Couples Flirting in Forums?

[Daizie]

Do you people not want to use the iggy feature?

KB wore his iggy button out.

 

[koalabear]

KB wore his iggy button out.

not yet......

 

[PervyRomantic]

Do you people not want to use the iggy feature?

"you people"?

 

[Daizie]

not yet......

lol....silly bear.

On the other hand I am a bit guilty of this flirting in threads myself. But in my defense, we keep it to mainly one or 2 threads.

 

[NattyBumppo]

However, at the same time the "constant shows" of lovely dovey affections and blathering on about how "Positively Wonderful" a persons significant other is....can be downright ANNOYING!!!

Want to know what's annoying? How about an over-inflated sense of self-importance? How about grammatical incompetence? How about mindless thread hijacking simply to show how quaintly odd someone can be? How about drunken rants? How about nonsensical threads? How about people crossing the line and meddling in other posters' personal lives? How about whiny adults? How about criminals masquerading as concerned men? How about people who will hit on other people no matter how many times they're told that there is no interest?

Online, you pay for what you get. As Kendra said, if you don't like it, move along. There is the ignore function here for a reason.

 

[kendra1980]

"you people"?

yes, those that complain of something, and have the ability to alter it, yet do not.

At least MrNo asks a legitimate question. I gave him the answer from my perspective. I thought that was what he was looking for, was it not?

I'm sorry you took offense to the term "you people"...insert "those" if it pleases your delicate sensibilities.

 

[kendra1980]

not yet......

KB...I'm still finding it odd there is no numbers limits on the iggy list for posters.

 

[BradBigBrain]

yes, those that complain of something, and have the ability to alter it, yet do not.

At least MrNo asks a legitimate question. I gave him the answer from my perspective. I thought that was what he was looking for, was it not?

I'm sorry you took offense to the term "you people"...insert "those" if it pleases your delicate sensibilities.

So, can I flirt with you or not?

 

[kendra1980]

So, can I flirt with you or not?

Flirt away, handsome...just not too many times back and forth.

 

[koalabear]

KB...I'm still finding it odd there is no numbers limits on the iggy list for posters.

No limit, or I have not found it yet. I add to it daily.

 

[kendra1980]

No limit, or I have not found it yet. I add to it daily.

KB...this isn't a flirt, so I guess it is ok for back and forthing...

but where is the iggy for a thread located at?

 

[Pinktacokitty]

So, can I flirt with you or not?

If you are flirtin with her I am flirtin with Netty,,,and I do not spit....lol

 

[koalabear]

KB...this isn't a flirt, so I guess it is ok for back and forthing...

but where is the iggy for a thread located at?

you have to iggy the thread starter, you can't just iggy threads.

 

[kendra1980]

you have to iggy the thread starter, you can't just iggy threads.

thank you...

and yes, Natty is very anti spit

 

[BradBigBrain]

Flirt away, handsome...just not too many times back and forth.

Ok, baby. Just once or twice or three times?

 

[mrno]

I had to log off for a few minutes, but here is a summary reply.

I don't iggy people because while I may not like everything they write, I still may enjoy much of what they write.

I don't complain in other threads because I feel they have as much right to be there as I do, even if I may not like everything there.

I didn't say no one should ever flirt in a thread. But as Vail rephrased my question, it was more about thread hijacking by committed couples when private pm's are available.

I didn't ask why other people hijack threads because I just assume they are impolite or don't know better. I don't think real couples intend to be impolite.

I do agree with Pervy, that it may simply be that I feel uncomfortable watching a real couple 'get it on' while I twiddle my thumbs.

I am only trying to have a discussion and not offend anyone.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Vail, I have seen your many of your posts, and do not consider them the same.

I suppose it is about thread hijacking by flirting, committed couples. Yes.
Why not just flirt (cyber) in private?

I guess I'm not seeing what you are seeing.
I do know what you mean, though (as has been noted) about couples who end up making any get-together awkward because they only seem interested in flirting with each other. It can be, at times, just rude.

That said, one of the nice things about the online world is that, if you find people being discourteous, or if you just find a conversation boring, you can flip to another thread. I don't mean that in a "if you don't like it, tough, go somewhere else" kind of way, but rather a "well, this isn't quite the real world and no one is bound by quite the same conventions because we all have more freedom" kind of way.

Note I haven't had a decent nights sleep in a week so maybe I'm not making any sense.

 

[kendra1980]

I guess I'm not seeing what you are seeing.
I do know what you mean, though (as has been noted) about couples who end up making any get-together awkward because they only seem interested in flirting with each other. It can be, at times, just rude.

That said, one of the nice things about the online world is that, if you find people being discourteous, or if you just find a conversation boring, you can flip to another thread. I don't mean that in a "if you don't like it, tough, go somewhere else" kind of way, but rather a "well, this isn't quite the real world and no one is bound by quite the same conventions because we all have more freedom" kind of way.

Note I haven't had a decent nights sleep in a week so maybe I'm not making any sense.

Good Morning Vail

it isn't hijacking he is complaining about, it is when banter takes over in a thread.

I have yet to find a 'couple' whether they be lovers flirting, friends bantering, or enemies tearing each other up, that have said to me when I came into their banter "go away K...can't you see we are busy?" I have never done that myself.

The assumption that people who banter in threads are rude, is also wrong. They are there with their friends, they are there to have fun. Sometimes no one else is in the thread and they go at it, having fun. Enjoying the company.

This is a damn porn board. You get everything from soup to nuts. Lovers playing, non incest devotees and incest lovers hacking away at each other, men advertising they are only interested in married women, and women advertising they want taken by a man with a 12 inch cock as big around as a coke can.

I choose not to look at, or complain about that which I don't take part in. Others, may, of course, do as they please.

You are right, beautiful Vail...skip, iggy, or merrily go find another thread where you can say...admit if you talked dirty to the person above you or not.

K

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Good Morning Vail

it isn't hijacking he is complaining about, it is when banter takes over in a thread.

I have yet to find a 'couple' whether they be lovers flirting, friends bantering, or enemies tearing each other up, that have said to me when I came into their banter "go away K...can't you see we are busy?" I have never done that myself.

The assumption that people who banter in threads are rude, is also wrong. They are there with their friends, they are there to have fun. Sometimes no one else is in the thread and they go at it, having fun. Enjoying the company.

This is a damn porn board. You get everything from soup to nuts. Lovers playing, non incest devotees and incest lovers hacking away at each other, men advertising they are only interested in married women, and women advertising they want taken by a man with a 12 inch cock as big around as a coke can.

I choose not to look at, or complain about that which I don't take part in. Others, may, of course, do as they please.

You are right, beautiful Vail...skip, iggy, or merrily go find another thread where you can say...admit if you talked dirty to the person above you or not.

K

Words right out of my mouth. and more clearly put too.
And the answer is 'no, but I've damn well tried'

 

[mrno]

I guess I'm not seeing what you are seeing.
I do know what you mean, though (as has been noted) about couples who end up making any get-together awkward because they only seem interested in flirting with each other. It can be, at times, just rude.

That was my point and the reason I asked 'why'.

That said, one of the nice things about the online world is that, if you find people being discourteous, or if you just find a conversation boring, you can flip to another thread. I don't mean that in a "if you don't like it, tough, go somewhere else" kind of way, but rather a "well, this isn't quite the real world and no one is bound by quite the same conventions because we all have more freedom" kind of way.

I do just that, Skip it and move on. Well, until I started this thread.

Note I haven't had a decent nights sleep in a week so maybe I'm not making any sense.

We say almost the same thing, so I think you are doing well. TY

 

[NattyBumppo]

Since when has personal responsibility been replaced by public kvetching? I have no interest in the incest thread -- the topic disgusts me, frankly -- but under the guise of this site, if people want to talk about that topic, that's their business. It doesn't mean I have to post a thread complaining about it or go into the thread and hijack it. If you don't like what's posted, ignore it.

There are countless examples of two people going back and forth teasing or flaming each other for pages on given threads. It's not always lovers who engage in this conduct; where is the thread complaining about them?

I'm sorry, I just don't understand the need to publicly whine a la Eeyore because couples engage in loving banter in threads. If I started threads about all the things that annoy me on this site I'd have a full page of threads. Couples have every right to post as they wish on this site, just as others have the right to criticize them. But why start a thread about it?

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Since when has personal responsibility been replaced by public kvetching? I have no interest in the incest thread -- the topic disgusts me, frankly -- but under the guise of this site, if people want to talk about that topic, that's their business. It doesn't mean I have to post a thread complaining about it or go into the thread and hijack it. If you don't like what's posted, ignore it.

There are countless examples of two people going back and forth teasing or flaming each other for pages on given threads. It's not always lovers who engage in this conduct; where is the thread complaining about them?

I'm sorry, I just don't understand the need to publicly whine a la Eeyore because couples engage in loving banter in threads. If I started threads about all the things that annoy me on this site I'd have a full page of threads. Couples have every right to post as they wish on this site, just as others have the right to criticize them. But why start a thread about it?

stop flirting with me!!!!

 

[kendra1980]

stop flirting with me!!!!

He's a menace, I tell ya, Ali!

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

He's a menace, I tell ya, Ali!

you too baby blue!!!

 

[kendra1980]

you too baby blue!!!

Come here, and I'll menace you