Broken Friendships

[juicylips]

Ever tried to repair one, only to find you can't?

You want things they way they use to be and eventually you realize it's never going to be like that again.

Kinda sucks, doesn't it?

 

[KillerMuffin]

Yes, it does. There's nothing quite like losing a friend. It hurts, a lot.

Big hugs to you. I hope you feel better about it soon.

 

[Cherry]

Yup

I've got one that still breaks my heart.

 

[Sillyman]

I don't have many friends, so the issue doesn't tend to come up.

 

[P. B. Walker]

That'll teach you to make fun of her new haircut...

all kidding aside... sorry to hear about your friendship woes... sucks when you can't go back... but you can also suck it up and see if you can't re-define your friendship into something better.

PBW

 

[LordLucan74]

Ever tried to repair one, only to find you can't?

You want things they way they use to be and eventually you realize it's never going to be like that again.

Kinda sucks, doesn't it?

I shy away from friendships, especially online.

At one pointe I thought we were developing one....

I guess I was just bloody wrong!!!???

 

[Summery]

Yes, to all of the above. It's a sad void at first. But eventually, I learn it's for the better. At least in most cases. Sometimes, too much time passes, and friendships are beyond repair.
Losing a friend is never a joyous occasion.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Broken Friendships

I shy away from friendships, especially online.

At one pointe I thought we were developing one....

I guess I was just bloody wrong!!!???

Spot on.

 

[HeavyStick]

Yeah, I tried, but the whore he calls a wife won't let it happen. She stole about 200 dollars from me. He said sorry, I said sorry doesn't put the money back in my wallet.

that was 7 years ago. I've sent Christmas cards with return addie and phone number inside. No reply.

Next year will be my last try.

 

[Lancecastor]

"False friends are like autumn leaves, found everywhere.

True friends are like diamonds, precious and rare."

 

[Guest]

Yeah, I tried, but the whore he calls a wife won't let it happen. She stole about 200 dollars from me. He said sorry, I said sorry doesn't put the money back in my wallet.

that was 7 years ago. I've sent Christmas cards with return addie and phone number inside. No reply.

Next year will be my last try.

I told you I liked you.

 

[bored1]

Ever tried to repair one, only to find you can't?

You want things they way they use to be and eventually you realize it's never going to be like that again.

Kinda sucks, doesn't it?

A true friend would want to repair the friendship. hope it works out JL.

 

[perks]

I feel that way about Summery, and even though she's forgiven me, I regret that we will never be what we were once.

 

[juicylips]

Yes, it does. There's nothing quite like losing a friend. It hurts, a lot.

Big hugs to you. I hope you feel better about it soon.

I'm feeling ok. It 's just that I think the realization hit me today that it's really over. People do grow and change in various ways. Sometimes I think the friendship gets left behind with those changes. I do wish him all the best. I don't believe there are any hard feelings.

Cute puppy, KM.

 

[Guest]

I feel that way about Summery, and even though she's forgiven me, I regret that we will never be what we were once.

How do you forgive yourself and regret what you had once?

I'm not believing a single word you say, Duck.

 

[perks]

How do you forgive yourself and regret what you had once?

I'm not believing a single word you say, Duck.

I didn't say I forgave myself. I said she did. I also know that we were close once, and we won't be again, because of something I did.
I regret that, I think I lost out on something good, because of my actions.

I don't think you have to believe me.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Yeah, I tried, but the whore he calls a wife won't let it happen. She stole about 200 dollars from me. He said sorry, I said sorry doesn't put the money back in my wallet.

that was 7 years ago. I've sent Christmas cards with return addie and phone number inside. No reply.

Next year will be my last try.

I would say you have made a huge effort to salvage something. That says volumes about the person you are.

 

[Guest]

I didn't say I forgave myself. I said she did. I also know that we were close once, and we won't be again, because of something I did.
I regret that, I think I lost out on something good, because of my actions.

I don't think you have to believe me.

Thanks. I won't. It's too much listening to what your gob spew.

 

[erosman]

I like P.B.'s word, redefine. Sometimes, we tend to be so cut and dried about relationships. I think any relationship can be redefined instead of broken....any. There are so many levels of friendship, and sometimes what appears to be a backward motion can actually be just a correction of reality.

That said, redefining is not painless, but neither is it hopeless.

hugs, jl

 

[MissTaken]

Ever tried to repair one, only to find you can't?

You want things they way they use to be and eventually you realize it's never going to be like that again.

Kinda sucks, doesn't it?

Hugs, JL.

On the rare occasions where friends can rebuild their relationship, it requires an intense desrie on both sides and commitment. The work toward rebuilding friendship is never easy which is why it doesn't happen often. Then, the end result is never the same as you whta you once had, but sometimes it is better.

Wishing you the best...you deserve it!

 

[Guest]

Ever tried to repair one, only to find you can't?

Yes.

Once some things are broken...it can never be fixed. Trust is one of those things. I have broken someone's trust...and then had mine broken.

Friendships can only be repaired when both parties want it bad enough.... it doesn't work if its one sided.

 

[Guest]

 

[juicylips]

Thinking of you, my Juiciest of friends

Always in my heart, gorgeous.

 

[gina3]

Ever tried to repair one, only to find you can't?

You want things they way they use to be and eventually you realize it's never going to be like that again.

Kinda sucks, doesn't it?

It DOES suck!!! But once that trust is gone- it's damn near impossible to get it back..been through that recently myself

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Broken Friendships

Hugs, JL.

On the rare occasions where friends can rebuild their relationship, it requires an intense desrie on both sides and commitment. The work toward rebuilding friendship is never easy which is why it doesn't happen often. Then, the end result is never the same as you whta you once had, but sometimes it is better.

Wishing you the best...you deserve it!

Thank you for your kind words, Miss T.

Different circumstances reveal different layers to ourselves. I think what we saw in each of us was a little surprising. Maybe some people are just meant to be part of your life for a short period of time.