Dealing with LARGE girth...?

[Beth12345]

Help!

I need a bit of advice or a how-to or something. I'm starting up with this larger girthed than normal man. I love sucking a guy off and trying new things. I can get him to fit in my mouth with a bit of a stretched feeling but I find I can't comfortably take him near as deep as I'd like without some discomfort. I think I may need to open up and start new tricks to cope with this.

I guess I'm wondering how to please a larger girthed guy. I feel a bit odd not being able to orally please as I love to do and a bit out of my depth. I definately will be using my hands in the mix etc but still...

Any tips, tricks etc from anyone on things that may help....?


For the men that are a bit thicker:
Where do you find yourself to be more sensitive or what do you like having done to you when the lady has an issue like this...?

Any input is appreciated! Thanks!

 

[fire_breeze]

Help!

I need a bit of advice or a how-to or something. I'm starting up with this larger girthed than normal man. I love sucking a guy off and trying new things. I can get him to fit in my mouth with a bit of a stretched feeling but I find I can't comfortably take him near as deep as I'd like without some discomfort. I think I may need to open up and start new tricks to cope with this.

I guess I'm wondering how to please a larger girthed guy. I feel a bit odd not being able to orally please as I love to do and a bit out of my depth. I definately will be using my hands in the mix etc but still...

Any tips, tricks etc from anyone on things that may help....?


For the men that are a bit thicker:
Where do you find yourself to be more sensitive or what do you like having done to you when the lady has an issue like this...?

Any input is appreciated! Thanks!

Welcome to Lit

It's quite simple.

Talk with him. Ask him what he enjoys and what he does not. Tell him that you want to please him, but due to his girth, you are finding it a bit difficult to take him deep. Ask him if this is what he likes - and ask him what he wants to try. Play a bit and then see what his reactions are. Use your hands and fingers, if that's what he and you like.

Like everything else in life, communicate communicate communicate. You're not a mind-reader, and every single person is different, so what works for one may not work for the other at all.

Simple, eh?

And enjoy your stay

 

[Lord Pmann]

As a normal penised guy, I can't speak to massive girth. However, I can assure you, if you talk to your guy and say that he is massive and you need his help to know how to pleasure him, he won't be angry.

 

[Beth12345]

Thanks~!

I do plan on talking with him. He is very easy to talk to and is a bit of an Alpha type of personality (very confident, sure of himself yet not really too arrogant.. likes it a bit rough but backs off if I seem uncomfortable... a perfect combination of quite a few things I like).

I would love to prep a little beforehand though and love hearing how others deal with this issue, or from a guys perspective what they'd like when a gal has a hard time.

Any more tips, tricks or advice...?

 

[mickyp123]

Also... no man will ever grow tired of hearing how big his penis is or get sick of you practicing your technique.

It all falls into place now ....hubby riding along on his Ducati, sees sexy girl, gets a hard on becomes light headed and the large girth acts like a jack and he falls off

 

[mickyp123]

He told me it was a dodgy lane change!!! The penny drops!

Not to mention riding a vibrator lol

 

[mickyp123]

Pillion does have it's advantages.

Lol if you are in front its called pegged

 

[RuReal]

The head of the cock is the part that has the most nerve endings. The underside of the rim has always been the most sensitive spot for me and capable of driving me nuts is played with the right way.

The underside of the shaft also tends to do some interesting things for me.

Not a clue what large girth vs. normal girth is as I have never sat down and compared, but just some ideas.

 

[amofiga]

Help!

I need a bit of advice or a how-to or something. I'm starting up with this larger girthed than normal man. I love sucking a guy off and trying new things. I can get him to fit in my mouth with a bit of a stretched feeling but I find I can't comfortably take him near as deep as I'd like without some discomfort. I think I may need to open up and start new tricks to cope with this.

I guess I'm wondering how to please a larger girthed guy. I feel a bit odd not being able to orally please as I love to do and a bit out of my depth. I definately will be using my hands in the mix etc but still...

Any tips, tricks etc from anyone on things that may help....?


For the men that are a bit thicker:
Where do you find yourself to be more sensitive or what do you like having done to you when the lady has an issue like this...?

Any input is appreciated! Thanks!

For oral, lick him like a lollypop from his balls to the tip of his cock and tell him how much you love his "big tootsie pop and can't wait to taste the cream filled center." Lick the area where his ball sack meets his thigh. For me this is a sensitive area. Make sure you lick the underside of the head of his cock where most of the nerve endings are. Tease his hole with your tongue and tell him you can't wait for his juice to pump out of it.

Seriously, you don't have to take him deep. I'm not huge by any stretch of the imagination, but I've had women say that I have more girth than a lot of men and some women have said that they can't get more than the head and an inch or so in their mouth. Still, I know what turns me on anyway. Lick him, get him wet and slick and use your hands for "fucking action" while you lick the underside of the head where he is most sensitive. I LOVE this. When he cums, depending on your preferences as well as his, let him watch while you jerk it onto your face or into your mouth. It's hot as hell for me when I see my cum pumping into a woman's mouth or onto her face. Want to let him see you extra naughty? Let him cum in your hand and then lick it up like a kitty licking a bowl of cream. Some guys maybe wouldn't like to see you be this nasty, but maybe he would. While it's great for a guy to have his cock in his partner's mouth when he cums, it's not absolutely necessary if you can make it truly erotic. If it's too big for you to take completely in your mouth, use your tongue and hands more and let him watch the action. Mostly, let him know it pleases you to have a face full or mouth full of his cum. Most guys would kill for a woman like that.

 

[mike2010fc]

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[Beth12345]

Thanks all. Any other tips to drive him nuts....?

 

[Beth12345]

Well here's hoping I get a chance to really talk / play with him tomorrow...

 

[ThickNotShy]

As far as I know, every guy has a different spot (or spots) that do it for them, so what works on me wouldn't necessarily be "it" for someone else. I have a thick cock and oral actually hasn't been a big issue with those that I've been with. Communication is key (i.e. if you need to breathe, tap out!). I won't lie - deep throat is nice but I know it would be hard for some since I am thicker.

Just go with cues from his body and you'll be fine. I know I like a bit of everything (balls, taint, shaft, etc.) while it's going on.

Have fun!

 

[Beth12345]

Well I got to play with him a couple times now. He's big on giving verbal cues and does not want me touching his cock with my hands although I can touch his balls all I want. Before he cums, I always have to ask for it and make him believe I want it before he grabs my head and thrusts as far as he can without making me gag too bad. He'll then hold my head until finished cumming. I love it but still have trouble with the last couple inches... I'd love to take him all the way so hopefully with practice I'll be able to.

Any more tips out there?

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

This isn't a product plug, but, try comfortably numb throat spray or lollipops. They numb the mouth and the back of the throat a little. The back of the throat is the best bit IMO, because it helps stop the gag reflex (which is something I have always had a problem with).

 

[Beth12345]

This isn't a product plug, but, try comfortably numb throat spray or lollipops. They numb the mouth and the back of the throat a little. The back of the throat is the best bit IMO, because it helps stop the gag reflex (which is something I have always had a problem with).

Does that stuff ever make the guy feel numb when a girl uses it? Does it rub off on his skin etc...?

 

[sterculius]

This isn't a product plug, but, try comfortably numb throat spray or lollipops. They numb the mouth and the back of the throat a little. The back of the throat is the best bit IMO, because it helps stop the gag reflex (which is something I have always had a problem with).

If I understood Beth properly, I think she wants to be able to take his cock deeper not only for his enjoyment, but for her own as well and any substance that numbs her throat would be counterproductive. I too like the filled sensation of a thick cock deep in my throat so I can relate to her desire. Overcoming the gag reflex is the first consideration. This can vary from person to person. I taught myself to suppress mine. I'd suggest using some lube but I've heard that Alboline works well!! Good luck Beth! Keep trying!

 

[pplwatching]

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[lili_fromtx]

Here's what I do with my thick BF: whenever my jaw needs a break, i take it out, and suck & lick his balls while stroking his cock. He LOVES his balls sucks and tongued, so he never complains. And it gives my jaw a break.

Of course I always let him choose whether he wants to cum from the BJ or cum on my face while I suck his balls.