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[sweettalk4u]

Ever hope to just talk to someone? Just sit back, type some words, send the message and a little bit later a reply pops up on your screen? A basic conversation or erotic, didn't matter. Do you find yourself just tapping through the forums thinking, yeah, would be nice to share some thoughts with someone here?
Yup, me too. I am a MWM, who writes some and loves talking to people, so, if you are in the same boat as I am, lets talk.

Your thread isn’t a year old and at 37 pages. Yes most are lonesome, wanting to learn about their sexual body, looking for someone to fulfill a special need or all of the above! I learned a lot and had some good relationships on fetlife and this site has been good too thanks to people like you. Thanks for your thread.

 

[rlaflamme]

Your thread isn’t a year old and at 37 pages. Yes most are lonesome, wanting to learn about their sexual body, looking for someone to fulfill a special need or all of the above! I learned a lot and had some good relationships on fetlife and this site has been good too thanks to people like you. Thanks for your thread.

Thank you, I am glad that this thread helps people and makes sense to have. Life is a journey, we just have to find the right roads to take

 

[Bjerget]

*Crawls out of months-long darkness, looking haggard and pale*

Wh... what is that huge, glowing ball in the sky? It burns my skin!

*Trying in vain to shield herself as the warmth begins to bake her alive*


Aaaaah! No!! Not my precious paleness!! Aaaaah stopppp!! Someone help meeee!!

*The girl begins to morph into a tanned, frizzled flop and slowly wobbles back off to her hobble to sooth her burned body, never to return again until the rains come*

 

[rlaflamme]

*Crawls out of months-long darkness, looking haggard and pale*

Wh... what is that huge, glowing ball in the sky? It burns my skin!

*Trying in vain to shield herself as the warmth begins to bake her alive*


Aaaaah! No!! Not my precious paleness!! Aaaaah stopppp!! Someone help meeee!!

*The girl begins to morph into a tanned, frizzled flop and slowly wobbles back off to her hobble to sooth her burned body, never to return again until the rains come*

*Runs to her with an umbrella and pulls her back into the light*

Yes come visit the land when it is not raining and enjoy the rays of life

I take it the rain has finally stopped for you, that is good, now you can move without being soggy.

 

[Bjerget]

*Runs to her with an umbrella and pulls her back into the light*

Yes come visit the land when it is not raining and enjoy the rays of life

I take it the rain has finally stopped for you, that is good, now you can move without being soggy.

Ahhh nooo!! Not the sun!! *melts into a burned up pile of black t-shirts and candy wrappers*

Hah yeah it's summer here... finally :O but man, is it hot. I think the problem with summer here is that there isn't really a middle ground. It's either rain and cold or dry and hot. Meh I say, meh!! lol

Oh and yeah, about that moving without being soggy? It's never not soggy between these thunder thighs!!

 

[rlaflamme]

Ahhh nooo!! Not the sun!! *melts into a burned up pile of black t-shirts and candy wrappers*

Hah yeah it's summer here... finally :O but man, is it hot. I think the problem with summer here is that there isn't really a middle ground. It's either rain and cold or dry and hot. Meh I say, meh!! lol

Oh and yeah, about that moving without being soggy? It's never not soggy between these thunder thighs!!

*Works her back together like a clay doll* There you go

I seem to be waiting for summer to hit and stay. We had a couple really nice days, but have fallen back to the chilly, this weekend is suppose to be nice though. I really want to get the kayak out and do a lazy stroll around the lake. Of course on the best days to do that I will be busy with other things lol.

Soggy, wet, damp, dewy, slushy, muggy, moist, soppy, misty, saturated, sodden..... I don't know, but that was fun

 

[Bjerget]

*Works her back together like a clay doll* There you go

I seem to be waiting for summer to hit and stay. We had a couple really nice days, but have fallen back to the chilly, this weekend is suppose to be nice though. I really want to get the kayak out and do a lazy stroll around the lake. Of course on the best days to do that I will be busy with other things lol.

Soggy, wet, damp, dewy, slushy, muggy, moist, soppy, misty, saturated, sodden..... I don't know, but that was fun

Eww why did you made one tit SO MUCH bigger than the other? Ugh how am I gonna find a bra to fit this?! And exactly how many openings do you think I have down there!?! What is this, mad science?!

Yanno what? Summer pisses me off. It's finally warm, but we had about two weeks of pre-summer in February that was the absolute best. Then it fled like a Bee Gee's song for the hills. *smh* can't get good help these days, can you? Your idea of summer activities do sound lovely. I will gladly join you as long as I can bring my phone for capturing pokemon on the go. A girl has needs you know!

Of all those descriptors, sodden is the absolute worst. I will accept wet, damp, dewy or moist. Slushy makes my skin crawl.

 

[rlaflamme]

Eww why did you made one tit SO MUCH bigger than the other? Ugh how am I gonna find a bra to fit this?! And exactly how many openings do you think I have down there!?! What is this, mad science?!

Yanno what? Summer pisses me off. It's finally warm, but we had about two weeks of pre-summer in February that was the absolute best. Then it fled like a Bee Gee's song for the hills. *smh* can't get good help these days, can you? Your idea of summer activities do sound lovely. I will gladly join you as long as I can bring my phone for capturing pokemon on the go. A girl has needs you know!

Of all those descriptors, sodden is the absolute worst. I will accept wet, damp, dewy or moist. Slushy makes my skin crawl.

Sorry, not a sculptor nor artist and sometimes my mind races a bit and things just sort of happened, but if you step into my lab I will see what we can do

Weather seems to not cooperate more often than cooperate lol. We had a decent spring, although my yard was a mud pit much longer than it should have been, but we got a few days where I could light the fire pit and enjoy if for a while. I guess you can bring you phone, who am I to argue with the company of a wonderful lady? Although I am not so sure there will be any Pokémon out on the lake, though there is a little island some may be hiding on...

Hehe, so no sodden or slushy, got it

 

[rlaflamme]

I wonder how many people get "scared" off from a conversation because they feel they are giving or receiving to much information and things are getting to real....

 

[Reed8]

I wonder how many people get "scared" off from a conversation because they feel they are giving or receiving to much information and things are getting to real....

Popping in to say hello. Hope all is well with everyone.
Fantasy stops being a fantasy when it becomes real. I assume some come for the entertainment while some come for the thirst.

 

[destined]

I wonder how many people get "scared" off from a conversation because they feel they are giving or receiving to much information and things are getting to real....

Could be or that there is not enough information; not sometimes but not always looking for deep and meaningful conversations but some context is always welcomed.

 

[rlaflamme]

Could be or that there is not enough information; not sometimes but not always looking for deep and meaningful conversations but some context is always welcomed.

There is no question that a lack of context can easily end a conversation before it starts.

 

[Reed8]

Isn't context on some level being aware of information to make the listener/reader better apt to understand the meaning behind their words or phrases?

Being scared off by too much information is interesting to me. I suppose it can propel people to shy away, especially if it turns into leading someone down a specific conversational path. Keeping the conversation within the frame too stoically causes lack of novelty in my opinion. On the other side, "too much information" about one aspect can drown the whole conversation. Say, you asked me how the party was last night. Then, all I talked about was the fly buzzing around the room all night. Does that fit the context of the question? It fit the frame but just too narrow an expectation. It's possible that it was too much information about a singular item.

Lack of context, in comparison, could be construed as a challenge, a mystery or an intrigue depending on how one looks at the situation. So I guess it would be contextual to the conversion depending what the frame was. Are we talking about sports, sex, or politics as an example? Some contexts are implied in the general conversation, such as a thread title. So if there was no context and I started talking vaguely about my balls, would you think I was taking baseball, or sex? Where the conversation is deposited informs context to a certain extent. It is not always necessary to provide all contextual clues to a conversation. Situational awareness plays a role. Some, I will admit, have the ability to side track very skillfully keeping the context in flux yet subject still in the ballpark.

Defining the context of another person's words with out further questioning or examination of environment can end a conversation. Context is never lacking, there just may never be enough for full understanding. For the person expecting everything to be clearly defined forms boundaries between people. Lawyers hang with lawyers and doctors hang with doctors etc. They know each other's lingo. That doesn't mean a doctor can't have a wonderful conversation with a carpenter. The success hinges on multiple contexts. Certain bits of knowledge are needed before settling on a subject. This is is why small talk exists. Doctor can't talk specialized terms unless he knows the other is a doctor. (He can. I am just being simplistic here.) Simple fact of the matter is some people don't want anyone to know they are a doctor. It limits the conversation that way. Sometimes it is not easy to contextualize (or frame the rules) depending on the subject and the people involved. For example, an unsolicited pm that is received or sent. More than likely it starts with a subject not the context. The responsibility of the conversing parties is to define the context together thus the conversation can grow.

 

[destined]

Isn't context on some level being aware of information to make the listener/reader better apt to understand the meaning behind their words or phrases?

Being scared off by too much information is interesting to me. I suppose it can propel people to shy away, especially if it turns into leading someone down a specific conversational path. Keeping the conversation within the frame too stoically causes lack of novelty in my opinion. On the other side, "too much information" about one aspect can drown the whole conversation. Say, you asked me how the party was last night. Then, all I talked about was the fly buzzing around the room all night. Does that fit the context of the question? It fit the frame but just too narrow an expectation. It's possible that it was too much information about a singular item.

Lack of context, in comparison, could be construed as a challenge, a mystery or an intrigue depending on how one looks at the situation. So I guess it would be contextual to the conversion depending what the frame was. Are we talking about sports, sex, or politics as an example? Some contexts are implied in the general conversation, such as a thread title. So if there was no context and I started talking vaguely about my balls, would you think I was taking baseball, or sex? Where the conversation is deposited informs context to a certain extent. It is not always necessary to provide all contextual clues to a conversation. Situational awareness plays a role. Some, I will admit, have the ability to side track very skillfully keeping the context in flux yet subject still in the ballpark.

Defining the context of another person's words with out further questioning or examination of environment can end a conversation. Context is never lacking, there just may never be enough for full understanding. For the person expecting everything to be clearly defined forms boundaries between people. Lawyers hang with lawyers and doctors hang with doctors etc. They know each other's lingo. That doesn't mean a doctor can't have a wonderful conversation with a carpenter. The success hinges on multiple contexts. Certain bits of knowledge are needed before settling on a subject. This is is why small talk exists. Doctor can't talk specialized terms unless he knows the other is a doctor. (He can. I am just being simplistic here.) Simple fact of the matter is some people don't want anyone to know they are a doctor. It limits the conversation that way. Sometimes it is not easy to contextualize (or frame the rules) depending on the subject and the people involved. For example, an unsolicited pm that is received or sent. More than likely it starts with a subject not the context. The responsibility of the conversing parties is to define the context together thus the conversation can grow.

Appreciate the comments but then again, there can be too much context provided!!!

 

[rlaflamme]

Isn't context on some level being aware of information to make the listener/reader better apt to understand the meaning behind their words or phrases?

Being scared off by too much information is interesting to me. I suppose it can propel people to shy away, especially if it turns into leading someone down a specific conversational path. Keeping the conversation within the frame too stoically causes lack of novelty in my opinion. On the other side, "too much information" about one aspect can drown the whole conversation. Say, you asked me how the party was last night. Then, all I talked about was the fly buzzing around the room all night. Does that fit the context of the question? It fit the frame but just too narrow an expectation. It's possible that it was too much information about a singular item.

Lack of context, in comparison, could be construed as a challenge, a mystery or an intrigue depending on how one looks at the situation. So I guess it would be contextual to the conversion depending what the frame was. Are we talking about sports, sex, or politics as an example? Some contexts are implied in the general conversation, such as a thread title. So if there was no context and I started talking vaguely about my balls, would you think I was taking baseball, or sex? Where the conversation is deposited informs context to a certain extent. It is not always necessary to provide all contextual clues to a conversation. Situational awareness plays a role. Some, I will admit, have the ability to side track very skillfully keeping the context in flux yet subject still in the ballpark.

Defining the context of another person's words with out further questioning or examination of environment can end a conversation. Context is never lacking, there just may never be enough for full understanding. For the person expecting everything to be clearly defined forms boundaries between people. Lawyers hang with lawyers and doctors hang with doctors etc. They know each other's lingo. That doesn't mean a doctor can't have a wonderful conversation with a carpenter. The success hinges on multiple contexts. Certain bits of knowledge are needed before settling on a subject. This is is why small talk exists. Doctor can't talk specialized terms unless he knows the other is a doctor. (He can. I am just being simplistic here.) Simple fact of the matter is some people don't want anyone to know they are a doctor. It limits the conversation that way. Sometimes it is not easy to contextualize (or frame the rules) depending on the subject and the people involved. For example, an unsolicited pm that is received or sent. More than likely it starts with a subject not the context. The responsibility of the conversing parties is to define the context together thus the conversation can grow.

Appreciate the comments but then again, there can be too much context provided!!!

There are so many variations to conversation that people are looking for and that keep their attention. It is one of the things that pop in my head a lot, "Is that to much, not enough, to direct, not direct enough?" It is amazing what we can learn and what we want to learn and they are quite often different.

It is fun seeing peoples opinions and thoughts though

 

[Reed8]

Appreciate the comments but then again, there can be too much context provided!!!

I love this comment! I do apologize for my winded diatribe. I can make an assumption that my post was too long for you and I can make attempts to be more concise. Taking into consideration the listener, next post will be significantly shorter. Or, I can ask if you thought it was to long winded? Then again sarcasm could be at play from you. So should I roll with one of my two assumptions or ask you point blank if I'm a windbag (insert sarcasm here)?

 

[Reed8]

There are so many variations to conversation that people are looking for and that keep their attention. It is one of the things that pop in my head a lot, "Is that to much, not enough, to direct, not direct enough?" It is amazing what we can learn and what we want to learn and they are quite often different.

It is fun seeing peoples opinions and thoughts though

I fancy it no different than gambling with dice.. Hopefully when it is my turn to roll, I don't cause a bunch of people to leave the table. Sometimes I feel good about what I have said and sometime I don't. It is fun seeing reactions. It can also be nerve racking. My intention is to never offend and to offer something to the experience.

 

[Bjerget]

*Peeks in*

I started back at work this week and it's been a bit exhausting! I hope everyone is enjoying the start of nicer weather this week.

 

[Reed8]

*Peeks in*

I started back at work this week and it's been a bit exhausting! I hope everyone is enjoying the start of nicer weather this week.

Hello..Sending good JuJu your way to make the work week go by quicker.

Went to the pool yesterday, forgot my sunscreen. Now I'm as red as that fox in the corner.

 

[rlaflamme]

*Peeks in*

I started back at work this week and it's been a bit exhausting! I hope everyone is enjoying the start of nicer weather this week.

Make sure not to let any of the bad weather in here! You can't peek and leave the door open, come on in ands stay for a bit

Welcome back to work

Hello..Sending good JuJu your way to make the work week go by quicker.

Went to the pool yesterday, forgot my sunscreen. Now I'm as red as that fox in the corner.

I hate sunburns, they seem to stay on me forever. Good luck in your healing.

 

[Reed8]

I hate sunburns, they seem to stay on me forever. Good luck in your healing.[/QUOTE]

Thank you. I lathered up in that sticky green aloe gunk. It helped but I ended up sleeping like crap. Tossed and turned all night. Now I'm in a mood today. Hopefully I can convert this "mood" it into something productive.

Knowing me, I'll probably just end up taking a nap...so much for productivity.

 

[Bjerget]

Thanks guys! My weekend is officially on now woo woo! It went by pretty quickly, after all.

Reed, how is that sunburn? Hope it isn't infected or swelling up. Did you try aloe vera lotion to help soothe it? I burn easily too, so I always have some on hand.

rlaflamme, I'll try to stop by more this weekend. We're having periodic rain spells, so I'll be inside a lot.

 

[Reed8]

Sunburn is doing better. Showers are still too hot or too cold on the skin. Tough to find the right temperature with out squeaking like a little piggy. I am sure that will pass. The best part is trying to make my sunglasses induced raccoon face look chic when I go to the grocery store.

Thanks for asking. I hope you enjoy your weekend. Got anything planned?

 

[Scareltt]

In the store..

Sunburn is doing better. Showers are still too hot or too cold on the skin. Tough to find the right temperature with out squeaking like a little piggy. I am sure that will pass. The best part is trying to make my sunglasses induced raccoon face look chic when I go to the grocery store.

Thanks for asking. I hope you enjoy your weekend. Got anything planned?

Wear your sunglasses into the store, people will wonder who you are..

 

[Reed8]

Wear your sunglasses into the store, people will wonder who you are..

That's a good idea. Step two...put together an entourage.

Having a couple of menacing looking goons in suits with those fancy curly cue earpieces by my side will no doubt make people wonder.