Can You Cum When You Want To?

[juicylips]

I was wondering if an orgasm just overtakes you and you can't stop it.

Or

If you can time it so that you and your partner cum together.

Guys, how long can you hold out??

Cassidy,
who is always curious

 

[Bob Peale]

Bah, piece of cake.

I can go 3, 4 seconds with no problem.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Well when it's gonna go it goes... I can't stop it unless I stop all together.... and partner? what is P-a-r-t-n-e-r?

 

[BlondGirl]

If I am nearing and getting really close and I stop myself, it gives me a cramp and then the sexplay is not as enjoyable. If I am nowhere close when I force myself to stop, then that level of arousal can be dragged on for a long time of enjoyable pleasure.
Of course, I can cum more than once so there is no need to withhold, is there?

 

[modest mouse]

I think cumming together is overrated, its not the holy grail it is made out to be. I enjoy it much more when I can feel, hear, and see her reaction as she orgasms. Its more personal than cumming together I think, more intimate.

 

[ToddHwrd]

I was wondering if an orgasm just overtakes you and you can't stop it.

Or

If you can time it so that you and your partner cum together.

Guys, how long can you hold out??

Cassidy,
who is always curious

It depends on how emotionally excited I am, if that makes any sense. If I am really into it I'm not sure if I could hold out for the partner, and hopefully there would be....lol, but yes most of the time I can think about something else or concentrate on not cumming too fast.

It also depends if it is the first time I have cum in that particular time

ToddH

 

[ToddHwrd]

You know Cassidy after rethinking this, I'd rather just make you cum........how does that sound my dear sweet juicylips......~

ToddH

 

[registered "^^"]

sure

got knee pads.........

 

[sigh]

can i cum when i want to?

well, not like when i'm just walking down the street, but give me a bit of stimulation and i can cum with the best of them

and as blonde girl says, if you can cum more than once, why wait for your partner? she can join in on the second round if she wants

 

[StondTmplPilot]

It usually takes me quite a long time to cum, so timing so we both cum together would be damn near impossible.

 

[sigh]

It usually takes me quite a long time to cum.

you just gotta hate that in a man...

 

[StondTmplPilot]

you just gotta hate that in a man...

or LOVE it

 

[iann666]

After you

I like to think I would make the woman of the moment cum first which during foreplay is not usually a problem. During actual sex her cumming usually brings on mine.

 

[juicylips]

Re: After you

I like to think I would make the woman of the moment cum first which during foreplay is not usually a problem. During actual sex her cumming usually brings on mine.

You are always the gentleman, Ian

No, I don't think making a woman cum would be any kind of problem for you

Cassidy

 

[iann666]

Re: Re: After you

You are always the gentleman, Ian

No, I don't think making a woman cum would be any kind of problem for you

Cassidy

Well thank you kind lady it also helps if they are receptive as I am sure you are
Shall we put this to the test lol

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Re: After you

Well thank you kind lady it also helps if they are receptive as I am sure you are
Shall we put this to the test lol

I am a great test taker!! Always score very high on the sliding scale

Cassidy,
always receptive to Ian

 

[iann666]

Re: Re: Re: Re: After you

I am a great test taker!! Always score very high on the sliding scale

Cassidy,
always receptive to Ian

I can do that, slide it in and slide it out

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: After you

I can do that, slide it in and slide it out

Slide it in.

Slide it out.

Slow.....fast......faster......hard....harder.....

Oh, yea... you do that very well

Cassidy

 

[Asendin]

Guys, how long can you hold out??

Cassidy,
who is always curious

with you? probably not long..

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Can You Cum When You Want To?

with you? probably not long..

Guess we would just have to practice till we got it right

Cassidy

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I think cumming together is overrated, its not the holy grail it is made out to be. I enjoy it much more when I can feel, hear, and see her reaction as she orgasms. Its more personal than cumming together I think, more intimate.

Yep, being able to watch what you do to your partner is cool...... time taken getting there is not important, it's the fun along the way and that you do make it in the end

 

[miles]

Bob Peale

Duuuuude.

What IS your secret?

 

[Lost Cause]

Depends on how much "backload" I've got. Most of the time I try to do my ,"mini-cums" letting a little out just enough to keep hard and heavy. Downside is when I do that enough during the session, if she wants me to cum with her, I have to really, really, focus to do it. With that method, I'm good for a couple of hours.

 

[juicylips]

Mini Cums?

Depends on how much "backload" I've got. Most of the time I try to do my ,"mini-cums" letting a little out just enough to keep hard and heavy. Downside is when I do that enough during the session, if she wants me to cum with her, I have to really, really, focus to do it. With that method, I'm good for a couple of hours.

I understand about the backloads. But I have never heard of a man who can cum just a little at a time!

So you can stop mid orgasm? Fuck for two hours??

Cassidy,
very impressed

 

[lovetoread]

Yes you can stop in the middle of it if you have kids....

Trust me on that one!


I am a slave to my partner. I cannot hold myself back at all.