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Cfnm...your thoughts?

oldmaidlily said:
My younger lover takes great delight in some less usual activities in which I have been indulging him shamelessly and generally helping him to explore further. The great thing about keeping him naked, which I now do when he visits me, is that it is always very obvious whether he finds new things exciting or off-putting and erections don't tell lies.
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Time for a bump. This thread gets super active at times and sometimes it goes silent for a while.
It's a great thread.
 
Brazilian89 said:
For me there is something in CFNM that doesn't have an equivalent in CMNF...

Personally, it's hard for me to be seen naked by a woman and not end up erect at some point. Even in supposedly 'innocent' situations. For me this brings a certain paradox to the situation of being unintentionally exposed to a certain aspect.

Suppose in some situation where you simply have to be naked in front of women (eg you lose a bet for female friends, a play, something like that). This is an exhibition in itself and its voluntary. Then I can't choose not to get hard, and then a second level of exposure begins, a little more embarrassing.

You stand there naked, you start feeling something, and the more you pay attention to it, the more excited you get and the more noticeable it becomes. When you least expect it, you are unwittingly displaying to the other person a reaction that is usually quite intimate and over which you have little control. I don't remember where I read the term 'shame erection'. Has anyone else ever felt something like this? I don't know if women experience or fantasize something like that...
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You have a great take on this. When I have been in a situation where CFNM was eminent, I was always hard when my pants came off.
At first it was embarrassing, but I got over that in time. The next thing was the first time I had to jerk off and cum with my lady watching, After a couple of times like this, I begged her to invite some of her friend to watch.
Sadly, it never happened.
 
Right before this damn pandemic, I was at my usual C/O resort. As usual, I'm naked as a jaybird. I always carry a towel to sit on when I'm visiting others. I just met a new couple and we were just chatting. Up walks this cute young redhead. Now when I say young, I'm 70 y/o, so most people are young to me. She was in her mid 30's. She had just a long white cotton t-shirt on. As we all were just talking, I noticed her nipples getting hard, and BIG. The more I looked at them, the harder I got. She would look down once in a while which got me even more aroused. The couple I was visiting just looked at me and smiled. The whole incident lasted about 15 minutes. I had to walk away, it was getting painful. Saw this young lady again later that day. Just a short conversation but a giggle in her voice. Wished it would of gone to the next step.
 
skitzoid said:
Right before this damn pandemic, I was at my usual C/O resort. As usual, I'm naked as a jaybird. I always carry a towel to sit on when I'm visiting others. I just met a new couple and we were just chatting. Up walks this cute young redhead. Now when I say young, I'm 70 y/o, so most people are young to me. She was in her mid 30's. She had just a long white cotton t-shirt on. As we all were just talking, I noticed her nipples getting hard, and BIG. The more I looked at them, the harder I got. She would look down once in a while which got me even more aroused. The couple I was visiting just looked at me and smiled. The whole incident lasted about 15 minutes. I had to walk away, it was getting painful. Saw this young lady again later that day. Just a short conversation but a giggle in her voice. Wished it would of gone to the next step.
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The opportunity to have such encounters has got to be one of the best things about C/O beaches. All parties present can see what's happening and may wear a polite smile and carry on the conversation regardless. It's that juxtaposition of the polite with the overtly carnal that is so erotic. Thanks for sharing.
 
Paulsom said:
The opportunity to have such encounters has got to be one of the best things about C/O beaches. All parties present can see what's happening and may wear a polite smile and carry on the conversation regardless. It's that juxtaposition of the polite with the overtly carnal that is so erotic. Thanks for sharing.
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Excellent observation!
 
skitzoid said:
Right before this damn pandemic, I was at my usual C/O resort. As usual, I'm naked as a jaybird. I always carry a towel to sit on when I'm visiting others. I just met a new couple and we were just chatting. Up walks this cute young redhead. Now when I say young, I'm 70 y/o, so most people are young to me. She was in her mid 30's. She had just a long white cotton t-shirt on. As we all were just talking, I noticed her nipples getting hard, and BIG. The more I looked at them, the harder I got. She would look down once in a while which got me even more aroused. The couple I was visiting just looked at me and smiled. The whole incident lasted about 15 minutes. I had to walk away, it was getting painful. Saw this young lady again later that day. Just a short conversation but a giggle in her voice. Wished it would of gone to the next step.
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Paulsom said:
The opportunity to have such encounters has got to be one of the best things about C/O beaches. All parties present can see what's happening and may wear a polite smile and carry on the conversation regardless. It's that juxtaposition of the polite with the overtly carnal that is so erotic. Thanks for sharing.
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It does not take much to get my penis excited, and I find having a stiff penis a pleasurable experience. On the odd occasion when my penis gets (or starts to get) stiff on a nude beach, it will mean that I am happy, relaxed, enjoying a pleasurable experience, (normally witnessed by a smile on my face) and do not offer danger to anybody. I do think that people can get too hung up about the subject and take it too seriously.

An erection is a natural state and is generally brought on by thoughts of a sexual nature. I think that the basic concern is that a man, when aroused will rape or have sexual intercourse with the nearest woman around.

What's more, if it does decide to 'pop up' the reaction you are likely to get could vary from ' disgusting' to it being ignored as 'I've seen them before and they all look very much the same. It obviously depends on where you are at the time and the given situation. For what it is worth, I am a social nudist so enjoying chatting with like-minded nudists and despite nudism being asexual it does stop me from admiring a beautiful body and if I get an erection I haven't yet offended any female I chat with.
 
luckyseven said:
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An erection is a natural state and is generally brought on by thoughts of a sexual nature. I think that the basic concern is that a man, when aroused will rape or have sexual intercourse with the nearest woman around.

What's more, if it does decide to 'pop up' the reaction you are likely to get could vary from ' disgusting' to it being ignored as 'I've seen them before and they all look very much the same. It obviously depends on where you are at the time and the given situation. For what it is worth, I am a social nudist so enjoying chatting with like-minded nudists and despite nudism being asexual it does stop me from admiring a beautiful body and if I get an erection I haven't yet offended any female I chat with.
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When I first went to C/O or nudist beaches I was told that an erection was a "no no" and you should cover up. Going on C/O beaches in France and Spain I noticed that no one took much notice if a man had an erection, provided that there wasn't any overt sexual activity involved and he wasn't being a nuisance. I have seen sexual activity on these beaches, but again they weren't being any nuisance to anyone else.

Since then I haven't worried if I get an erection or a semi and no one else has seemed to mind, my wife definitely notices though ;)
 
HampshireBoy said:
When I first went to C/O or nudist beaches I was told that an erection was a "no no" and you should cover up. Going on C/O beaches in France and Spain I noticed that no one took much notice if a man had an erection, provided that there wasn't any overt sexual activity involved and he wasn't being a nuisance. I have seen sexual activity on these beaches, but again they weren't being any nuisance to anyone else.

Since then I haven't worried if I get an erection or a semi and no one else has seemed to mind, my wife definitely notices though ;)
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I agree that in Mediterranean Europe nudity on beaches is not frowned upon unless you are causing a public nuisance.

Seeing erections is more common than you would imagine as 'nature' tends to win over restraint. Younger generations are open-minded concerning sex and nudity and shaved genitalia is so common nowadays that there is little left to the imagination.

So if I get an erection (I am usually always in the semi-aroused state) so be it. If you are a social nudist then you have realised long ago that you have nothing to hide!

My wife notices, and so do the majority of other women (and men) but it isn't a rarity to see erect penises so it isn't an issue anymore.

I enjoy an erection but that doesn't mean I'm ready for sex. There is a separation.
 
Hardon4u21 said:
Fuck I love being teased. One of my hottest relationships was with a woman who told me on the first date that she was a cock tease and if I wanted to date her that we could make out and she would tease me, but that was it. She gave me my first wet dream.
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I love woman that tease and toy..very hot..:devil:
 
Erosfan said:
Me too. It has been a life long fantasy of mine to get to jerk off and cum for a small group of appreciative women.
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My closest fantasy to this is to be jerked off by my wife in front of a few of her friends. We discussed this many times and she was always willing to listen and even offer up a couple of scenarios to get me all wound up.
Unfortunately, it never happened.
 
Erosfan said:
My closest fantasy to this is to be jerked off by my wife in front of a few of her friends. We discussed this many times and she was always willing to listen and even offer up a couple of scenarios to get me all wound up.
Unfortunately, it never happened.
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That's always been lighter fluid for my husband.

And for me too because I'd actually love to show him off to a few of my friends :devil:
 
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