~Deacon's Fucked up Cancer Thread~

[Deacon_Voss]

So as many of you know, I went in for a colonoscopy due to some bleeding issues. They found four polyps, three were removed right then, but the fourth was a five centimeter mass that turned out to be cancer.

It's stage three, and before they will remove it, I'll be having radiation and chemo therapies at the same time, starting next week. It's five days a week for twenty-five visits, so five weeks. After that I get a recovery break, and then if things have gone well, what's left of it will be removed.

Most people don't go through this, but I always have to do it over the top, lol. This tumor is right where the rectum and the colon meet, so they need to save as much of the rectum as possible.

I'd guess this is an uncomfortable topic or subject for some, so I understand if you'd rather ignore me/it I will be sharing everything I deal with along the way, in the hopes that maybe just one of you that has put off a colonoscopy, goes and gets it done.

And just so everyone knows, this is not a pity party for me. I don't need any of that, because I'm not at risk of dying or anything like that, it will just be uncomfortable for a while. I do love and appreciate all the PMs with prayers and encouragement, and willingly accept more, because it's nice to know people care.

I will answer any and all questions about what I'm going through, and what I've learned, either here, or in a PM. I don't mind.

 

[Chillygirl]

Ginger suckers...they help with nausea. They make popsicles too.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Ginger suckers...they help with nausea. They make popsicles too.

I will write that in my tablet, thanks Sweetie

 

[Chillygirl]

And of course you’re in my thoughts

 

[Deacon_Voss]

And of course you’re in my thoughts

And it really does make me feel better, even if I don't always mention it.

 

[FranklyFrank]

So as many of you know, I went in for a colonoscopy due to some bleeding issues. They found four polyps, three were removed right then, but the fourth was a five centimeter mass that turned out to be cancer.

It's stage three, and before they will remove it, I'll be having radiation and chemo therapies at the same time, starting next week. It's five days a week for twenty-five visits, so five weeks. After that I get a recovery break, and then if things have gone well, what's left of it will be removed.

Most people don't go through this, but I always have to do it over the top, lol. This tumor is right where the rectum and the colon meet, so they need to save as much of the rectum as possible.

I'd guess this is an uncomfortable topic or subject for some, so I understand if you'd rather ignore me/it I will be sharing everything I deal with along the way, in the hopes that maybe just one of you that has put off a colonoscopy, goes and gets it done.

And just so everyone knows, this is not a pity party for me. I don't need any of that, because I'm not at risk of dying or anything like that, it will just be uncomfortable for a while. I do love and appreciate all the PMs with prayers and encouragement, and willingly accept more, because it's nice to know people care.

I will answer any and all questions about what I'm going through, and what I've learned, either here, or in a PM. I don't mind.

I take none of this to be uncomfortable and for those that do, they can just move along. I am a big advocate for colonoscopies. It's not painful...it was the best sleep I ever had and bonus you must fart before you can go home! The only bad part is drinking all the stuff you have to drink and making sure there is a clear path to the bathroom after each time you drink...but still....it was easy peasy and should never be put off!

Please continue to post Deacon and know we all wish you well and offer you as much support as we can. Lots of positive thoughts and many prayers sent your way.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

We haven't really interacted to much but as someone who sees you in some common threads I hope everything goes well for you!

I work in a pharmacy so I know how embarrassed some people are about coloniscopies but I hope your thread can inspire people to do the routine diagnostic testing.

I spent sooooo many years listening to people talk about how terrible it is, but I'm thinking they had no idea what they were talking about, lol. For me it was a few uncomfortable hours after the laxatives, and then it was a breeze after that. I've had self induced hang overs that were way worse

 

[Deacon_Voss]

and bonus you must fart before you can go home!

This part really made me laugh, because the tech was this smokin hot brunette that was really sweet. When I came out from the procedure, I was still rummy as hell. She tells me I need to move wind for her. I'm like, "Huh?" and she says, "Pass wind please" and I was still lost, and then it clicked. I said, "You want me to fart?" She says "Yep" and I laughed as I ripped the loudest, longest fart, and it didn't even smell. Duh, you're empty, it's just air they put in you, lol.

(See, told you I'm not holding back the details )

 

[Shenanigans90]

So as many of you know, I went in for a colonoscopy due to some bleeding issues. They found four polyps, three were removed right then, but the fourth was a five centimeter mass that turned out to be cancer.

It's stage three, and before they will remove it, I'll be having radiation and chemo therapies at the same time, starting next week. It's five days a week for twenty-five visits, so five weeks. After that I get a recovery break, and then if things have gone well, what's left of it will be removed.

Most people don't go through this, but I always have to do it over the top, lol. This tumor is right where the rectum and the colon meet, so they need to save as much of the rectum as possible.

I'd guess this is an uncomfortable topic or subject for some, so I understand if you'd rather ignore me/it I will be sharing everything I deal with along the way, in the hopes that maybe just one of you that has put off a colonoscopy, goes and gets it done.

And just so everyone knows, this is not a pity party for me. I don't need any of that, because I'm not at risk of dying or anything like that, it will just be uncomfortable for a while. I do love and appreciate all the PMs with prayers and encouragement, and willingly accept more, because it's nice to know people care.

I will answer any and all questions about what I'm going through, and what I've learned, either here, or in a PM. I don't mind.

Thoughts and prayers with you Deacon. Stay positive and know you are loved. You will beat this!

 

[Kat73]

Oh wow, my dear. This sucks. Let me know if there is anything I can do. I'm only a hop, skip and a mountain away.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Oh wow, my dear. This sucks. Let me know if there is anything I can do. I'm only a hop, skip and a mountain away.

Thank you Sweetie. You know I'll reach out if I need to.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Thoughts and prayers with you Deacon. Stay positive and know you are loved. You will beat this!

Thanks, I really appreciate it. I have a great family around me, both here, and at home.

 

[Anastasia1999]

We have not interacted on the boards but I’m sorry you are going through this and I hope you will be ok. Take care of yourself.

Ana.

 

[2021Noobie]

Wait! No one has said I have to fart afterwards! No fair

Thanks for the tough reminder that all that shit is really necessary

Hopefully next time no Covid test first

Stay positive!!!

 

[barefootgirl69]

So...what I hear you saying is don't be afraid of something going in your ass.

I've been saying this for years.

(You know how to find me if you need me.)

 

[Deacon_Voss]

So...what I hear you saying is don't be afraid of something going in your ass.

I've been saying this for years.

(You know how to find me if you need me.)

Yes, But me begging to put it in your ass, is completely different.

Hugs and kisses Sweetie

 

[Deacon_Voss]

We have not interacted on the boards but I’m sorry you are going through this and I hope you will be ok. Take care of yourself.

Ana.

Thank you

Wait! No one has said I have to fart afterwards! No fair

Thanks for the tough reminder that all that shit is really necessary

Hopefully next time no Covid test first

Stay positive!!!

Yep, chin up all the time

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Hiiii just wanted you to know I’m watching what goes on. Thank you for this. Please keep us updated on you. I could just ask you directly, but a question could be asked that could benefit someone else. Please know, we all here think you’re quite special

 

[n8Romantic]

Thanks for posting this.

I appreciate your courage in posting this most personal issue. As an older man, the specter of colon cancer looms heavy, at least every five years when I go in for my follow-up. I was once identified with Barrett's Esophagus but have effectively overcome that with GERDS medication, and I believe, retiring from a high stress career. Looking forward to your recovery, it will be a long hard road for you. There isn't much I, or anyone can really do to help you through this, but I hope you know that our concern is sincere.

 

[SugarSpiceAndLace]

Hey, I'm so glad they caught it but sorry you have to go through this. No pity part - especially since you don't seem like the type to need it - but you are in my thoughts. <3

 

[beachbaby179]

I'm not a nurse, but I can dress up like one if you want.

You know I love you and would do anything for you. But right now that means staying away from you, because...covid. you have my digits if you need to talk.

EtA...I've had two colonoscopies. Piece of cake.

 

[BlackCashmere]

I’m always here for you my sweet friend...glad you are sharing

 

[Deacon_Voss]

I appreciate every person in this thread. So many of you have sent me PMs and it truly does help.

As for being brave? Well I try to be, but I also just do what has to be done. I do have a lot of plans for the future, so not ready to write those off yet either

Now I know I might not be smiling three weeks from now, because I know what's coming, but I'll try my damnedest.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Oh wow! Just found this thread. I'm really sorry you are dealing with this. This sucks! But I hope treatment works, that there are no surprises, and may you get the least number of side effects. That seems to often be the best that can be hoped for when one is in this situation, I think.

Ginger suckers...they help with nausea. They make popsicles too.

If you are going to use popsicles for hydration and such, try sugar free. My sis always swore that she could only keep sugar free popsicles down. For some reason regular ones triggered the gagging and such.

 

[Leigh81]

I'm sending you positive vibes.
You'll get through this journey