Cucking and Watching
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At first glance of the idea of cucking it seems like an amazing fantasy that I definitely want. I’m sure at the time of it actually going down many would have reservations. My wife is bisexual and I’ve been present when she’s had experiences with women. I suppose that’s still a cuck situation and I’ve been perfectly fine with it.
On the other hand having a man have sexwith her in front of me would probably change the dynamic but part of my fantasy also includes some humiliation involving him being way bigger than me and then teasing me. So I do think I could see it through. She’s very open sexually and that helps visualize it.
On the other hand having a man have sexwith her in front of me would probably change the dynamic but part of my fantasy also includes some humiliation involving him being way bigger than me and then teasing me. So I do think I could see it through. She’s very open sexually and that helps visualize it.
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It is something we have done several times and probably have tried all the kinds you mention. I enjoy the humiating and teasing kind the most.
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The show of dominance…..
This is a person who probably wouldn’t mind getting his knuckles bloody……it’s exhilarating!
This is a person who probably wouldn’t mind getting his knuckles bloody……it’s exhilarating!
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The way my wife describes it, a certain amount of humiliation is necessary to acceptance. For instance, I can't satisfy all of her sexual needs and she has an affinity for well hung studs (of which I am not one). These are facts which can be humiliating at times. But in order to embrace this lifestyle and give her the latitude she desires I need to accept these things as reality. Early on she made a deliberate point of making sure this was in my face so that my natural male inclination to deny it was overcome. That isn't necessary any more, but now I have learned to be very aroused by the masochistic aspect of this.
Maybe for some guys this wouldn't be humiliating, but I think that even most cuckolds have some of this tendency. Even if we have a good sex life (we do) and I have other appealing sexual talents (I do), the fact remains that sometimes she wants to be fucked roughly by a big cock stud and that is not something I can offer.
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I think that this sort of subtle humiliation is a useful and natural part of the cuckolding process. There may not be anything intentional or aggressive about it, but at some point most cuckolds are going to need to face something uncomfortable.
We often hear men say things like "I am ok with her having sex with other men as long as X". Well, eventually a circumstance will come to pass where X is true or something that she is willing to do. For her sake she needs to pursue the lifestyle as it suits her virtually without limitation and if her actions humiliate her cuckold it is up to him to embrace that and face the truth.
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Who is doing the cuckolding?
For me personally there is a key distinction between me cuckolding my husband and some other guy cuckolding him.
I see cuckolding as reflective of my sexual superiority to my husband and in many ways female sexual superiority to men. It isn't about finding a better man to which I may submit or play a secondary role. And it certainly isn't about allowing another man to dominate my husband sexually.
I do play games with my husband and other (trustworthy) men which include humiliating comparisons and various kinks that are mostly for his benefit. But underlying it all is female sexual liberation, not an exchange of masters. My husband knows that no one man is enough for me so I am looking to augment his attentions not trade them in.
For me personally there is a key distinction between me cuckolding my husband and some other guy cuckolding him.
I see cuckolding as reflective of my sexual superiority to my husband and in many ways female sexual superiority to men. It isn't about finding a better man to which I may submit or play a secondary role. And it certainly isn't about allowing another man to dominate my husband sexually.
I do play games with my husband and other (trustworthy) men which include humiliating comparisons and various kinks that are mostly for his benefit. But underlying it all is female sexual liberation, not an exchange of masters. My husband knows that no one man is enough for me so I am looking to augment his attentions not trade them in.
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for the longest time, i loved to fantasize about watching some other guy fuck my wife.....there is no telling how many times i have actually jacked off thinking of that.....
i have never really thought of being a "cuckold" though.....or any of that kind of degrading or humiliating stuff.....were it ever to happen itd be with everyone's consent and for her pleasure and for mine as well as far as watching it
as far as the normal cuckold type of process......totally not for me......
in fact, in the reverse....fucking another man's wife ....while he was acting as a cuckold, i wouldn't want to do that either.....
i guess i am just not about my own feelings getting crushed or someone elses......
as far as watching my wife ride another guy's cock though......that might be super hot
for the longest time, i loved to fantasize about watching some other guy fuck my wife.....there is no telling how many times i have actually jacked off thinking of that.....
i have never really thought of being a "cuckold" though.....or any of that kind of degrading or humiliating stuff.....were it ever to happen itd be with everyone's consent and for her pleasure and for mine as well as far as watching it
as far as the normal cuckold type of process......totally not for me......
in fact, in the reverse....fucking another man's wife ....while he was acting as a cuckold, i wouldn't want to do that either.....
i guess i am just not about my own feelings getting crushed or someone elses......
as far as watching my wife ride another guy's cock though......that might be super hot
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Fantasy vs reality
I understand and agree completely. We are more on the hot wife, vixen/Stag end of this game. Not judging the humiliation end of the spectrum, it’s just not for us.
I enjoy selecting her outfits, watching her flirt, and using the man to intensify OUR pleasure. And reclamation sex is best!
I understand and agree completely. We are more on the hot wife, vixen/Stag end of this game. Not judging the humiliation end of the spectrum, it’s just not for us.
I enjoy selecting her outfits, watching her flirt, and using the man to intensify OUR pleasure. And reclamation sex is best!
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And if you are both into it and are ok with it, more power to you!
That’s healthy!
Have you written about your adventures?
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I write fiction but it is extensively infused with my experiences.
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I am looking fed to reading it.
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I think you are right on the mark. Cuckolding is about the power exchange. It doesn't always need to have an element of humiliation. It can be very subtle such as my wife reminding me that someone else will get to enjoy her pussy before I can as she click the lock on my cage.
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Start slowly?
You can always begin by having your wife or girl dress very provocatively in public. You can be with her or watch from a distance. Watch her make small talk with strangers. Watch guys follow her around and eventually talk to her.
You can always begin by having your wife or girl dress very provocatively in public. You can be with her or watch from a distance. Watch her make small talk with strangers. Watch guys follow her around and eventually talk to her.
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Selina enjoys having me watch
We have known each other for 5 years but my plumbing doesn't work anymore and I always crossdress when we meet with other couples. Selina plays with both male and female but enjoys it most when she is playing with the female and her husband takes her from behind while I watch all the action.
We have known each other for 5 years but my plumbing doesn't work anymore and I always crossdress when we meet with other couples. Selina plays with both male and female but enjoys it most when she is playing with the female and her husband takes her from behind while I watch all the action.
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I was shocked when my husband suggested that I find a better equipped lover. (He is really tiny!) But having relented, I took to it like a duck to water. We now have a FLM, and I love the denial, teasing and enforced chastity that he introduced me to and persuaded me to inflict on him.
This isn’t like trying a new toy or position and deciding it isn’t for you. It can break up marriages snd relationships if they’re not ready for the jealousy and resentment that can come if both partners aren’t committed to it. If people aren’t absolutely sure they want this they should say so even if it’s late in the game. Consent is not chickening out.
I thought about a man doing my wife while I watched and it turned me on, but I didn’t know how to proceed, or if I could see it through,so I came up with a plan. I brought up a conversation about doing some exciting new things to spice things up,and we could take turns making the suggestions. My wife was pretty simple,she wanted to body paint each other, and mine were I wanted to watch her be massaged. She was happy with that,but had a few questions,man or woman,and what to wear. This is where I got to probe her and see how far she would go. She said she preferred a woman,didn’t matter if I was there or not,and was fine being in her underwear or naked. I told her since it was my suggestion,I would find it exciting to have a man do hers,while I watched,in underwear,or a bikini, and she was ok with that. My next move was to contact someone online that was into doing that and smart enough to pull it off. Thinking it through I wanted a younger,very excitable,and loved older married women. I did find someone,we set it up in a out of town resort,I had my wife primed with wine,and a few shots when he arrived. My wife totally surprised me after I introduced them and she said, what do you want me keep on making reference to her clothing as she started to undress. She got down to her panties and bra and I told her that was good. How do you want me and I looked at him,laying on youre stomach is fine. He had brought baby oil and asked if it was ok if he undressed to his boxers and she said sure. After a few mins he suggested removing her bra to keep from getting oily,and surprisingly after that her panties. My sweet little wife was now naked and being massaged by this young man and I loved it! He had her turn over,and she did without reservation, revealing her nice sized breasts,thick dark nipples and trimmed pussy. Now I was beginning to feel a little weird and expected her to be more reluctant. He had a large obvious bulge in his boxers and without asking this time just pulled them off revealing a huge dick over 8+,and very thick,my wife even looked at me and said that’s big,I replied,I know! I didn’t know what was going to happen next and suggested I rub her lower half and him her chest and shoulders. I only rubbed her legs a few mins and started fucking her in front of this guy,she didn’t resist and was very receptive. He was standing up reaching over playing with her large nipples while she was staring at his large hard dick inches from her face. Touch it baby I said,see how it feels,I’m sure he won’t mind,and at that time he moved closer to her face trying to coax her to take it in her mouth. She did touch it and stroked it as he moaned, I told her kiss it sweetie and she did! He moved it closer and closer to her mouth until he was touching her lips,he had it forced against her lips until she allowed it inside her mouth. Then he asked if he could kiss her and I said sure and she nodded yes and as he was kissing her I felt nervous and a bit jealous. I stopped fucking her and he traded positions. Once at her other end she started to close her legs when he pushed them back open,positioned himself closer and slapped her clit with his large cock,and my wife moaned. He rubbed his cock up and down her slit then entered her. I was really getting a nauseous feeling that this was happening. He fucked my wife harder, in several positions resulting in her cumming several times and him twice inside her. Afterwards he dressed and said goodbye, I felt terrible it happened and as I looked at her smiling at me I got turned on and fucked her till I came. I think of that time everyday.
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Good for the both of you! Do you think this will be an experience to repeat?
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But I already wears skirts, and bras, and stockings, and high heeled boots
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My wife was a virgin until I took it from her when she was 27. She had never seen, touched or tasted a cock, let alone let one inside of her. She was very religious and was planning to wait for her wedding night. She had barely even let boys makeout with her. Whenever we would have drinks, I would bring up the fact that I had slept with several dozen women, including her roommates that she heard moaning and cumming in the next room over and I didn't think it was fair she had never tried another cock. She would dismiss me and genuinely seemed like she had no interest. Yet, I kept bringing it up.
Then one day we go for a party weekend in Vegas and are drinking pretty hard in the late afternnon/early evening at the pool bar where we met some guy and started hanging out with him. We were the only three at the pool or near it without a swimsuit on. He was super cool and funny as hell but also taller with a more athletic build and much larger hands than me. The three of us hung out together for a couple of hours having a good time and we were getting pretty fucking drunk. When the pool and its bar closed, I told him to come to our suite to keep the party going since we had a fully stocked bar and hot tub that overlooked the Vegas Strip. It was purely innocent with no alternative plans or agenda.
We get to our room and I try to create a club atmosphere. I order us a bottle of champagne and appetizers to snack on. I turn the lights on low and blast the music. We are taking shots, pounding beers and having a good time. Wifey was dancing with me, with him, and all over the place. We are laughing and genuinely just having clean and innocent fun. Nothing else even dared enter my thoughts.
When the champagne and apps arrive, I tell everyone to get in the hot tub. He tells us he can't get in since he doesn't have anything to wear. I respond that it doesn't matter we will all just get in with our underwear on and it wasn't a big deal. We are just getting drunk and having fun.
I quickly strip down to my boxers. I look over and wifey is removing her clothes. Once done, she is standing there wearing only a bra and g string thong. She is looking fucking sexy. Her tits and nipples look amazing and are nearly popping out of her white see through mesh bra, and her ass always looks good in a thong. The fact she is wearing a totally seethrough bra and only a g string and has her bare ass hanging out in front of a stranger doesn't seem to register and I'm clearly not bothered by it. It doesn't even cross my mind this might be inappropriate that my wife is practically showing another man her body. I go over to her and start dancing together in our undies like little kids and it's totally lost on me that her titties bouncing all over the place.
I look over and our friend is still fully clothed. I ask if he's going to join us and he insists he doesn't want to get wet and should probably leave. I tell him that's nonsense and while pretending to corner him in, I tell wifey to remove his clothes and make him get in. He says he is shy and just shouldn't. While giggling my wife starts bouncing her titties and twirling giving him a good sight of her sexy ass while telling him there is nothing to be shy about. She continues over to him and starts unbuttoning and removing his shirt. She gets it off and while running her hands down his chest she tells him how hot and sexy his chest and 6 pack are and that he shouldn't be shy to show them. She nods at me and tells him to look at how I have no six pack and have no shame at all.
She laughs saying it's time to lose your pants and takes aim for his belt. Again, at this point there are no nefarious actions or plans by anyone. We are just having a good, innocent and clean time partying . We have been having a blast together and just wanted it to keep going. Wifey continues to bounce her tits as she dances on him with her hands on his belt she lowers herself and unfastens and removes it. She grabs the top of his jeans and opens the top button. This whole time we are just laughing like this is one big joke and not a big deal at all and everyone seems to be on the same page. At least that's what I thought.
As she starts pulling the zipper down, she feels his dick press her hand and blurts out loud "Oh my, that's big" in a pleasantly surprised voice. She continues removing his pants and can't believe his tip is nearly hanging out the bottom of his boxers while still being soft. She is pretty damn drunk and yells for me to come over to see how much bigger he is than me. I am laughing my ass off and say no way. "Come on let's compare. If you're bigger than me, I'll give you $500 and you don't owe me anything if I'm bigger." I pull my penis out and put my hands behind my head and wave it around proudly thinking I've got this. But then he reaches inside his boxers and momentarily pulls out some fucking real heavy lumber before tucking it back into his undies. He was massive, both thick and long. Without hesitation and under her breath, wifey says "oh my god, I want that."
At that moment, he looks down at her and she pulls him towards her and starts kissing him right in front of me without asking my permission or seeing if I cared. They start passionately making out she is letting her fingers lightly run up and down his boxers over his cock. This quickly turns to her rubbing it and then stroking his cock some with his undies still on. In one swift and smooth move, she drops to her knees and pulls him out of his boxers and wraps her hand around his shaft to guide his dick into her mouth. He looks at me shocked and can tell I have no clue what the fuck is going on, but I don't stop her. She looks up at me and says look at how much bigger his cock is than mine and how she is going to love sucking it more than she ever has sucking mine.
I then see my wife wrap her lips around a stranger's cock and start blowing him right in front of me. And I can tell she is loving it in her mouth from the look in her eyes. She is trying so hard to suck him off like a pro and is putting in so much effort in working her neck up and down and around. However, he is so big she is having trouble bobbing her head up and down. She can only get about 1/2 of it into her throat before choking and has her hand fully wrapped around his shaft, and there is still extra cock. He was easily ten to twelve inches.
I'm in utter shock at what I'm seeing and can't believe she thought it was ok for her to start sucking a cock and to do so without discussing it with me prior. Part of me wants to and thinks I should be mad or upset, but my dick is now becoming erect. Seeing her spontaneously do this is making me hard as a rock and I want to see more. "Well this evening took a wild and unexpected turn. But let's roll with this. Should we go to the bedroom or the hot tub still?" He picks my wife up, flips her upside down and rips her panties off using his teeth and starts devouring her freshly shaved and married cunt. She continues to blow him like this upside down. Without saying a word, he walks her to the bedroom as they continue to 69 on their way. Once they get there, she tells him to use and make her his fucktoy. He throws her onto the bed with her head hanging off the edge and continues to eat her pussy while thrusting to throat fuck her. This goes on for a bit until he gets up, turns her around so her pussy is facing him, pulls her to the edge of it, and then pushes her legs so they are beside her shoulders and spread wide. He starts rubbing and grinding his glorious manmeat against her.
He then looks at me and tells me to watch how much better he is about to fuck my wife than I ever could. And then he did just that. He starting point her pussy with no condom andade her cum really fast. He flipped her on all fours and started fucking her hard and deep while pulling on her hair and spanking her ass hard. He repeatedly asked her "Whose pussy is this? Who owns this pussy?" and she would reply "you do daddy" with me standing right there. I had never heard nor seen her cum so hard. He threw her around like a ragdoll and was able to make her cum multiple times. After fucking her for about thirty minutes, he crouched over face and ordered to open her mouth. When she did he shot massive ropes into her mouth and all over face and some on her titties. He covered her in cum.
Watching him fuck her made me more turned on than I've ever been. My undies became soaked from all the precum leaking. We've enjoyed the occasional cuckhold experience ever since. And I did fuck her afterwards
It’s a fantasy for me. I’ve wondered if I’d actually go through with it. In the proper setting I believe I would. It nearly happened a few years ago with an older lady I went for drinks with. We messaged often after but didn’t meet again. She did learn of fantasy and she was actively dating other men. One night she told the guy she occasionally hooked up with about me and he took her phone and proceeded to text me pictures all night of him putting his big cock to her. Another time she was going home with multiple loads from a successful date and later she told that she’d thought messaging me so I could lick her clean. I think she chickened out and don’t think I would have but guess I can’t say for sure.
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I have not had the pleasure to see my wife writhing in pleasure while being serviced by a well but not freakishly endowed younger bull.
I have experienced that with previous partners while swinging and I must say, I'd happily repeat it if it weren't something my wife isn't interested in. I don't care to be humiliated but I'll just say, I'd do ANYTHING my wife asked me to do where our sex life is concerned. Cucking, hot wife, dress for a girls night out with her, whatever she'd like.
