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SMNaughtywife said:
Dear Flirty,

Shall I cc or bcc you when I start some hot RP with your hubby? You know, it could turn into a three way hot and heavy romp. Oh and pics, you interested in seeing those too?

Signed.
Sharing is caring wife. 😈
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Dear "caring and sharing" Lister,

If you're doing it properly, I shall be able to tell by the, er, 'tenting'... :devil:

"Love a threeway" Litster :devil:
 
numeniusa said:
Dear smiley Litster,

If that means you're feeling better, then I'm delighted :kiss:

Now, get your knickers off... :devil:

"Brain not always required" Lister :)
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Dear Brain Not Required,

I'm feeling a lot better thank you. :rose:

I don't wear knickers - they do nothing for me except when on the female form. I will take my shorts off though.

Super kind Litster. ;)
 
tnman03 said:
Dear RF & GPL

Snooze you loose...she's a litapropriate filter personified. ;)
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AbsintheFather said:
Dear Self-Controlled Litster

Just your ears?

~ She Gets Me Tingling Too Litster
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iLackBrainCells said:
Dear Brain Not Required,

I'm feeling a lot better thank you. :rose:

I don't wear knickers - they do nothing for me except when on the female form. I will take my shorts off though.

Super kind Litster. ;)
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Dear "not snoozing", "tingling" and "shorts-less" Litsters,

Bring it on... :D

"Bracing myself" Litster

(I'd forgotten how much fun this thread could be! I'm going to stop monopolising it now :D)
 
AbsintheFather said:
Dear Possessive Litsters -

As another 'old timer' here. I identify more with these comments. Flirting and fluffing are part of the environment. Take that away and what's left? I enjoy watching my ladies flirt, it makes them even more desirable and if they're having fun, why would I want to put a crimp on that?

~ Fond of Fluffing Litster
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Litster,

“My ladies”...nice back-door brag.

Litster
 
Dear Litsters in discussion,

This is an interesting question.
I think I've been on all sides of this to be honest.

I've flirted with women who it turned out were taken (unbeknownst to me).
I've been flirted with at times when I was taken or otherwise not available.

I've been accused of "moving in on someone" when...I didn't think I was, but I see their perspective too. (and frankly, I'm deeply sorry for making a friend feel that way).

And a few other things that I won't go into.

Lit is an odd place. It mixes fantasy and reality in ways that can be really amazing. And really dangerous. It's a place that both humanizes and dehumanizes. All we really see is a computer screen. We miss out on subtle cues that maybe we would see in person. We do and "say" things that we would never dream of doing in person. (e.g. I can't imagine saying to a woman that I hardly know "nice tits" in a social situation, in front of everyone...but I've done it here).

I've noticed, this last six months or more, how important communication is in any relationship. At Lit it's all communication, but it's also easy to miscommunice. To think we are saying one thing, when the other person reads something completely different.

It's easy to miss something. A PM gets dropped by the system (I think we've all had that happen). A post gets left on a previous page and we blithely go on without ever seeing it.

I'm a flirt on the boards. It's fun. I flirt with people that are "taken" and ones that aren't. I always feel like my flirts are just..****....
Nothing more. In fact, the funny thing, when I'm "with someone" I don't really flirt with them on the boards (and...for the record...that's been a problem...).
I know too, that some people have taken my flirts more seriously. I know one person who got hurt by that. She told me it was like "kissing her full on the lips, and then running away." I've always felt bad about that....I never meant to hurt her, she's a wonderful person.

I will also point out that we don't always really know who the person behind the screen name is. Or more..how they feel about things. Sometimes we hide things from others here. Sometimes we are having really bad days (I've come here for the light banter on days that were so dark it still makes cry..Lit saved my ass). Some days we aren't.

I wish I had some great solution.

I would suggest that maybe you have this conversation with your Lit-SO. Even if you think you are both on the same page, I can tell you from both my experiences and what others have shared, you may not be. I'm not passing judgement, I know I've fucked that up myself. It might be a difficult conversation, but it might just help.

Signed,
"Push me into shallow water"
 
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Litster,

“In fact, the funny thing, when I'm "with someone" I don't really flirt with them on the boards (and...for the record...that's been a problem...).”

Preach it!

Litster
 
Dear Pineapple Upside-Down Cake Litster,

I'm still in my feelings.

Even though I love and hate you at the same time, I will always want the best for you.


Signed,

Your Eye Rolling Buddy Litster. ;):heart:
 
ydahecnot said:
Litster,

“My ladies”...nice back-door brag.

Litster
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Dear Mr. Sunshine -

Was Kat bragging too? No . . . it's just the openness and honesty that makes relationships healthy. When it's all on the table no one can feel that someone is doing them wrong.

Just like what Sailor's saying up there too. It may not be for everyone, but open communication and transparency prevents a lot of potential problems and future heartache.

~ Learned the hard way
 
lakesailer_mi said:
Dear Litsters in discussion,

This is an interesting question.
I think I've been on all sides of this to be honest.

I've flirted with women who it turned out were taken (unbeknownst to me).
I've been flirted with at times when I was taken or otherwise not available.

I've been accused of "moving in on someone" when...I didn't think I was, but I see their perspective too. (and frankly, I'm deeply sorry for making a friend feel that way).

And a few other things that I won't go into.

Lit is an odd place. It mixes fantasy and reality in ways that can be really amazing. And really dangerous. It's a place that both humanizes and dehumanizes. All we really see is a computer screen. We miss out on subtle cues that maybe we would see in person. We do and "say" things that we would never dream of doing in person. (e.g. I can't imagine saying to a woman that I hardly know "nice tits" in a social situation, in front of everyone...but I've done it here).

I've noticed, this last six months or more, how important communication is in any relationship. At Lit it's all communication, but it's also easy to miscommunice. To think we are saying one thing, when the other person reads something completely different.

It's easy to miss something. A PM gets dropped by the system (I think we've all had that happen). A post gets left on a previous page and we blithely go on without ever seeing it.

I'm a flirt on the boards. It's fun. I flirt with people that are "taken" and ones that aren't. I always feel like my flirts are just..****....
Nothing more. In fact, the funny thing, when I'm "with someone" I don't really flirt with them on the boards (and...for the record...that's been a problem...).
I know too, that some people have taken my flirts more seriously. I know one person who got hurt by that. She told me it was like "kissing her full on the lips, and then running away." I've always felt bad about that....I never meant to hurt her, she's a wonderful person.

I will also point out that we don't always really know who the person behind the screen name is. Or more..how they feel about things. Sometimes we hide things from others here. Sometimes we are having really bad days (I've come here for the light banter on days that were so dark it still makes cry..Lit saved my ass). Some days we aren't.

I wish I had some great solution.

I would suggest that maybe you have this conversation with your Lit-SO. Even if you think you are both on the same page, I can tell you from both my experiences and what others have shared, you may not be. I'm not passing judgement, I know I've fucked that up myself. It might be a difficult conversation, but it might just help.

Signed,
"Push me into shallow water"
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Dear Wading Litster,

This!!! So much this!!!

Thank you for being you (and apparently having the ability to put MY thoughts into words)

Signed,

Ditto Litster
 
lakesailer_mi said:
Dear Litsters in discussion,

This is an interesting question.
I think I've been on all sides of this to be honest.

I've flirted with women who it turned out were taken (unbeknownst to me).
I've been flirted with at times when I was taken or otherwise not available.

I've been accused of "moving in on someone" when...I didn't think I was, but I see their perspective too. (and frankly, I'm deeply sorry for making a friend feel that way).

And a few other things that I won't go into.

Lit is an odd place. It mixes fantasy and reality in ways that can be really amazing. And really dangerous. It's a place that both humanizes and dehumanizes. All we really see is a computer screen. We miss out on subtle cues that maybe we would see in person. We do and "say" things that we would never dream of doing in person. (e.g. I can't imagine saying to a woman that I hardly know "nice tits" in a social situation, in front of everyone...but I've done it here).

I've noticed, this last six months or more, how important communication is in any relationship. At Lit it's all communication, but it's also easy to miscommunice. To think we are saying one thing, when the other person reads something completely different.

It's easy to miss something. A PM gets dropped by the system (I think we've all had that happen). A post gets left on a previous page and we blithely go on without ever seeing it.

I'm a flirt on the boards. It's fun. I flirt with people that are "taken" and ones that aren't. I always feel like my flirts are just..****....
Nothing more. In fact, the funny thing, when I'm "with someone" I don't really flirt with them on the boards (and...for the record...that's been a problem...).
I know too, that some people have taken my flirts more seriously. I know one person who got hurt by that. She told me it was like "kissing her full on the lips, and then running away." I've always felt bad about that....I never meant to hurt her, she's a wonderful person.

I will also point out that we don't always really know who the person behind the screen name is. Or more..how they feel about things. Sometimes we hide things from others here. Sometimes we are having really bad days (I've come here for the light banter on days that were so dark it still makes cry..Lit saved my ass). Some days we aren't.

I wish I had some great solution.

I would suggest that maybe you have this conversation with your Lit-SO. Even if you think you are both on the same page, I can tell you from both my experiences and what others have shared, you may not be. I'm not passing judgement, I know I've fucked that up myself. It might be a difficult conversation, but it might just help.

Signed,
"Push me into shallow water"
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Dear ankle deep Lister

You always make my heart happy with your thoughtfulness and care for all around you. As my twin said, thanks for saying what I was thinking.

I otterly adore you Litster. :rose:
 
OldUncleJack said:
《 i guess some couples set different levels. 》
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Yes, this. ^

Everyone has a different comfort zone, different boundaries, and those can change over time or with each partner.

I negotiate terms with each close friend, until we find something that suits us both. If issues pop up, I talk to my PARTNER (hello) and we work it out.

I'm private, discreet, prefer quality over quantity, and I favor partners who feel likewise.

Suddenly I feel like I'm writing a personals ad! :eek::D
 
Well said Lakey.

I have never had a lit SO, so I have only ever been on the "back off my man side of the fence" :eek: and it has happened more than once. Sometimes it's a casual mention of a chat in PM but like the one mentioned above the woman (who I think is a sweetheart) PMed me and said they were an item but there had been some issues but they were trying to work on it... He was flirting with me (on the board only) so I had accidentally floated into the drama they had behind the scenes.

That said, as a female here, there always seems to be other opportunists with those less attached and I am all about what is easiest. :cool:


I will say the whole, "I don't talk with my lit-SO on the board" makes it hard to know who is "taken" and makes it easy to accidentally step on toes. I would prefer it if lit SOs were listed in signatures like Uncle. :D
 
indiesoul said:
Dear Super Easy,

You intimidate me a little.
But I still think you're fucking hot.

XoXo,
Indie has a Girl Crush
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Meh, I’m not intimidating, I’m just a cunt most days.

I’ve been nice before...

So, if I’m your crush, when can I expect nude breast photos in my inbox?

Patiently waiting Litster.
 
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