Can someone else own your soul?

[Cleopatra]

For me, it seemed to just happen naturally.

But when I finally did meet the right person for me, the one I believe I was destined to be with, everything just seemed to fall into place. I didn't have to try or pretend or work on anything. It was like coming home.

Wow - nice to know this happens for real.

 

[Gusty Wind]

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[Starfish]

Have you ever loved or cared so deeply for someone that you give up all of your self to them...your soul?

Do you think it is possible for someone to be so connected to you and vice versa that your soul just calls out to them...you're locked in a perpetual dance?

Have you ever experienced this and will you share?

Do you think souls know something above and beyond what our conscious knows?

This feels like it is happening to me currently. I've never experianced anything like it. It seems impossible, and it seems delusional, but I want to believe it is really happening. For the first time in my life I realize that until now I've only understood in my soul, what the idea of love is. I've sought it, tried to wrangle it in, tried to hoist it up, tried to flail it or some shit, and it seems like I was beating a dead horse.

I see my qualities that are really true, but I still doubt them. I still have fear. Okay, so I go through this constantly and only made it worse by staying in a dead marriage. So I ended the pharse, and he even is changed by the truth now. It is actually good. So, although I ended it, it doesn't mean I don't have very many flaws that are now a problem for me emotionally, that have arisen as a result of my emotional situation for the past five years.

Well, what this has to do with this topic is that in the past four months, while I've not been posting much at lit, I've been doing a lot of work, but also a great deal of self reflection and reflection on my surroundings and it always has brought me back to one person. This person is someone I met in school last year. I noticed him before I met him, but I didn't quite know 'why' I noticed him until I met him. As time has passed, I've had some interaction with him, but it is always highly awkward for me, and he shows signs it is a bit for him, but probably only because of me and the way I act.

This is not what you'd imagine it would be if two people had 'love' potential.

So, I didn't ever imagine it to be anything real. Well, I've seen so much in such a short time that speaks to me, speaks to my soul. What is scaring me, making me feel delusional.... my soul is literally replying.

I don't know what to make of this really, but I know I would die for him if it would save him from harm or doom, so I imagine I love him.

I miss him soooo much but I feel like I am with him inside all of the time.

Sorta like God.

 

[calypso_21]

Re: hhhe ..

NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

clayso.. wanna some chinken feets ? heehe

NO BODY CAN OWN ANY THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AND THAT'S THE FACT.

and the trueth is ..NO SUCH THINGS IS SO CALLED *SOUL*

iT'S ONLY A WORD.

EG..

TABLE... TREE... AIR... LIFE...

jUST ON OF THE NAME WE INDENTIFY.

AND BECAUSE *SOUL* AND *GOD*.. *MIND*

ARE ALWAYS SO MySTrRIOUS...

aND NON PHYSICAL AND UNTOUCHABLE...

aND IS SO UNREAL...

IT'S aND OTHER WORD TO SAYS...

YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL.

aND CLAYSO... YOU HAVE A BEAUTIGUL SOUL

Thanks sweets! Right back at you!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Do you accept payment plans?

There's a $3 surcharge on the payment program...

 

[calypso_21]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Can someone else own your soul?

Do you think that when we lose our soul as you say we are really just losing touch with it? It's buried in our subconscious? And perhaps that next life is not another life but the touch of another soul or soulful experience to bring it out?

See....I can't believe I've given my soul away. No matter how empty I feel. I have to believe it's still there.

Interesting thought...lost touch. I like this idea. I'm going to have to think about this. The touch of another soul or soulful experience to bring it out...I often wonder if this is what I've waited for...the quite hidden knowledge that I'm going to have this experience...someone will touch me so deeply that my soul with meld with their's.

I don't believe we give all of our soul to someone but I do think we can lose custody of it if only for a specific period of time...time being relative...if we are not careful. When you are ready to have it return to you it will. This is merely a possibility.

 

[calypso_21]

Originally posted by Lancecastor

In the end, it's all a question of faith, so there are as many right answers as there are opinions.

Very true...the whole reason I asked in the first place

My belief system says there is a soul, there is true love and there is potential (though not a fatalistic pre-determined "destiny").

Your definition of love is in my view of this world; a good solid practical working model that enables people to live their earthly lives together. I also happen to believe in true love, the definition of which in my view transcends that you've articulated for love.


I believe true love does indeed transcend the physical. I fully believe that when one connects with the person they ultimately fall deeply in love with...they will fit somewhat like a lock and key turning, unlocking, and tumbling together. Each piece exists on its own but together they compliment each other.

 

[calypso_21]

Re: Re: Can someone else own your soul?

This feels like it is happening to me currently. I've never experianced anything like it. It seems impossible, and it seems delusional, but I want to believe it is really happening. For the first time in my life I realize that until now I've only understood in my soul, what the idea of love is. I've sought it, tried to wrangle it in, tried to hoist it up, tried to flail it or some shit, and it seems like I was beating a dead horse.

I see my qualities that are really true, but I still doubt them. I still have fear. Okay, so I go through this constantly and only made it worse by staying in a dead marriage. So I ended the pharse, and he even is changed by the truth now. It is actually good. So, although I ended it, it doesn't mean I don't have very many flaws that are now a problem for me emotionally, that have arisen as a result of my emotional situation for the past five years.

Well, what this has to do with this topic is that in the past four months, while I've not been posting much at lit, I've been doing a lot of work, but also a great deal of self reflection and reflection on my surroundings and it always has brought me back to one person. This person is someone I met in school last year. I noticed him before I met him, but I didn't quite know 'why' I noticed him until I met him. As time has passed, I've had some interaction with him, but it is always highly awkward for me, and he shows signs it is a bit for him, but probably only because of me and the way I act.

This is not what you'd imagine it would be if two people had 'love' potential.

So, I didn't ever imagine it to be anything real. Well, I've seen so much in such a short time that speaks to me, speaks to my soul. What is scaring me, making me feel delusional.... my soul is literally replying.

I don't know what to make of this really, but I know I would die for him if it would save him from harm or doom, so I imagine I love him.

I miss him soooo much but I feel like I am with him inside all of the time.

Sorta like God.

Starfish, your post blew me away. The depth of feeling you've expressed is fully impressive. I know the feeling you speak of when you sat that your soul is replying. I know this very well.

 

[sheath]

Yes, and he does.

He has owned every part of me since the first moment I met him.

We have been inseparable ever since.

I have never felt this kind of love, so unconditional, so strong.

And I have never before felt the kind of peace I have felt from that very first moment with him.

........love you, Grizz.

S.

 

[calypso_21]

Yes, and he does.

He has owned every part of me since the first moment I met him.

We have been inseparable ever since.

I have never felt this kind of love, so unconditional, so strong.

And I have never before felt the kind of peace I have felt from that very first moment with him.

........love you, Grizz.

S.

I smile so much to see this. Thanks for sharing sheath! It is wonderful to hear.

All I can do is smile.