Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[FrenchLopBunny]

That only works if Daddy isn’t also a Cookie Monster

Oh he’s not. He is the reason I’m not overweight. Healthy eating and gym workouts are mandatory for him and his Bunny.

 

[barefootgirl69]

That only works if Daddy isn’t also a Cookie Monster

You are definitely speaking for yourself! How many have you had already this evening?

 

[mentalmaven]

Too many…but that was after a good workout so it evens out…I hope.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Probably a good thing to carry in your luggage

 

[CuriousRick]

Fresh cookies for everyone! It’s Friday Eve

 

[mentalmaven]

Whew…that’s good cause I already had some for dinner.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I thought daddies were supposed to set good examples.....

 

[CuriousRick]

Good night everyone. Quick soak to relax then bed time.

https://ibb.co/JMHQf5P

 

[Strixaluco]

Morning

I'm trying to recover from yesterday before today, while al so trying to find at least *some* social side in me as my guest stays until around 6 pm...

 

[mentalmaven]

I thought daddies were supposed to set good examples.....

Very true. They set good examples and should be a source of contented happiness while exploring life’s joys…of which cookies can be an integral part.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Good morning friends

 

[dawn_of_night]

Way to early ....
Coffee now.... And some dunkins snacks

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Morning

I'm trying to recover from yesterday before today, while al so trying to find at least *some* social side in me as my guest stays until around 6 pm...

Perhaps a little blanket fort time after they leave is in order.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

A question for those whose submission extends outside the bedroom, though answers from all are welcome.

What are the things that take you out of your submission? Things that interrupt the flow and cause you to have to mentally reset?

Since I asked the question, I'll start with my answer. For me, the biggest disruptor is issues at work. Particularly when people bring their home problems into the workplace and try to force their co-workers to deal with them. Keeping people on task falls to me, as the Team Lead, so inevitably, I'm forced to deal with the situation. Compounding my frustration is that I'm not technically their supervisor. I can't discipline them. All I can do is report them if it gets disruptive enough. And there are never any consequences. I'm a tiny cog in a huge machine. When the stress builds, Wolfie might have to spend most of an evening guiding me back into submission. He's never angry, bless him, even if I take out my frustration on him, but it's not fair to either of us.
Wolfie and I have been kicking around an idea for a couple of years that would address my situation and also address some challenges he's having in his business. Over the next few weeks, we're going to get serious about making the idea become reality if at all possible. Unfortunately, making it a reality will involve hours with lawyers, financial planners, bankers, and those types. I'm sure I'll slip out of submission quite often, but in the end, it should be worth it.

How about you? What disrupts your submission?

 

[dawn_of_night]

I'd say similarly that having to be the role model for others takes me away from submissiveness....
It's also a tone or a vibe I get from said D....
Not that I have one currently or multiples even. But it's definitely easier for me to be submissive with certain persons... And it's definitely something I crave in the bedroom before I notice usually because I am more often than not the D role at home.

 

[Strixaluco]

My thought might evolve over time, this is What I can think of straight away.

I only submit when with him. Him being away means I need to take care of myself.

Feeling physically unwell can make me very self-centered - as in focusing what I need right then. It is difficult to concentrate on anything else in such situations. It takes more than a little ache or simply needing rescue inhaler for that to happen though.

Stress makes it difficult at times, too. I can very well understand you, @FrenchLopBunny ! Being all wired... Firm handling may help today reset.

And yes, being the adult to someone else. Or being the hostess for anybody else than D.

 

[Jw75766]

Hope everyone had a great Friday and is heading into a weekend full of relaxation!

 

[barefootgirl69]

A question for those whose submission extends outside the bedroom, though answers from all are welcome.

What are the things that take you out of your submission? Things that interrupt the flow and cause you to have to mentally reset?

How about you? What disrupts your submission?

When I have to take care of adult things and do adult business. (ie, Making appointments, taking care of others)

I said this a long time ago being the office admin was like putting on a personae. Getting things done, making things happen - when I'm seriously an introvert. How did it become easy to do each day? "Making my boss look good." - was important to me, and each one was thankful and praise me in front of others.

But, mentally preparing myself each morning was important. Actually, that's where I met my first Dom.

 

[Strixaluco]

When I have to take care of adult things and do adult business. (ie, Making appointments, taking care of others)

I said this a long time ago being the office admin was like putting on a personae. Getting things done, making things happen - when I'm seriously an introvert. How did it become easy to do each day? "Making my boss look good." - was important to me, and each one was thankful and praise me in front of others.

But, mentally preparing myself each morning was important. Actually, that's where I met my first Dom.

I can easily believe you were good in that - but how did you avoid burnout???

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm taking a little rest before making myself ready for mom's birthday. One more occasion to do adulting.... And then I have to reset quickly, as my D comes here with me for a private date in the evening. I'm afraid it might not be easy after all the adulting this week.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

But, mentally preparing myself each morning was important. Actually, that's where I met my first Dom.

Mental preparation is so important, especially when you know that the day is going to be a challenge. It’s the surprise gotcha days that really set me back on my heels.

I'm taking a little rest before making myself ready for mom's birthday. One more occasion to do adulting.... And then I have to reset quickly, as my D comes here with me for a private date in the evening. I'm afraid it might not be easy after all the adulting this week.

Sending bunny snuggles. Adulting is hard.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

When good bunnies go bad. Or maybe I have that backwards.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Evening friends.

 

[dawn_of_night]

@CuriousRick
Are you hiding or did you just get here ?

 

[CuriousRick]

@CuriousRick
Are you hiding or did you just get here ?

Just got here. And I guess hiding too.