Collaring

[Sweetdaisymae]

I am going to be collared in a couple of weeks time and have been busy making preparations for the big day yes I am very excited, and nervous... just like getting married, it is not something I am undertaking lightly, my vows will be binding and life long.
I was interested in hearing about anyone else's collaring ceremonies and experiences of them.
I have never attended one before and have just gathered information from fetlife and other sites, it would be lovely to hear about your special day xxx

 

[ecstaticsub]

My collaring was very simple and was just the two of us. We exchanged vows, he gave me a ring (instead of a collar, the ring I can wear every day, a collar in my situation would have been impractical)

Afterwards we celebrated with a caning and group sex with friends.

For me it was perfect.

 

[Emergingwoman]

I am going to be collared in a couple of weeks time and have been busy making preparations for the big day yes I am very excited, and nervous... just like getting married, it is not something I am undertaking lightly, my vows will be binding and life long.
I was interested in hearing about anyone else's collaring ceremonies and experiences of them.
I have never attended one before and have just gathered information from fetlife and other sites, it would be lovely to hear about your special day xxx

How was the ceremony?

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

How was the ceremony?

Fantastic!
My best friend and her sub, and my mentor Malich were there.
It was held in a private dungeon that is owned by a fetish photographer, who took some amazing pics.

I kissed Master's feet, and gave myself to him and he placed the collar around my neck and cut off my dress.

Then we had a little reception with drinks and nibbles, the guests left and Master and I played in the dungeon.
Lots of fun!

 

[Emergingwoman]

Fantastic!
My best friend and her sub, and my mentor Malich were there.
It was held in a private dungeon that is owned by a fetish photographer, who took some amazing pics.

I kissed Master's feet, and gave myself to him and he placed the collar around my neck and cut off my dress.

Then we had a little reception with drinks and nibbles, the guests left and Master and I played in the dungeon.
Lots of fun!

Sounds just right good style!

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Sounds just right good style!

It was lovely, everything I had hoped for

 

[Emergingwoman]

It was lovely, everything I had hoped for

Someday I will experience that....

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Someday I will experience that....

Don't rush into it, it has taken me a very long time to find my one.
Be sure! You are giving yourself in entirety.

 

[owenshadbolt]

Hi Sweetdaisymae,

That is an exquisite piece of jewellery, I'd love to see my wife wear something like that. Where did you get it? and whats it called?

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Thanks
It is called a nipple shield. I got this one at the London Erotica show a few years ago.
Tbh I don't wear them often, because the do not stay on very well and get a bit annoying when they keep falling off lol.

 

[Malich]

I was very glad to be there!

 

[owenshadbolt]

Hi Sweetdaisymae,

Thanks for answering my question, definitely going to find a pair of those for my darling wife.

By the way congratulations on you're collar and you're story... Great read!

 

[nedthebundler]

I do love nipple jewellery on women ~sigh~ Since my Wife doesn't want to experience having hers pierced, I've had to make do with non-piercing styles.

The first type we ever bought consisted of a set of tied nooses with a chain between them, and it didn't take long for one of them to unravel. I learned to duplicate them, but then realized there was a far better way.

I use rubber o-rings with a sliding attachment to make them fit as tight or loose on the nipples as you prefer.

Her favourite ones are made with three hematite beads that dangle from the o-ring, and caress her breasts as she moves. Feels good, looks fantastic!

I also make ones that drape chains between the breasts ( nipple to nipple attachment ) that look wonderful if you're wearing an open front blouse ( no bra ), and a hybrid style that mates the two for looks and feelings.

They're very lightweight ( don't even think of suspension with them... ), and wearable all day.

Made a dangle for a woman that had a vertical hood piercing ( Christina, she said it was called ) using smaller hematite beads. She liked to wear that under her skirt at work, and people wondered why she was so happy... LOL!

 

[nedthebundler]

Thanks
It is called a nipple shield. I got this one at the London Erotica show a few years ago.
Tbh I don't wear them often, because the do not stay on very well and get a bit annoying when they keep falling off lol.

Sorry Sweetdaisymae, should have referenced this in my post.

I'm happy that you're happy.

 

[nicole001]

I am jealous of you all!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

thank you for sharing, Daisy! I know how special the day was to you and your All..
*squeezes*

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

I was very glad to be there!

It was an honour and a privilege to have you there

thank you for sharing, Daisy! I know how special the day was to you and your All..
*squeezes*

Thank you RA

I will have to get my butt into gear and post some pics here. Anyone who knows me on fetlife can have a peep

 

[Kim_Burly]

Sweetdaisymae, congratulations! The ceremony sounds beautifully erotic. I'm guessing that you don't wear the collar 24/7, do you wear another symbol on a daily basis?

Fantastic!
My best friend and her sub, and my mentor Malich were there.
It was held in a private dungeon that is owned by a fetish photographer, who took some amazing pics.

I kissed Master's feet, and gave myself to him and he placed the collar around my neck and cut off my dress.

Then we had a little reception with drinks and nibbles, the guests left and Master and I played in the dungeon.
Lots of fun!

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Sweetdaisymae, congratulations! The ceremony sounds beautifully erotic. I'm guessing that you don't wear the collar 24/7, do you wear another symbol on a daily basis?

Thank you it was an amazing day, erotic, but very tender in many ways (especially my bum )
I have a silver necklace with a decorative heart shaped padlock for every day. It is vanilla enough to be worn in all circumstances, but when hanging out with BDSMers, it is pretty obvious as to what it represents.

 

[Emergingwoman]

Don't rush into it, it has taken me a very long time to find my one.
Be sure! You are giving yourself in entirety.

Yes! Entirety !!

 

[thekeenreader]

This thread is so beautiful

Thanks for sharing guys xxxx

 

[dazed_11]

How wonderful to hear about the loving, devoted side of this lifestyle. Yes, thanks for sharing!