Self-bondage

[Anguished_Amy]

I have recently started to explore my fascination with bondage. Since my SO doesn’t share similar interests I’ve been going it on my own. I have assembled a variety of playthings already in my brief journey. Recently this came up in conversation with a friend who unbeknownst to her SO shares similar proclivities. For the last few weeks we have been sharing secret pictures of ourselves in various stages of self-bondage which we both find very exciting. Can anyone recommend any good self bound resources or tips beyond never getting yourself into something you can’t get out of?

 

[TarnishedPenny]

The biggie is to ensure you have a way out in case of an emergency. The key dropped in a nearby bucket of cooking oil or something, but you’ll need something. That’s the critical one.

As to the how of it, there are lots of good tips online. You can even buy cuffs and such with timers.

Have fun.

 

[honeyandfur]

For rope, Shay Tiziano has books and resources on self-tying e.g. https://www.twistedwindows.com/bondagesafety

Greenery Press is a publisher of primarily S&M books/ebooks!

TheDuchy https://www.theduchy.com/ is a good rope bondage resource too.

That's the limits of my knowledge so far! Hope they are helpful!

 

[Hereinthe207]

I have recently started to explore my fascination with bondage. Since my SO doesn’t share similar interests I’ve been going it on my own. I have assembled a variety of playthings already in my brief journey. Recently this came up in conversation with a friend who unbeknownst to her SO shares similar proclivities. For the last few weeks we have been sharing secret pictures of ourselves in various stages of self-bondage which we both find very exciting. Can anyone recommend any good self bound resources or tips beyond never getting yourself into something you can’t get out of?

Male here but in the same situation. My SO doesnt care for tying, or being tied. I dont have resources, only experiences. Both good, and not so. Happy to chat and compare notes.

 

[Badguy4u]

I have recently started to explore my fascination with bondage. Since my SO doesn’t share similar interests I’ve been going it on my own. I have assembled a variety of playthings already in my brief journey. Recently this came up in conversation with a friend who unbeknownst to her SO shares similar proclivities. For the last few weeks we have been sharing secret pictures of ourselves in various stages of self-bondage which we both find very exciting. Can anyone recommend any good self bound resources or tips beyond never getting yourself into something you can’t get out of?

Don't know any resources either. However I chatted with a gal many years ago that was into this. She would get herself into bondage that required a key to get out of, but she would freeze the key in an ice-cube and have to wait till it melted to undo her bondage. Something you might want to consider

 

[Anguished_Amy]

That sounds incredibly hot

 

[McCullough]

I once found myself diving into self-bondage after a chat with a friend about our hidden interests. I started small, just some ropes and a few simple knots, but it turned into a fun adventure. The thrill of trying different positions while making sure I could get out easily was a rush.

For tips, definitely start with something you can easily escape from. Practice your knots and keep safety scissors nearby—better safe than sorry! I stumbled across some great resources at Klinik Bondage that offer a variety of gear and tips. Their collection is pretty inspiring and has helped me think outside the box.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I've seen guys do this in fetish clubs and I'm very curious!

 

[PintlerMan]

Big fan, mostly tying my cock and balls up, so many styles and textures on rope out there, the rope isle at Home Depot is my slide by sex store. (Lot of items at Home Depot to use, other than the use they where made for....just sayin)

 

[bondagebearuk]

It's very hard to find any good reference material on this subject, especially in my position. My problem is simple: I've been married for a very long time and we are 99% happy, for which I'm grateful. Unfortunately, my SO doesn't share my enthusiasm for experiment when it comes to the bedroom. I've resorted to SB for a long time and all was well, as I could indulge myself at work - I ran my own business and worked alone. Ideal! - until I changed my career and am now at home 24/7. I'm never alone! No space to indulge myself, nowhere to experiment, no room to relax and unwind with a bit of SB. Does anybody else have this problem and how do they solve it? I love my other half and taking a fuck buddy or visiting a professional would hurt her terribly if she found out, so I'm a bit stuck! Any ideas, please? I've already swapped out physical vibrators for E-Stim, as that is totally silent and have found a cock and ball harness that doesn't show under clothing. If anyone can recommend a source for widening my options, I'd be grateful!