CONTROL IS A REWARD

[artslut86]

A wise woman once said:
"Like I said before its not about getting to a specific spot but the journey and the growth you get from our time together. your reward is not your body feeling pleasure anymore instead its you giving up control to me. The mental reward has to come first and the physical reward will come later. Through pain I want you to learn patience.

That something you need to work on to really be present. I used pain to keep you in the moment and although you werent satisfied you did keep yourself where I wanted you, you stopped anticipating and eventually the pain will ground you. "

 

[SirSparky]

Yess. This is exactly how I see my role as a Dom to a sub. The journey and growth and eventually giving up control to me.

 

[artslut86]

Yess. This is exactly how I see my role as a Dom to a sub. The journey and growth and eventually giving up control to me.

It's taken a while. Kicking and screaming or resisting. But over time I've stopped playing game and just embraced journey. Like with caging. I was adamant at first that nope that won't happen. Then I was curious.
Now I crave her control by its presence as a constant reminder that im her toy nothing more.