Cumming

[DDPrincess219]

Learning to Cum

My fiance and I were talking the other day. He mentioned that it would be interesting if I learned how to squirt when I was cumming. I thought maybe I would surprise him by doing so. So I thought I would look into how the hell does one do that. I thought I would come here and see if anyone had any recommendations. Thanks for the help!!

 

[kiwichyck]

There is a whole bunch of threads on this floating around.

A very good place to start is Mr G(GG)'s thread 'Try this and report back'

Also spend some time trolling through the blank manual.

Good luck

 

[SweetErika]

Kiwichyk gave you good advice. Also be aware that not every woman can squirt, and putting pressure on yourself may dull or ruin your enjoyment. This is a really good, comprehensive article on female ejaculation.

 

[Eilan]

Also be aware that not every woman can squirt, and putting pressure on yourself may dull or ruin your enjoyment.

Just thought that was worth repeating.

Suggest to your BF that he learn to orgasm without ejaculating. That way you can both have a goal.

 

[vanelane]

Just thought that was worth repeating.

Suggest to your BF that he learn to orgasm without ejaculating. That way you can both have a goal.

Good one! Posts like this are why I like the How To forum so much!

 

[Eilan]

Good one! Posts like this are why I like the How To forum so much!

Hey, I'm all about equal opportunity.

 

[jethrobodeen]

My fiance and I were talking the other day. He mentioned that it would be interesting if I learned how to squirt when I was cumming. I thought maybe I would surprise him by doing so. So I thought I would look into how the hell does one do that. I thought I would come here and see if anyone had any recommendations. Thanks for the help!!

Welcome DDPrincess219, be sure to introduce yourself over in the New Member Intro thread. I just might kinda understand the replys so far from wise women of Lit (please be gentle if I need correction ). I had a giant awakening they've brought me through. That is getting obscessed over goals, where the destination is everything, often at the expense of the enjoyment of the journey. And there may be something about the way you bring it up, to think you may be feeling a bit unsure of this, like maybe it could be more about him than you. (Hey, I know I still have a long way to go, thank you ladies so far )

For my $0.00000002 (guy discount ) I think it's cool he knows it can happen, and brought the subject up with you. If you both talk about it, and it is something you want to see if your body can do, given the right circumstances, I can suggest that if you don't try to force it and easily accept if it doesn't happen....if he get's good at trying, I doubt you'll be disappointed. Just make sure he knows this.......

-JB