bondage / suggestions?

[coyotepondering]

Two extremely broad pieces of advice:

1) Go slow and learn. There is a lot to learn about everything. Rushing is a way to hurt people the wrong way and limits, not enhances your experiences.

2) The greatest physical play in the world is still shallow compared to what you can do to the human mind.

 

[Miss Pants]

Its something ive seen before but never knew what to call it. The site i found that gave a detailed step by step process of it is down actually, but some examples can be found here. http://www.nawashi.com/newbies/kdpt1.html

There is also Kikkou (tortoise shell) which also looks delicious. there is a tutorial here http://www.japanrope.com/tutorial7/tutorial7-t.html

enjoy

Wow. Thanks so much for posting these links! I hope I can be better at this than I am at origami.

 

[stageleft]

reluctance

Hello everyone. Maybe this should go into the "how to" forum but i figured this was as good of a place if any.

Recently ive been seeing this girl who confided into me that she is really into bondage, but has never had a guy willing to explore her fetish with her. So the first thing i did was go to the blank manual, look up some bondage sites and go buy some rope. Now next time we meet up im going to surprise her and have alot of fun.

But before i do, i wanted to check with the collective wisdom of lit. Who has any tips or pointers, what has worked for you? and what should i start her out with? what should i eventually work her to?

It would be easier with her input but she doesnt know yet, and she is submissive and wants me to do all deciding, and im new to all of this

So any tips? pointers? suggestions?

Hi,i have a personal interest in your post.many years ago i was with a girl who could not face giving blow-jobs.she became very attached to me and was worried i would stray because of her oral reluctance..one evening to my surprise she said,.."i dont know whats wrong with me..if you tied me up and made me do it i might just like it."..she let me tie her to a chair and with her hands bound behind her i stood close and rubbed my solid cock on her face.she was clearly very aroused and when i carefully prised her mouth open she mockingly pleaded.."no!!no!!not in my mouth."i cupped the back of her head and carefully pushed my cock in her mouth.she let out a muffled groan of delight and encouraged by this i held her head and blissfully fucked her mouth.i ejaculated very powerfully and she gulped my sperm down almost curiously.since the event she could only accept giving a blow-job by the same method which we both found highly erotic

 

[four]

I want to thank everyone for the advice again. And also to thank everyone for sharing some of their stories.

To update everyone, my SO came over and i surprised her with the rope, and a few other things. Over the course of several days i tried different styles, and i want to share some of my discoveries with some of you who might want to try it yourself.

Both the Karada and Kikkou style worked great, but i found that if you tie overhand knots in the front and pull the side ropes tight like a corset they will dig into your sub and hurt. I found it best to use a figure eight knot or a simple twist, shown in the example found here: "http://www.japanrope.com/tutorial7/tutorial7-t.html"

I did a Shinju style bind, and made her wear it under a shirt when we went to dinner. Her nipples were hard the entire time, and by the time we got home she was ready, very ready for more. She said it was a little hard to breath, but nothing worse than wearing a corset and assures me she wants to try it again. Some examples / tutorials of a Shinju can be found here
"http://www.ds-arts.com/RopeArt/Shinju/Shinju.html"
"http://www.nawashi.com/tutor/sjm.html"

I used 1/4 twist nylon rope, and i had no complaints. I found 50 feet to be enough length for a karada or kikkou, however if you plan on doubling up the rope i would reccomend 100 feet.

With all that said the best evening we had was when i incorperated many things ive learned here on lit. First i slowly tied her body into a karada, letting her feel the rope move across her as i pulled it through and tightened it around her body. After the karada was finished i tied her to a chair and blindfoled her. I took my time and let her anticipation build. I would suddenly start to lick and suck on her breasts, causing her to jump and gasp each time. Then i would tease her body with my hands. But the climax of the evening was when i pulled out the chain and did the "chain trick" found here: "https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=160831&page=1&pp=25"

I slowly built her upto the verge of orgasm, then backed off. Then built her up again. Each time it took less and less work to take her to the edge. I think i did it about four or five times before i took her to the edge and then kept her there. Not letting her cum but working my tounge just right to where all it would take is an extra lick or two to push her right over. I think must have kept her there for atleast a minute, and right as she was about to cum i pulled the chain out of her and she came so hard she pulled herself free from some of the bindings i tied. And let me tell you i tied those fuckers tight. She said it was the best orgasm she has ever had, and now wants me to use the chain more often in our encounters

I took some pictures of her in her bindings, but ill have to ask her before i even think of showing any of them here.

Once again thanks everyone

 

[chris9]

Great! I'm glad it worked out so well for you both!