Clit / G-Spot

Different Guy

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What's the difference?

Where is each situated?

I'm sure I know where the clit is from talks on here before, and when going down on my partner I play with a certain spot just above her vagina and it makes her crazy, that's the clit right?

So this G-spot.... grr! Help me out please
 
g-spot seems to be inside around the same area the clit would be on the outside if you can visualize that. maybe women are each different though, i'm not sure.
 
Oh Gowd, don't start crap like that "Naughty n Nice" I'm 18, a virgin, sexually active all but intercourse and no, my school seemed to be very thin on the teachings of anything else but sexual reproduction
 
Naughty n Nice: Perhaps it's more appropriate for the "Nice" side when dealing with "How To" questions? After all, if some one comes here with a legitmate question, it does no good to tear them apart. Oh, and I had "health education" in school. (am currently 42) I ended up still as confused as when I went to class - some of us need to be shown and learn through experience and communication with partners than through a book. Or an extremely embarassed PE coach - which is what I got stuck with.



Different Guy: You are on track with the clitoris. It is a small nub of flesh, at the tip of the what is known as the inner labia. (Sometimes called the minor labia - or for the erotica minded, inner pussy lips :)) It normally has a little "hood" that protects it from being constantly stimulated, as this magnificent little piece of the female anatomy is just filled with nerve endings! Normally, when a female becomes aroused, this nub will swell with blood (very much like a man's penis) and become slightly engorge. How much is dependent on each woman - some more so than others. This engorgement usually causes the clitoris to come out from under its "hood". This is not always the case, however. If you are orally or manually stimulating your girlfriend, try to pull the hood back (GENTLY! The hood is very small and very tender!) and stimulate actual clitoris underneath. Bear in mind that this might be too much stimulation for her, and you might want to place the hood back down, or only stimulate that area occasionally. Hey, experiementation is where the fun comes in, ya know?

As for the g-spot, well there is some controversy regarding this. Some swear it exists, others state it is just a rumor, still others say some women have it, others don't. I've never located mine, and every partner of mine that has tried has been unsucessful. I'm not stating it doesn't exist, just don't be surprised if you can't locate it with your g/f or it doesn't do much for her.

The g-spot is supposedly located on the front wall (that is towards her belly) of the vagina, roughly 2/3 the way up. It varies by woman, however. The walls of the vagina are, for the most part, pretty smooth - except for where the g-spot is. It normally feels a little rougher "patch", about the size of the pad of your finger. Again, size may vary per woman.

Hope this helps you out. I do believe there are anatomy charts and stuff online that might also prove productive for you and give better insight of the entire female genital area.

Most of all - just have fun!
 
Different Guy said:
Oh Gowd, don't start crap like that "Naughty n Nice" I'm 18, a virgin, sexually active all but intercourse and no, my school seemed to be very thin on the teachings of anything else but sexual reproduction

My apologies, that's why I asked your age. At your age, it's no big surprise, nor is it a big deal that you're confused. You're supposed to be. I think that's the punishment we go thru for acting like we know everything. ;) This is a good place to ask these typed of questions cuz you're anonomous. Sorry I jumped at you. Hope you can find the info you're looking for in here, and best of luck to you. :)
 
Not that I'm adverse to a bit of biting sarcasm but answers to questions such as "how to" "wherezdat" should be somewhat mollified due to the possibility the person really is clued out. Also most schools these days can barely teach kids how to read and write. Do we really want such inept ignoramusses teaching SEX ED too???

Take a look at TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK. There's a few ref to the dif between how you treat clits and GSpots and in particular where to find the GSpot and what to do with it. Unless your're going out with some chik from Somali or Afghanistan and she's had her clit sawed off with a rusty butter knife (a nifty little RELIGOUS practice the Muslims like to do) her clit is top center just above where the inner lips meet.

READ:

http://www.pleasure.co.nz/sex/positions.html - One of the best. Topics are meued on the left of the POSITIONS writeup. Glossy 8X10s included.

http://www.myvag.net/newstuff/

http://www.umkc.edu/sites/hsw/femejac/
 
Emerald_eyed said:
The The G spot is inside...

I havent found it yet, so I cant give you exact directions

Emerald_eyed... the best orgasms come from the G spot. Try this..

Lay down and insert a finger in your vagina. Close your eyes so that nothing else takes your attention.

Now very slowly move the finger around the walls of the vagina.. as well as up and down.

The G spot is raised a little, and approx round. The surface is slightly bumpy... not smooth like the wall of the vagina.

You'll know when you've found it, just from the great sensations you'll feel.

But it's most important to be fully relaxed and concentrating while you do this... I'm sure you'll find it.. we all have one.
 
Geez, Em. BIRD BEAK???

I've heard a lot of euphemisms for that particular anatomical part ... but ...
BIRD BEAK?

EEeeeuuuuwww! It doesn't look like a BIRD BEAK. Not from any angle I've seen one from at least. An it don't even taste like chicken.

Have you tried the GSpot thingie yet? It really is worth the search even if you're alone right now. If you find it yourself it is a LOT easier showing a b/f where it is and what to do with it.

Just a thought...
 
AHHH !!

The infamous G-SPOT

The first time I managed to fing it was quite by accident on my partner at the time giving her some oral sex ( LB you know how I do like it :D )
And then I placed a finger inside of her, curling it just slighty and felt some little bumps would be the best way to describe it, started rubbing my finger across the bumps and she orgasmed rather intensely from me just doing that.

And the Clit

No sex eduacation in my school either :(
Luckily for me one of my first sexual experiences was with a older lady and she taught me some things I will forever greatful to her, and dare i say it my partners are too !!

Richo:D
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Emerald_eyed said:

Traveling anatomy?? um cool.

Sure, why not? When I awoke this morning my bird beak was where my nose should be and my nose was taking in the fragrance of my hot moist pussy.
 
Gee I'd like

To be able to try and fing that think of all the fun we could have exploring the various places wher it could be !!

and once I found it I have to be careful not to lose it otherwise I'd have to look for again !!

Richo
 
Naughty n Nice said:
You have got to be kidding me. How old are you? Didn't you have health class in school?

They don't teach specifics in health class, Naughty. Just the basics - this is a penis, this is a vagina.
 
Funny how people keep going back to my first post in this thread when I already apologized for what I said.:rolleyes:
 
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