Chance Made Us Sistersluts; Choice Made Us Friends

My Dear Litsters,

I hope all those concerned see this, before this thread gets buried on page 67 of the PG. Read fast! :)

I feel like I have to put this into words somewhere...

This summer, and fall, have been a Long Strange Trip: too many changes in my life to count, and all in a relatively short amount of time.

My head is spinning, yet the world keeps turning, and, I confess:

*raises hand*

"Hi, My name is Cassidy, and I have been a Lit flake."

I've been wildly, yet equally, inconsistent in responding to PMs, returning instant messages, responding to posts... I've been a very naughty Litster. I've left people hanging. I've gone, at times, days in a row without posting. I've started threads and not kept them up. I've even used alts! :eek:

And then sometimes? I go bananas in a flurry of public silliness: it's a mask. It's fake. It's a coping mechanism.

PG, I am sorry.

This thread was originally started to be a place where us Lit Ladies could go to reach out, give and receive e-hugs, support each other, and occasionally (OK, frequently) work out frustration via online sluttery.

As such, I'd like to say that this has been the darkest, hardest, most tumultuous time of my life. I'm sitting here now, in a half empty house, too tired to work any further... So I figured, "Hey, why not spill my guts to a bunch of internet strangers?"

But you're not all strangers. Not anymore.

I have so much gratitude in my heart for those of you out there - you know who you are - who have held my virtual hand throughout this heart breaking, life altering, utterly transformative, experience. And if it weren't for some of the friends I've made here, I suspect I would have gone completely insane by now.

(Quick poll: Do you think I've gone completely insane?? Wait, maybe don't answer that...) :)

So, for anyone who's been wondering where I've been, and why, if you didn't already know, now ya do.

http://www.paperin.org/system/files/images/Divorce-Poster.gif

In essence, Miss C is currently out of order, posting irregularly, not updating her tumblr frequently, not writing, nor recording, nor doing anything but Divorce Work.

Paperwork. Packing. Moving. Tongue-biting. Asking my parents for help (facepalm). Charging things. Working two jobs. Navigating single momhood. It's. Been. Hell.

And I'm one pissed off little hippie: I don't like it when my fun quota isn't being met. I get hot under the collar. I pout. I mope. Yes: it's true. I'm not always Little Miss Sunshine.

But the good news is that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I will, at some point, return to my regularly scheduled programming (meme slutting, Led Zeppelin quoting, BDSM word associating, etc) soon.

Thank you so much, Litsters... for understanding, for reaching out, for giving me perspective, and insight, and for always making me smile...

I do enjoy smiling. I plan to be doing it more in the not-too-distant future.

:heart: Hugs welcomed and reciprocated :heart:
 
My Dear Litsters,

I hope all those concerned see this, before this thread gets buried on page 67 of the PG. Read fast! :)

I feel like I have to put this into words somewhere...

This summer, and fall, have been a Long Strange Trip: too many changes in my life to count, and all in a relatively short amount of time.

My head is spinning, yet the world keeps turning, and, I confess:

*raises hand*

"Hi, My name is Cassidy, and I have been a Lit flake."

I've been wildly, yet equally, inconsistent in responding to PMs, returning instant messages, responding to posts... I've been a very naughty Litster. I've left people hanging. I've gone, at times, days in a row without posting. I've started threads and not kept them up. I've even used alts! :eek:

And then sometimes? I go bananas in a flurry of public silliness: it's a mask. It's fake. It's a coping mechanism.

PG, I am sorry.

This thread was originally started to be a place where us Lit Ladies could go to reach out, give and receive e-hugs, support each other, and occasionally (OK, frequently) work out frustration via online sluttery.

As such, I'd like to say that this has been the darkest, hardest, most tumultuous time of my life. I'm sitting here now, in a half empty house, too tired to work any further... So I figured, "Hey, why not spill my guts to a bunch of internet strangers?"

But you're not all strangers. Not anymore.

I have so much gratitude in my heart for those of you out there - you know who you are - who have held my virtual hand throughout this heart breaking, life altering, utterly transformative, experience. And if it weren't for some of the friends I've made here, I suspect I would have gone completely insane by now.

(Quick poll: Do you think I've gone completely insane?? Wait, maybe don't answer that...) :)

So, for anyone who's been wondering where I've been, and why, if you didn't already know, now ya do.

http://www.paperin.org/system/files/images/Divorce-Poster.gif

In essence, Miss C is currently out of order, posting irregularly, not updating her tumblr frequently, not writing, nor recording, nor doing anything but Divorce Work.

Paperwork. Packing. Moving. Tongue-biting. Asking my parents for help (facepalm). Charging things. Working two jobs. Navigating single momhood. It's. Been. Hell.

And I'm one pissed off little hippie: I don't like it when my fun quota isn't being met. I get hot under the collar. I pout. I mope. Yes: it's true. I'm not always Little Miss Sunshine.

But the good news is that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I will, at some point, return to my regularly scheduled programming (meme slutting, Led Zeppelin quoting, BDSM word associating, etc) soon.

Thank you so much, Litsters... for understanding, for reaching out, for giving me perspective, and insight, and for always making me smile...

I do enjoy smiling. I plan to be doing it more in the not-too-distant future.

:heart: Hugs welcomed and reciprocated :heart:
Big Hugs Miss Cassidy! Two jobs? When did that happen?
 
Miss Cassidy,

I'm so sorry to hear about all you've been through recently. I, and I'm sure a whole bunch of others, wish I would have known sooner so I could have been there for you. I get it though. I can understand why you wanted to keep it private. I can only imagine how hard it was for you to put it out there now. I've been told I'm a good listener. Let me know if you need to talk.

*Hugs and a kiss on the cheek for you Miss Cassidy* Keep your head up! :)
 
Miss Cassidy,

I'm so sorry to hear about all you've been through recently. I, and I'm sure a whole bunch of others, wish I would have known sooner so I could have been there for you. I get it though. I can understand why you wanted to keep it private. I can only imagine how hard it was for you to put it out there now. I've been told I'm a good listener. Let me know if you need to talk.

*Hugs and a kiss on the cheek for you Miss Cassidy* Keep your head up! :)


Thanks Pvt ;)

http://31.media.tumblr.com/a1c8d8f233128e6ec21f31b7350fe815/tumblr_meuadalei91qfzgyio1_500.gif
 
Cassidy - you will land on your feet, with a big smile on your face, dancing to a Dead tune, picking sunflowers. The sun will be shining again and life will be full. You are a lovely, strong woman and nothing can hold you down! You're going to be even better than before, and that's saying something. Sending you hugs and any other support you need. :rose:
 
My Dear Litsters,

I hope all those concerned see this, before this thread gets buried on page 67 of the PG. Read fast! :)

I feel like I have to put this into words somewhere...

This summer, and fall, have been a Long Strange Trip: too many changes in my life to count, and all in a relatively short amount of time.

My head is spinning, yet the world keeps turning, and, I confess:

*raises hand*

"Hi, My name is Cassidy, and I have been a Lit flake."

I've been wildly, yet equally, inconsistent in responding to PMs, returning instant messages, responding to posts... I've been a very naughty Litster. I've left people hanging. I've gone, at times, days in a row without posting. I've started threads and not kept them up. I've even used alts! :eek:

And then sometimes? I go bananas in a flurry of public silliness: it's a mask. It's fake. It's a coping mechanism.

PG, I am sorry.

This thread was originally started to be a place where us Lit Ladies could go to reach out, give and receive e-hugs, support each other, and occasionally (OK, frequently) work out frustration via online sluttery.

As such, I'd like to say that this has been the darkest, hardest, most tumultuous time of my life. I'm sitting here now, in a half empty house, too tired to work any further... So I figured, "Hey, why not spill my guts to a bunch of internet strangers?"

But you're not all strangers. Not anymore.

I have so much gratitude in my heart for those of you out there - you know who you are - who have held my virtual hand throughout this heart breaking, life altering, utterly transformative, experience. And if it weren't for some of the friends I've made here, I suspect I would have gone completely insane by now.

(Quick poll: Do you think I've gone completely insane?? Wait, maybe don't answer that...) :)

So, for anyone who's been wondering where I've been, and why, if you didn't already know, now ya do.

http://www.paperin.org/system/files/images/Divorce-Poster.gif

In essence, Miss C is currently out of order, posting irregularly, not updating her tumblr frequently, not writing, nor recording, nor doing anything but Divorce Work.

Paperwork. Packing. Moving. Tongue-biting. Asking my parents for help (facepalm). Charging things. Working two jobs. Navigating single momhood. It's. Been. Hell.

And I'm one pissed off little hippie: I don't like it when my fun quota isn't being met. I get hot under the collar. I pout. I mope. Yes: it's true. I'm not always Little Miss Sunshine.

But the good news is that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I will, at some point, return to my regularly scheduled programming (meme slutting, Led Zeppelin quoting, BDSM word associating, etc) soon.

Thank you so much, Litsters... for understanding, for reaching out, for giving me perspective, and insight, and for always making me smile...

I do enjoy smiling. I plan to be doing it more in the not-too-distant future.

:heart: Hugs welcomed and reciprocated :heart:

Hugs. :rose:
 
Cassidy - you will land on your feet, with a big smile on your face, dancing to a Dead tune, picking sunflowers. The sun will be shining again and life will be full. You are a lovely, strong woman and nothing can hold you down! You're going to be even better than before, and that's saying something. Sending you hugs and any other support you need. :rose:

Nothing can hold me down?!

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/AyBUF2YCQAIa7l1.jpg

Just kidding, Mr Lewis ;)

https://img1.etsystatic.com/001/0/5296132/il_570xN.361146341_og0v.jpg

:heart: Thank You :heart:

http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/0a/65/ac/0a65acb8f53e8a9a90fae271c9512361.jpg
 
My Dear Litsters,

I hope all those concerned see this, before this thread gets buried on page 67 of the PG. Read fast! :)

I feel like I have to put this into words somewhere...

This summer, and fall, have been a Long Strange Trip: too many changes in my life to count, and all in a relatively short amount of time.

My head is spinning, yet the world keeps turning, and, I confess:

*raises hand*

"Hi, My name is Cassidy, and I have been a Lit flake."

I've been wildly, yet equally, inconsistent in responding to PMs, returning instant messages, responding to posts... I've been a very naughty Litster. I've left people hanging. I've gone, at times, days in a row without posting. I've started threads and not kept them up. I've even used alts! :eek:

And then sometimes? I go bananas in a flurry of public silliness: it's a mask. It's fake. It's a coping mechanism.

PG, I am sorry.

This thread was originally started to be a place where us Lit Ladies could go to reach out, give and receive e-hugs, support each other, and occasionally (OK, frequently) work out frustration via online sluttery.

As such, I'd like to say that this has been the darkest, hardest, most tumultuous time of my life. I'm sitting here now, in a half empty house, too tired to work any further... So I figured, "Hey, why not spill my guts to a bunch of internet strangers?"

But you're not all strangers. Not anymore.

I have so much gratitude in my heart for those of you out there - you know who you are - who have held my virtual hand throughout this heart breaking, life altering, utterly transformative, experience. And if it weren't for some of the friends I've made here, I suspect I would have gone completely insane by now.

(Quick poll: Do you think I've gone completely insane?? Wait, maybe don't answer that...) :)

So, for anyone who's been wondering where I've been, and why, if you didn't already know, now ya do.

http://www.paperin.org/system/files/images/Divorce-Poster.gif

In essence, Miss C is currently out of order, posting irregularly, not updating her tumblr frequently, not writing, nor recording, nor doing anything but Divorce Work.

Paperwork. Packing. Moving. Tongue-biting. Asking my parents for help (facepalm). Charging things. Working two jobs. Navigating single momhood. It's. Been. Hell.

And I'm one pissed off little hippie: I don't like it when my fun quota isn't being met. I get hot under the collar. I pout. I mope. Yes: it's true. I'm not always Little Miss Sunshine.

But the good news is that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I will, at some point, return to my regularly scheduled programming (meme slutting, Led Zeppelin quoting, BDSM word associating, etc) soon.

Thank you so much, Litsters... for understanding, for reaching out, for giving me perspective, and insight, and for always making me smile...

I do enjoy smiling. I plan to be doing it more in the not-too-distant future.

:heart: Hugs welcomed and reciprocated :heart:
You need anything call me :heart:
 
Well Miss Cassidy, though I'm not a sister slut, I'm obviously a slut nonetheless..., you know you are mentally/emotionally/virtually/sluttily supported in all the things you are going through. I for one agree that we all need to smile a bit more when you can.
Here are some more ((((HUGS)))). U know where to find more when you need them. Just ask.
P
 
Well Miss Cassidy, though I'm not a sister slut, I'm obviously a slut nonetheless..., you know you are mentally/emotionally/virtually/sluttily supported in all the things you are going through. I for one agree that we all need to smile a bit more when you can.
Here are some more ((((HUGS)))). U know where to find more when you need them. Just ask.
P

Thank you Peppa :)

Im getting stronger every day!

http://www.troll.me/images/exercise/learn-how-to-be-a-slut-like-this.jpg

And you give good hug...

http://i1.cpcache.com/product/542477007/free_hugs_for_sluts_decal.jpg?height=225&width=225

Still working on the smiles... ;)

https://i1.sndcdn.com/avatars-000019853858-knmdv4-t200x200.jpg?e76cf77
 
OMG, that is one of my favorite machines at the gym....guess I'm a slut too!


Hugs to Miss C. You know you have a friendly ear here. Please don't apologize. Life kicks us in the ass sometimes. You are rising like a phoenix. :rose::rose:

Thank You INL!! {{Hugs back}}

I'm afraid rising like a phoenix would be stealing Feisty's gig!!

How about the immortal words of Destiny's Child? :p

http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/60/6b/57/606b57578a1d6853e266ebf83640f933.jpg

Or Christina Aguilera? :)

http://i1.ytimg.com/vi/mcPxN20xzwQ/hqdefault.jpg

http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdhi8ujTzW1rptpjco1_500.jpg

http://i.ytimg.com/vi/RBOJpIwF47Y/hqdefault.jpg

https://img1.etsystatic.com/000/0/6396738/il_570xN.292868599.jpg

*stops before she goes on empowering female pop music iTunes spending spree... :D
 
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