Current Lit Crush

[Vincit]

There are many things I want to say. And many people I would like to say them to. But crush? No. Been around that circle a fair few times.

 

[LifeIsGood3976]

There are many things I want to say. And many people I would like to say them to. But crush? No. Been around that circle a fair few times.

"Been around that circle a fair few times?" It cant be a very big circle you've been around with 8 total posts.

You're hinting that you've been here before under another name. No one is interested in playing your guessing games.

 

[KimGordon67]

ShyNaughtyGirl is a recent crush- she's so sweet, sexy, understanding, and real.
Paul_Chance is a long running crush of mine.

Ha - snap to the second one.
And I also second Fara's nomination of Miles.
And Proximus. I think in those latter two cases I love the contradictions between the stuff they often post and how they're actually just lovely guys.

 

[Kat73]

I have had so many crushes here... Been crushed a few times too.

I have my lit- long crush in proracer94.

My DS is way more than a crush, although it started that way.

I msy be crushing a bit on someone new...

 

[islandjoe2]

Currently only crushing on PinkinPink here, which sounds silly given our status, but her online persona is like a little disjointed extension of her real self, with all the good parts and some additional seasoning thrown in.... can't help but crush on that version of her.

Aside from that, crushes here can be dangerous. Before PiP I was crushing on two amazing women here who have such a spark about them. They never knew, or at least I never told them, because the dynamics on Lit are such that sometimes, telling a crush you are crushing gets your dick slammed in the door. It's a strange thing.

Anyway...

 

[tolyk]

Currently only crushing on PinkinPink here, which sounds silly given our status, but her online persona is like a little disjointed extension of her real self, with all the good parts and some additional seasoning thrown in.... can't help but crush on that version of her.

Aside from that, crushes here can be dangerous. Before PiP I was crushing on two amazing women here who have such a spark about them. They never knew, or at least I never told them, because the dynamics on Lit are such that sometimes, telling a crush you are crushing gets your dick slammed in the door. It's a strange thing.

Anyway...

Is that dynamic really unique to Lit though?

I mean, isn't it always a risk to tell your crush you are crushing on them?

 

[islandjoe2]

Is that dynamic really unique to Lit though?

I mean, isn't it always a risk to tell your crush you are crushing on them?

In real life, you can interact with them on a face to face basis. There are visual keys and signals that let you know whether or not the feelings may be mutual, or if you are way off base. There is less risk in real life because you have a pretty good idea where you stand already.

 

[dashie33]

I don't wanna say. She's got enough to deal with without me.

 

[tolyk]

In real life, you can interact with them on a face to face basis. There are visual keys and signals that let you know whether or not the feelings may be mutual, or if you are way off base. There is less risk in real life because you have a pretty good idea where you stand already.

Not everyone. I have always been horrible at reading body language, or really knowing when someone is trying to flirt with me. I process text much better than body language/cues. And I know I'm not the only one.

I met Tink on here. I crushed. I told her. That was all in text. We hadn't gone to voice yet.

Telling a crush is always a risk, regardless of the format. Especially if that person is a close friend. I've seen friendships lost due to it, usually due to the guys that can't.handle the rejection, but still. I've seen it.

Physical, long distance, virtual... All this is real life. Some people pretend to be someone they aren't online, but some people do that in person. People who pick up strangers at bars don't even know them enough to know if they are pretending. (Off-topic rant here, just a viewpoint I hold.)

 

[PNWKitten]

Not everyone. I have always been horrible at reading body language, or really knowing when someone is trying to flirt with me. I process text much better than body language/cues. And I know I'm not the only one.

I met Tink on here. I crushed. I told her. That was all in text. We hadn't gone to voice yet.

Telling a crush is always a risk, regardless of the format. Especially if that person is a close friend. I've seen friendships lost due to it, usually due to the guys that can't.handle the rejection, but still. I've seen it.

Physical, long distance, virtual... All this is real life. Some people pretend to be someone they aren't online, but some people do that in person. People who pick up strangers at bars don't even know them enough to know if they are pretending. (Off-topic rant here, just a viewpoint I hold.)

I suck at cues too. Subtly is completely foreign to me. Definitely get that some people lie and arent who they pretend to be. Some should be actors...

 

[blulilacgrl]

Can I say the thing I hate about crushes? When you crush hard on someone you know isn't good for you. I hate that! I hate that when's he's not around I can remind myself what an ass he is and how he doesn't deserve a single moment of my time but then he swings back through and cracks that smile and gives those eyes.... I don't want to crush on him but damn it, there he is and I'm weak.

So is he a crush or just a bad habit?

 

[PinkInPink]

Not everyone. I have always been horrible at reading body language, or really knowing when someone is trying to flirt with me. I process text much better than body language/cues. And I know I'm not the only one.

I met Tink on here. I crushed. I told her. That was all in text. We hadn't gone to voice yet.

Telling a crush is always a risk, regardless of the format. Especially if that person is a close friend. I've seen friendships lost due to it, usually due to the guys that can't.handle the rejection, but still. I've seen it.

Physical, long distance, virtual... All this is real life. Some people pretend to be someone they aren't online, but some people do that in person. People who pick up strangers at bars don't even know them enough to know if they are pretending. (Off-topic rant here, just a viewpoint I hold.)

Joe is probably basing his answer on the massive bitch slap I gave him 15+ years ago the first time he told me he liked me. I shot him down hard but he was mature enough to accept that it was just not life's bidding that I reciprocate at that time. We stayed good friends though, and when he tried again the time was right.

I think crush can mean something different from person to person. Some people think it's just admiring from afar, some would say it's the cusp of true love. Either way, how you define it is for your heart only.

I crush on Joe here like he crushes on me and for many of the same reasons. Life can be serious and this can sometimes be a place where we show that side of ourselves we keep bottled up in public. It doesnt make us two-faced. For those who know us well, it completes the picture.

 

[DarkSimian]

I will say this; if I'm ever in Michigan, I'm definitely paying KimLeigh a visit

 

[JerseyJade]

I will say this; if I'm ever in Michigan, I'm definitely paying KimLeigh a visit

Cheating on me already, huh?

 

[DarkSimian]

Cheating on me already, huh?

*looks at your baby bump* That wasn't me....

 

[haha_on_me]

Threads like this need to live a little. Here are new crushes since this last hit the light of day.

Lonelywife1205 (instant connection )
Fermina_Daza (I enjoy talking to her. We live somewhat close but have not met)
Nowisthetime (My gosh she's smart and sexy)
Chillygirl (I find her so desirable)

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Threads like this need to live a little. Here are new crushes since this last hit the light of day.

Lonelywife1205 (instant connection )
Fermina_Daza (I enjoy talking to her. We live somewhat close but have not met)
Nowisthetime (My gosh she's smart and sexy)
Chillygirl (I find her so desirable)

If only I didn’t mind sharing.

 

[BadAmy]

ashesatwork is my current flirt target.

BadAmy for always, I suspect

Hey now.

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[ToPleaseHim]

I have had the same two Lit crushes for years...

 

[Wageslave]

Crushless at present

 

[BadAmy]

Hey, you brought this on yourself

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[GiggLeGasm]

Eh, this ain’t the days of 2010 on the ole Literotica Playground forum. Those were some harem forming days!!!!

lol.. *clinks glasses*

 

[Tallulah82]

I'm too much of a crush-slut to name one. Horses for courses, and I have a LOT of courses.

But, I guess, if I had to name one... nope, couldn't do it. There's at least five (that really means 10).

 

[RVB_1]

I'm too much of a crush-slut to name one. Horses for courses, and I have a LOT of courses.

But, I guess, if I had to name one... nope, couldn't do it. There's at least five (that really means 10).

Like where your head is

 

[Deacon_Voss]

There is one, but I'd never name her