few weeks away. My plans for traveling to visit out of town relatives have already been made, and although it's only a couple hours drive, I see it as a problem that now, if I decide I can still make the trip, I must drive over 100 miles after working all night, and without any sleep.

If you've forgotten, I work nights, and get off at 7 AM in the morning. I had planned on leaving about 9 AM Thanksgiving morning. And, because I thought I'd have Wednesday night off, I could sleep then, and be ready for the drive that next morning.

Sure, I can still make the trip, and I probably will. Because it's the only holiday I get in a year, it's also the only time of the year I can see my family. I guess I'll just have to see how it goes, once I get on my way. I'm sure I'll probably make it up there OK. But, after a nice dinner, I know I'll be out like a light. I hope I don't become a problem for the family. I don't even know if I snore. :eek:

Then, there's the drive home, that night. Now that's going to be tricky. Driving after dark, alone, and with only the sleep I get in my aunt's easy chair? Thanks a lot. It's going to be a nice Thanksgiving. :rolleyes:
 
DVS said:
Dear Employer.

You did it again. You fucked with my life. You know, my life is my own and it doesn't revolve around work.

Every time I see these, I imagine the MCP that makes these decisions sitting back and replying:

Dear Drone,

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Sincerely,

-MCP



Makes me hate my employer that much more.
 
Homburg said:
Every time I see these, I imagine the MCP that makes these decisions sitting back and replying:

Dear Drone,

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Sincerely,

-MCP



Makes me hate my employer that much more.
Sorry, I'm at a loss...MCP? :confused:
 
Dear X,

For Christ's sake, give me some credit for knowing that you are a member of the self-appointed Literotica morality police using an alt. Fuck off!
 
Dear X,

Sleep well kitty. Dream of a nice bowl of milk and a warm spot in the sun. ;)

~Daddy
 
Dear Maid of Honour:

A few weeks ago, you stood me up for lunch, because you'd 'slept past your alarm', and woke up at 3 in the afternoon.


Today, we waited outside the dress shop for you for half an hour, before finally deciding to go inside and start shopping. I just KNEW you wouldn't flake out on wedding dress shopping with your best friend. I knew it. I knew something had to have happened, and hoped you were okay. Hoped your bf was okay, given his recent health issues.

I come home, having not heard a word, and find your email in my inbox:

"I'm soooooo sorry. I slept past my alarm.
I know this was an important day for you and I feel bad.
I don't feel very deserving of your friendship."

I had held off being upset with you or angry with you, in case something had happened.

Now I'm just pissed. Seriously pissed. News flash- when you've been best friends with someone for 22 years, you DO NOT SPACE ON THE TIME AND DATE OF SHOPPING FOR THEIR WEDDING DRESS.


Me.
 
LittleJade said:
Dear Maid of Honour:

A few weeks ago, you stood me up for lunch, because you'd 'slept past your alarm', and woke up at 3 in the afternoon.


Today, we waited outside the dress shop for you for half an hour, before finally deciding to go inside and start shopping. I just KNEW you wouldn't flake out on wedding dress shopping with your best friend. I knew it. I knew something had to have happened, and hoped you were okay. Hoped your bf was okay, given his recent health issues.

I come home, having not heard a word, and find your email in my inbox:

"I'm soooooo sorry. I slept past my alarm.
I know this was an important day for you and I feel bad.
I don't feel very deserving of your friendship."

I had held off being upset with you or angry with you, in case something had happened.

Now I'm just pissed. Seriously pissed. News flash- when you've been best friends with someone for 22 years, you DO NOT SPACE ON THE TIME AND DATE OF SHOPPING FOR THEIR WEDDING DRESS.


Me.

I'm sorry Jade! That really, really sucks!! What's with some people these days that they've forgotten HOW to be a friend and what TRUE friendship means? I hope that she didn't completely ruin the day for you.

How is your mom feeling?
 
DVS said:
Dear Employer.

You did it again. You fucked with my life. You know, my life is my own and it doesn't revolve around work. Again you've altered my work schedule so I have different days off than I had. That's three fucking times you've messed with my life, in less than six months.

Don't you think I have a life away from work? Wait, don't answer that...I already know the answer. :rolleyes: I'm sorry I asked. I should have known better.

Before last night, I had Wednesdays and Thursdays off. You know, in this line of work, you don't get a holiday unless it happens to land on your day off. Well, I've only been able to get Thanksgiving off, in these last five years, because it happens to fall on my day off.

Now, you've changed my days off to Thursdays and Fridays. For the most part, I don't see a major problem with that, except you failed to ask me if doing this mattered to me. I don't see a problem with this in the future, other than I have to change the things I do on Wednesday nights to some other night...hopefully Thursdays or Fridays. Need I say my friends appreciate your continued alteration of my schedules, so they, in turn, have to continually alter theirs for me?

Other than pissing off my friends, I don't see a major problem with this change down the road. But, I do see a problem with it, in the near future...like in a few weeks. Thanksgiving is just a few weeks away. My plans for traveling to visit out of town relatives have already been made, and although it's only a couple hours drive, I see it as a problem that now, if I decide I can still make the trip, I must drive over 100 miles after working all night, and without any sleep.

If you've forgotten, I work nights, and get off at 7 AM in the morning. I had planned on leaving about 9 AM Thanksgiving morning. And, because I thought I'd have Wednesday night off, I could sleep then, and be ready for the drive that next morning.

Sure, I can still make the trip, and I probably will. Because it's the only holiday I get in a year, it's also the only time of the year I can see my family. I guess I'll just have to see how it goes, once I get on my way. I'm sure I'll probably make it up there OK. But, after a nice dinner, I know I'll be out like a light. I hope I don't become a problem for the family. I don't even know if I snore. :eek:

Then, there's the drive home, that night. Now that's going to be tricky. Driving after dark, alone, and with only the sleep I get in my aunt's easy chair? Thanks a lot. It's going to be a nice Thanksgiving. :rolleyes:

I'm sorry! That really doesn't sound fair to me either. Is there anyway that you might be able to talk to your boss about your plans that were already made based on your previous schedule? Do you think he/she might be willing to work something out with you for the holiday, or is there anyone you can switch schedules with? I don't know what kind of work you do, but I do know that I'm very worried about you driving home alone after no sleep, a long night of work, a long drive to get to your family's house, and a huge meal. I'm sorry your boss is being so uncooperative and not having the decency to even discuss the schedule change with you! Hugs! :)
 
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