Cheated-on husbands who get off on it . . .

In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

But I'm sure the things like having ex-girlfriends complained about my performance in bed several times during our relationships, then afterwards some had cheating/broken up with me to be with other men, and the fact that I became curious after getting married about the hotwife and bull lifestyle certainly contributed to my acceptance.

Since I talked to her after finding out that she cheated on me she has been a hotwife for almost 7 years.
I love knowing or seeing her getting fucked in ways I never could.
That's so hot! Does she play often?
 
In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

But I'm sure the things like having ex-girlfriends complained about my performance in bed several times during our relationships, then afterwards some had cheating/broken up with me to be with other men, and the fact that I became curious after getting married about the hotwife and bull lifestyle certainly contributed to my acceptance.

Since I talked to her after finding out that she cheated on me she has been a hotwife for almost 7 years.
I love knowing or seeing her getting fucked in ways I never could.
It's not for everyone but we're living the dream, imo.
 
I know why, but I would enjoy hearing your thoughts.
My understanding is that a work wife is a woman who has an intimate but platonic relationship with a male work colleague. There's also the reverse of that - the work husband. And I suppose in reality it doesn't have to be a male/female relationship, it could be same sex too. But essentially the relationship is platonic.

So, when I saw your post in the thread "cheated on husbands who get off on it" where you said "we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife." I was just curious as to what reasons somebody had to call you a work wife and wondered if you had maybe crossed the line from platonic to something more intimate. Thats all.....lol
 
My understanding is that a work wife is a woman who has an intimate but platonic relationship with a male work colleague. There's also the reverse of that - the work husband. And I suppose in reality it doesn't have to be a male/female relationship, it could be same sex too. But essentially the relationship is platonic.

So, when I saw your post in the thread "cheated on husbands who get off on it" where you said "we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife." I was just curious as to what reasons somebody had to call you a work wife and wondered if you had maybe crossed the line from platonic to something more intimate. Thats all.....lol
I said my peace. The truth hurts
 
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My understanding is that a work wife is a woman who has an intimate but platonic relationship with a male work colleague. There's also the reverse of that - the work husband. And I suppose in reality it doesn't have to be a male/female relationship, it could be same sex too. But essentially the relationship is platonic.

So, when I saw your post in the thread "cheated on husbands who get off on it" where you said "we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife." I was just curious as to what reasons somebody had to call you a work wife and wondered if you had maybe crossed the line from platonic to something more intimate. Thats all.....lol
I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts further on what you had shared. In regard to what you shared, I agree with you. I’m trying to remember why I even said that; I think it had to do with a conversation around monogamy, and well I guess it doesn’t matter now. Yes I have.1
 
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