Cunnilingus

[Hotred911]

My husband loves to go down on me, my only problem is that I don't enjoy it, (it's not that he isn't good at it.) I can only remember one time when I did (before we were married) and it was performed by another female. I'm not sure if that's what made it so erotic for me, or she just really knew what she was doing. So I guess my question(s) is/are: Do any other ladies have this problem or am I the only one? Any suggestions to make it more enjoyable for me?

 

[spankableBelle]

golly...

...it's been so damn long since i've felt a tongue, male or female, between my thighs that i don't know if i could get off on it anymore...

interesting question though...i hope someone can help you...~smile~

belle

 

[cindylouwho64]

Hmm - how about having him lick the alphabet or your names together on you? That's kind of sexy.

Do you communicate to him what sort of feels good? That's very important. Do you watch any porn together? Maybe ask him to do something a little different than usual - something you might have seen on one of the movies? Maybe that will help.

 

[Hotred911]

He's told me he'll do the alphabet thing sometimes, although I'm not sure when those times are...he doesn't say "okay, time for the alphabet"

We do watch porn together, actually we're looking for some good new ones, but those scenes don't seem to do much for me. Maybe I should just watch them looking for tips rather than pleasure.

 

[dlj403]

Re: golly...

...it's been so damn long since i've felt a tongue, male or female, between my thighs that i don't know if i could get off on it anymore...

You know, if you ever need help with that

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: golly...

You know, if you ever need help with that

dlj

Willing to reccommend someone?

 

[hogjack]

HR911

Communication is the key. You need to feel totally comfortable and that may (may!) be where the challenge lies.


I could do a demo.

 

[Hotred911]

Re: HR911

Communication is the key. You need to feel totally comfortable and that may (may!) be where the challenge lies.


I could do a demo.

I think that your point about being comfortable is probably true, I love the way that other women smell, I just don't like the way I smell, it's not bad or anything, I just don't like it. So in my mind I'm thinking "if I wouldn't go down there, why would he want to?" I've told him this, and he assures me that he loves it, but I still have a hard time getting past that.

About the demo....hmmm, would have to ask him first.

 

[hogjack]

Just keep working on it with patience

Your situation is shared by a lot of people. And when it does "get good" just let everyone know [that is once you recover from the pleasure].


I'm sure he won't mind the demo. I'm an innocuous sort.

 

[Hotred911]

Any women out there think having the tongue pierced makes a difference? We both had ours done at one time....unfortunately neither of us do now.

Hogjack....Illinois sure is far away

 

[dlj403]

Re: Re: Re: golly...

Willing to reccommend someone?

I can supply a list of references

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

I can supply a list of references

dlj

A whole list? And do You know from personal experience that those on the list are good?

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

I can supply a list of references

dlj

Or are these people ones that would give You a good reference?

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Poor Hot...I rarely orgasm from anything besides oral! (or masturbation). But if you're ever in ny...I can reccomend some people who could help you out

 

[dlj403]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

Or are these people ones that would give You a good reference?

The latter

What else am I good for, if not shameless self-promotion?

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

The latter

What else am I good for, if not shameless self-promotion?

dlj

i'm sure You're good for something more than that...

 

[Tallfella]

Re: Re: Re: golly...

Willing to reccommend someone?

I have a nine inch tongue and can breathe through my ears

 

[hogjack]

I don't have references

But I'm sure if prodded I could get a few select ladies to begrudginly admit my skills.


I have a buddy who is extremely skilled and motivated in this particular talent area. I've always considered pimping him around. Talk about a willing volunteer...

 

[dlj403]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

i'm sure You're good for something more than that...

You'll just have to catch me and find out

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

You'll just have to catch me and find out

dlj

Hmmm...to lay down a challenge like that must mean that You want to be caught...<grin>

 

[dlj403]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

Hmmm...to lay down a challenge like that must mean that You want to be caught...<grin>

Maybe

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: golly...

Maybe

dlj

Promising...<giggles>

 

[dlj403]

Re: Re: golly...

Promising...<giggles>

And I keep my promises

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: golly...

And I keep my promises

dlj

That in and of itself is promising...

 

[Guest]

I've never been able to cum from oral. I've told my boyfriend that, and it's one of his new goals in life. But it sucks ass. It's not that it doesn't feel good. I love how it feels, it just takes WAY too damn long. I get bored, and he gets frustrated, so we usually just stop.