Cheated-on husbands who get off on it . . .

[000777]

In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

But I'm sure the things like having ex-girlfriends complained about my performance in bed several times during our relationships, then afterwards some had cheating/broken up with me to be with other men, and the fact that I became curious after getting married about the hotwife and bull lifestyle certainly contributed to my acceptance.

Since I talked to her after finding out that she cheated on me she has been a hotwife for almost 7 years.
I love knowing or seeing her getting fucked in ways I never could.

That's so hot! Does she play often?

 

[SmallHubby7897]

That's so hot! Does she play often?

Yes, since she became a hotwife, she's pretty much always had another man.
She's currently in a relationship with the same bull for almost two years.

 

[000777]

Yes, since she became a hotwife, she's pretty much always had another man.
She's currently in a relationship with the same bull for almost two years.

Cool! Do you get to watch?

 

[SmallHubby7897]

Cool! Do you get to watch?

Yes, although most of the time I'm not together with them, I try to watch whenever possible.

 

[000777]

Yes, although most of the time I'm not together with them, I try to watch whenever possible.

Cool! It's always fun to watch!

 

[Ed_Sumner]

In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

But I'm sure the things like having ex-girlfriends complained about my performance in bed several times during our relationships, then afterwards some had cheating/broken up with me to be with other men, and the fact that I became curious after getting married about the hotwife and bull lifestyle certainly contributed to my acceptance.

Since I talked to her after finding out that she cheated on me she has been a hotwife for almost 7 years.
I love knowing or seeing her getting fucked in ways I never could.

It's not for everyone but we're living the dream, imo.

 

[DoodyMonster]

I agree with you.
I think we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife.

Why do you think you were you called a guys work wife?

 

[Bobm269]

Why do you think you were you called a guys work wife?

I know why, but I would enjoy hearing your thoughts.

 

[DoodyMonster]

I know why, but I would enjoy hearing your thoughts.

My understanding is that a work wife is a woman who has an intimate but platonic relationship with a male work colleague. There's also the reverse of that - the work husband. And I suppose in reality it doesn't have to be a male/female relationship, it could be same sex too. But essentially the relationship is platonic.

So, when I saw your post in the thread "cheated on husbands who get off on it" where you said "we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife." I was just curious as to what reasons somebody had to call you a work wife and wondered if you had maybe crossed the line from platonic to something more intimate. Thats all.....lol

 

[lifeis2short2b]

My understanding is that a work wife is a woman who has an intimate but platonic relationship with a male work colleague. There's also the reverse of that - the work husband. And I suppose in reality it doesn't have to be a male/female relationship, it could be same sex too. But essentially the relationship is platonic.

So, when I saw your post in the thread "cheated on husbands who get off on it" where you said "we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife." I was just curious as to what reasons somebody had to call you a work wife and wondered if you had maybe crossed the line from platonic to something more intimate. Thats all.....lol

I said my peace. The truth hurts

 

[Curious_2]

WTF!

 

[Bobm269]

My understanding is that a work wife is a woman who has an intimate but platonic relationship with a male work colleague. There's also the reverse of that - the work husband. And I suppose in reality it doesn't have to be a male/female relationship, it could be same sex too. But essentially the relationship is platonic.

So, when I saw your post in the thread "cheated on husbands who get off on it" where you said "we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife." I was just curious as to what reasons somebody had to call you a work wife and wondered if you had maybe crossed the line from platonic to something more intimate. Thats all.....lol

I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts further on what you had shared. In regard to what you shared, I agree with you. I’m trying to remember why I even said that; I think it had to do with a conversation around monogamy, and well I guess it doesn’t matter now. Yes I have.1

 

[DianneFachs]

The thought and pleasure of being humiliated by my wife having sex with other people emerged in me and she only became aware of it when I began to suggest it. Combine it with my own intense journey toward femininity and the fact that I couldn't get erect for vaginal intercourse with her anymore. Humiliated me but also felt only fair to her to let her meet her needs with men who can get the job done. She was hesitant at first but has taken to it like a duck to water. Casual sex and longer term relationships: men and women.

It still thrills me to think of her with someone else, thinking of her sucking him and him fucking her bareback (after STD tests & she's on the pill) gets me hard in my panties. Sometimes she has me pick out the clothes she'll get fucked in. Sometimes she dresses me super sissy and locks me to the bed in our sissy bedroom while she goes out or even brings him home. Sometimes she'll call me and leave the call or facetime running while they have sex so I can see and hear. I'm rarely present in the room with them. This is about her and her needs, not about me.