Confessions: What Are Yours?
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Cheated again, I've been so bad ...
And why does #3 feel about right?
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LMAO
Ok on behalf of daughters everywhere...cheap shot!! But...funny cheap shot
ICT I spent yesterday imagining kissing a woman. Yet today I have been all about the men and how big, strong and safe they feelEspecially when they do this http://www.vvmac.com/emoticons/images/emoticon-0134-bear.gif
Axually, she's getting better now. But she was like that. My fault, too. It's hard not to spoil your only child, especially if it's a girl.
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No kidding. We have 2 unis here. I ride and drive out of my way sometimes, just to brighten my day.
Mind you, just to show I'm not a total perv I also like to go to the park to look at the flowers or to watch the children playing.
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(actually, lots and lots and lots of women feel the same way as you...and also feel like they are bad women for feeling that way...you'd be surprised, though, how many will agree with you if you are the first to say something)
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^ I think you're right. I guess it's more the mom's that I am surrounded by that make me feel most terrible about it. Their reasoning for having them just isn't enough.
Funny think is, if you would have asked me four years ago if I wanted any..I would have said "yes, I'd like 3" The older I got, the more selfish I got. I'm ok with that though.
Funny think is, if you would have asked me four years ago if I wanted any..I would have said "yes, I'd like 3" The older I got, the more selfish I got. I'm ok with that though.
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^ I think you're right. I guess it's more the mom's that I am surrounded by that make me feel most terrible about it. Their reasoning for having them just isn't enough.
Funny think is, if you would have asked me four years ago if I wanted any..I would have said "yes, I'd like 3" The older I got, the more selfish I got. I'm ok with that though.
1. I agree that too many people become parents because they just think they should.
2. I think that, with mothers especially, their lives become so wrapped up in having and raising kids that, to say you don't care for kids, is to say you don't think they (the mothers) are worthwhile.
3. See, you actually AREN'T selfish. It would be selfish to have a kid that you don't really want. We have this image that there are kids floating around in the aether just waiting to be born, like puppies in a shelter. In which case, we WOULD be selfish to not help them. But you can't be selfish in denying someone your attention when that someone doesn't exist. I don't care for Mickey Mouse, but I don't feel like that makes me selfish
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I confess that if you've fucked two members of a band, and keep getting raunchy texts from one of the other 3, it's probably best if you don't go and see them live.
Especially if you then get so fucking mullered you end up sending a drunken facebook message to one of them (thank fuck I wasn't so drunk it ended up on his wall)
It really didn't help he then quoted the message, and now he has mysteriously vanished off my friends list! That told me
Especially if you then get so fucking mullered you end up sending a drunken facebook message to one of them (thank fuck I wasn't so drunk it ended up on his wall)
It really didn't help he then quoted the message, and now he has mysteriously vanished off my friends list! That told me
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I confess that if you've fucked two members of a band, and keep getting raunchy texts from one of the other 3, it's probably best if you don't go and see them live.
Especially if you then get so fucking mullered you end up sending a drunken facebook message to one of them (thank fuck I wasn't so drunk it ended up on his wall)
It really didn't help he then quoted the message back via pm, and now he has mysteriously vanished off my friends list! That told me
Especially if you then get so fucking mullered you end up sending a drunken facebook message to one of them (thank fuck I wasn't so drunk it ended up on his wall)
It really didn't help he then quoted the message back via pm, and now he has mysteriously vanished off my friends list! That told me
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Better the truth, than to have children that you are not invested in.
You are not a terrible female.
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ICT I feel really helpless right now. Two people I really care about were fucked over this weekend and there isn't a goddamn thing I can really do to help either of them.
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ICT I never had the needing-kids-to-be-fulfilled gene, and I don't feel one bit guilty, terrible or unfeminine because of it. There is no shortage of children being born because of me sitting on the reproduction sidelines.
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ICT nobody has ever said, "I want you, now!" or "I need you."
Despite having two women try to convince me to leave my wife for them, I have never had a woman vigorously initiate a sexual encounter.
Ladies, if you have a man, even if he isn't Brad Pitt. Tell him. Beg for him. Make him feel necessary.
Despite having two women try to convince me to leave my wife for them, I have never had a woman vigorously initiate a sexual encounter.
Ladies, if you have a man, even if he isn't Brad Pitt. Tell him. Beg for him. Make him feel necessary.
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1. I agree that too many people become parents because they just think they should.
2. I think that, with mothers especially, their lives become so wrapped up in having and raising kids that, to say you don't care for kids, is to say you don't think they (the mothers) are worthwhile.
3. See, you actually AREN'T selfish. It would be selfish to have a kid that you don't really want. We have this image that there are kids floating around in the aether just waiting to be born, like puppies in a shelter. In which case, we WOULD be selfish to not help them. But you can't be selfish in denying someone your attention when that someone doesn't exist. I don't care for Mickey Mouse, but I don't feel like that makes me selfish
ICT I often feel the flip-side of #2 with some of my siblings. Hearing that I can't know something or do something because I don't have children is just as hurtful and marginalizing... and just as much BS.
One would think they would be "scarred for life" from all the times I babysat them.
I still struggle sometimes with not having kids, but for the most part I realize that it's something I can neither change nor rectify given my current physical condition... the lack of sexual partners helps, too.
ICT makes me so sad.
While I haven't had as many chances as some... sharing these sentiments with a lover has really added to the experience IMHO.
Hey, Poly ~ I need you... to come for a visit!
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Ditto! Squared!
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