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Cfnm...your thoughts?

My wife and I incorporate aspects of CFNM into our sex/romance life. I enjoy being naked for her, and she likes to look at and touch me while I'm naked. After sex, I will often stay naked when I go into the kitchen to make us a drink or a snack. Since I practice semen retention, I'm usually hard also. My wife likes having a naked man with a raging erection pouring a glass of wine for her. She's really into my ass and often squeezes my buns while I'm at work at the counter. On a typical Friday night (or any night really) if you could see into our kitchen, you might see my wife comfortably wrapped up in a terry cloth bathrobe standing behind me and copping a feel while I open a bottle of wine buck naked and my hard-on slaps the countertop.

For me there is an element of chivalry to this: she gets to cover up and feel warm and satisfied while I stay nude and aroused for her erotic pleasure (and mine).

I'm very fit, and a major motivation for me in staying that way is thinking about how much she enjoys my nakedness and my body. I love pleasing her in this way.

Needless to say, I love seeing her naked too, but she's much more discreet and will sometimes keep a negligee on even when we are having sex. This of course makes the glimpses of her nudity that I do get all the more exciting. And the double standard is hot.
 
Wageslave said:
I'd happily do that for my girlfriend if she asked
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Erosfan said:
Why wait for her to ask? Offer your naked self to her and see how she reacts.
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AnjaPPunk said:
because of consent maybe? :eek::rolleyes:
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Hey, let's be very clear: consent is uber important. However, so is acceptance. If it's your house (or apartment or whatever) - and it's just the two of you - then why shouldn't you experiment with being the naked one without asking first?

I'm NOT suggesting that you strolling out into the living room sporting a hard-on in front of the bridal shower that she's hosting. At least not as a start, LOL. But what's to prevent you from say, strolling to the kitchen for a glass of water after a shower or walking nude to the laundry room in front of your wife/girlfriend?

Start small and casual and see how she reacts. She MIGHT like it!
 
BuckyDuckman said:
Hey, let's be very clear: consent is uber important. However, so is acceptance. If it's your house (or apartment or whatever) - and it's just the two of you - then why shouldn't you experiment with being the naked one without asking first?

I'm NOT suggesting that you strolling out into the living room sporting a hard-on in front of the bridal shower that she's hosting. At least not as a start, LOL. But what's to prevent you from say, strolling to the kitchen for a glass of water after a shower or walking nude to the laundry room in front of your wife/girlfriend?

Start small and casual and see how she reacts. She MIGHT like it!
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Consent is paramount! An open and honest discussion should take place. Talk to her about this and see how she reacts.
 
Interesting hearing about the different forms of CFNM.

Anyone here enjoy CFNM that is accidental / unplanned (at least by the guy)? The true CFNM situations which I have been in and enjoyed most have been situations where my nudity was not planned, and while I of course consented to as it went, I never knew exactly how far it would go – something about that was incredibly exhilirating :D

Having said that, I did work as a semi-nude butler to make money while at university and that did involve near nudity at planned parties and events (does that count as CFNM when I wasn’t completely naked? I’m not sure) and that was pretty damn hot. Only a few times did I end up full naked though!

I guess it would be fun to attend a true CFNM party sometime and know in advance you were going to end up completely naked, groped etc – guess I would like to give it a try some time if the chance comes along :)
 
Of course consent

AnjaPPunk said:
because of consent maybe? :eek::rolleyes:
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Just taking your clothes off without context or discussion isn’t cfnm, it’s a sex crime. But if he’s in a sexual relationship where they’re take their clothes off regularly, I don’t thinks it’s the same as if he doesn’t put boxers on to make coffee.
 
Very exciting, especially when she’s dressed to the 9s. I could burst out of my cage.
 
Stop overthinking

Look, if you want to try or do CFNM with your partner, it’s really simple. After sex, or a shower whenever you would normally be nude, don’t get dressed. Check the blinds and curtains cuz the neighbors may not want into your business. Stay nude until you have to stop being nude. Tell her you like it this way and if she’s cool with, you’re all set.
 
lisaharlot said:
Look, if you want to try or do CFNM with your partner, it’s really simple. After sex, or a shower whenever you would normally be nude, don’t get dressed. Check the blinds and curtains cuz the neighbors may not want into your business. Stay nude until you have to stop being nude. Tell her you like it this way and if she’s cool with, you’re all set.
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This is excellent advice. I know because it totally worked on my husband.

(before we had kids anyways)
 
lisaharlot said:
Look, if you want to try or do CFNM with your partner, it’s really simple. After sex, or a shower whenever you would normally be nude, don’t get dressed. Check the blinds and curtains cuz the neighbors may not want into your business. Stay nude until you have to stop being nude. Tell her you like it this way and if she’s cool with, you’re all set.
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Agree.

I've done this several times with my wife. Have taken a shower, dried off and then proceeded to just walk around the house doing my normal stuff completely naked.

Occasionally do a little dance in front of her shaking my little fella around. She has no issues - she doesn't say so, anyway! She just knows I like to do this occasionally.

I've not started playing with myself, though. I would like to do this but not sure how she would react to that!
 
I'm curious if CFNM fans have any particular favorite stories they can point to. I'm writing one of my own. It's slow-going and it's a challenge because I'm much more interested in CMNF, erotically.

One day the light bulb went on and I thought, I keep writing so many stories about women getting naked, I should try getting the man naked instead and see how that feels.

Some related questions:

1. Do you see CFNM as necessarily involving a submissive man? I can see how this often would be the case, but not necessarily. In general, I'm not into male submissiveness.

2. What is it about CFNM that most turns you on?

3. What's the key to a good CFNM story?
 
SimonDoom said:
I'm curious if CFNM fans have any particular favorite stories they can point to. I'm writing one of my own. It's slow-going and it's a challenge because I'm much more interested in CMNF, erotically.

One day the light bulb went on and I thought, I keep writing so many stories about women getting naked, I should try getting the man naked instead and see how that feels.

Some related questions:

1. Do you see CFNM as necessarily involving a submissive man? I can see how this often would be the case, but not necessarily. In general, I'm not into male submissiveness.

2. What is it about CFNM that most turns you on?

3. What's the key to a good CFNM story?
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I'll try to give this a shot. I love CFNM and have had a couple of fun experiences with it.

1. I don't see CFNM as something only a submissive male would be into. I'm not submissive and I am very much in control in my day to day activities at work and elsewhere. I enjoy my lady being able to enjoy me sexually. I want to be her toy, her fantasy for a while. It has more to do with the exhibitionist in me. I'm not a flasher. I don't want to scare anyone.

2. What turns me on is giving my all to my lady. Trusting that she will enjoy me and at the same time, ensure that what we do will be safe and legal. Don't want to end up in jail. My late wife called me her slut and I loved that. She sometimes called me her personal exhibitionist. I like the role reversal. Let the woman take the lead for a while. Many women never get that opportunity. She also enjoyed the more conventional aspect of our sex life where we were the normal man and woman. Most importantly, have fun. If you make it fun, it's easy to let go and enjoy.

3. I'm not sure there is one aspect of CFNM that makes a good story. I've posted a few CFNM stories on Lit. A couple of them a factual and did happen. The others are a mix of fact and fiction. My wife knew all of my kinks and she read every story I wrote before I posted it. She got a kick out of critiquing my work. She would read a story and say "I can see us doing that" or "we would get in so much trouble if we tried that."

If you like, you can checkout some of my stories here on lit. They are light reading and short. These will give you a better understanding of my take on CFNM.

Here's a link to my stories if you are so inclined to read one or all of them.

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=1258057&page=submissions
 
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Turnmeup said:
Agree.

I've done this several times with my wife. Have taken a shower, dried off and then proceeded to just walk around the house doing my normal stuff completely naked.

Occasionally do a little dance in front of her shaking my little fella around. She has no issues - she doesn't say so, anyway! She just knows I like to do this occasionally.

I've not started playing with myself, though. I would like to do this but not sure how she would react to that!
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I have an idea- ASK HER! Seriously, tell her how much you like it when you’re nude and she’s not and it’s kind of a turn on and see how she feels about it.
 
lisaharlot said:
I have an idea- ASK HER! Seriously, tell her how much you like it when you’re nude and she’s not and it’s kind of a turn on and see how she feels about it.
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I'll add to this as well...try and do things FOR HER while nude.

I have never been into CFNM before, but for whatever reason, I seem to be that way for my current girlfriend. But she likes me doing things for her, like cooking breakfast for her Sunday morning. I did it completely nude.

Or I have given her a foot rub while I was completely nude.

The point is, if you combine doing something you like (CFNM) with something she likes, like having a meal cooked for her, or her feet rubbed, she is going to enjoy the experience. Just being naked around her does not do much for her.

Be creative!
 
lisaharlot said:
I have an idea- ASK HER! Seriously, tell her how much you like it when you’re nude and she’s not and it’s kind of a turn on and see how she feels about it.
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Haha. Yes, a good idea!

Good suggestion from CuttingEdge about doing nice things for her so she gets something out of it - beside seeing me naked, of course...
 
CuttingEdge said:
I'll add to this as well...try and do things FOR HER while nude.

I have never been into CFNM before, but for whatever reason, I seem to be that way for my current girlfriend. But she likes me doing things for her, like cooking breakfast for her Sunday morning. I did it completely nude.

Or I have given her a foot rub while I was completely nude.

The point is, if you combine doing something you like (CFNM) with something she likes, like having a meal cooked for her, or her feet rubbed, she is going to enjoy the experience. Just being naked around her does not do much for her.

Be creative!
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Very sound advice, and it makes common sense.
 
UseMePlease40 said:
yeah, I would love to be there with her... :devil::heart:
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When on vacation just the two of us, I dry off when I get out of the shower and stay naked just to see her response. I especially like when she grabs my junk. It is a control thing - I feel more vulnerable when she is clothed and I am naked. Ps - I’d do anything for the woman in the photo. Just take me

https://cdn012.**********/uploads/photos/2020/12/9675666/bdsmlr-9675666-q61738XELz.jpg
 
kind of a playful submissive thing. i like the teasing and smiles and touching by her. and then the control to make me cum how she wants me to cum.
 
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