Couples sharing (myth or might work)

[KinkyGAGuy]

I think some women are nervous to tell their fantasy because they dont want to be judged on what makes them hot...your turn on is your turn on...you might never want to do in real life but it gets you going good deep in your mind.

Have to agree with this, they don't want to be thought of as a slut or a whore. Although I do a few women who are happy with that title.

 

[gk6h]

Have to agree with this, they don't want to be thought of as a slut or a whore. Although I do a few women who are happy with that title.

Their are a few and they are amazing. But like with most stuff it is us not them that makes bad.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I have to ask all you experienced swingers it there, who brought up the idea of swinging? And how did you/they do it?

I'm just curious, you know, for science

We kind of gradually eased into it. We started looking online for a single bi female for an MFF threesome. Two years and hundreds of hours of searching resulted in one successful play date. We decided the online resources weren't working very well, so we decided to try swing clubs. We found that the population of single bi fems at the swing clubs was also quite small, and the odds were very much against us. We discussed branching out and trying couples, but the wife was very much against it. So we continued pursuing single females.

And then one night--probably our 5th or 6th visit to a club--another couple came on to us very hard. They weren't the first couple to approach us, but this couple was determined. To my wife's surprise, she was very turned on by the husband and ended up fucking him in a room full of strangers watching. The other wife and I didn't connect as well, so the end result was kind of mixed. We talked about it afterward and realized the entire episode was very exciting, even though somewhat disappointing for me. The wife decided couples were OK, and since that day we have primarily played with couples that we meet online. (We stopped going to clubs about 5 or 6 years ago when we realized we were practically the oldest people there).

 

[Liz3223]

As some on who is often the 2nd F in a FFM situation the couples i spend time with sexually are very much in love with each other. They love having a 2nd women in bed, everyone is able to be engaged and experiment. There is never any jealousy because the women in the couples are almost always friends who i have been intimate with long before the husband or BF joins in. I have never met a guy who was anything other than thrilled when his GF or Wife suggested i join them sexually. While i am only with the men when their wives or GF are present the wifes or GFs and I will spend time alone when we want to and their guys know it. Most of the couples I spend time with know each other and know I a fun third wheel to be with.