Can she love our sex as much as me ? Do dominants love the experience as much as the

[ChemistryNine]

Hi everyone. My name is Mike and I am with a wonderful, beautiful and dominant woman named Sarah. Actually she is not traditionally dominant nor am I traditionally submissive but our sex life does revolve around worshiping her and humiliating(not exactly the right word but close enough) me. It is an incredible sex life. It is the best sex I have ever experienced by 10,000 times. The reason it is so good for me has nothing really to do with the actual physical sex. My turn on is all mental ( well mostly ).

I am really curious to know if dominate women or dominate people in general can possibly enjoy the sex as much as the submissive. I cant imagine that they can but I would love to know.

I think part of my disbelief is that the things that turn me on so much are rather non-traditional. For instance I love to kneel in front of her ( both naked ) and masturbate in front of her while talking to her. I tell her how much I love her, howbeautiful she is, how grateful I am for her to let me touch her, ect....To me this is an incredible turn on. I mean incredible. So I am very curious to know if she could love it as much as me. Could a dominante woman love that experience as much as the submissive ? She tells me she does but I just dont know if that is possible. Wht do you think ? Can a domme love the experience as much as the sub ?

 

[CutieMouse]

Why wouldn't she? Same coin; different side. <shrug>

 

[Rrrosyn]

I'm with CutieMouse. Why wouldn't she?

In my experiences men just have their desire right out there for all to see. It's obvious. I get as much of a power rush from j kneeling and rubbing my feet as I do from stroking him to the edge of orgasm and then leaving him squirming. I have some health issues, so I may not always be sexually turned on, but I am ALWAYS mentally turned on and tuned in. His desire feeds mine. (In fact, horrible as it is, my orgasms are soooooo much better if I can hear him begging and moaning.)

 

[Vixandra]

Of course a dominant woman can enjoy dominating another person.
Same way a dominant man would enjoy dominating another person.

Gender isn't really the issue.
I know for me its arousing and powerfully so to have someone doing exactly what I tell them, when, and for the reason of wanting to please me. *wicked grin*
Powerful indeed.

 

[3113]

Part of the joy of any sex is imagining what the other person is feeling and feeling it with them. When your lady has multiple orgasms, don't you delight in it not only because you caused it--but because you ride those orgasms with her there in your mind? I think a dom can get as much if not more pleasure from dominating because they watch you and feel what they're doing to you. They get the double pleasure--the thrill of being in charge, and the chance to imagine the powerful, out-of-control sensations you're feeling as well.

 

[Iron Bear]

Any way you engage in sex can be pleasurable for both partners. If it wasn't enjoyable to her to dominate you, she wouldn't do it.